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A smart & funny weekly audio series about sex, love, and dating from 4 queer Black feminist 20 somethings living in NYC.

Inner Hoe Uprising Inner Hoe Uprising

    • Sexuality

A smart & funny weekly audio series about sex, love, and dating from 4 queer Black feminist 20 somethings living in NYC.

    7: Plenty of Fish is the Florida of Dating Apps

    7: Plenty of Fish is the Florida of Dating Apps

    The hoes chat about expressing gratitude, Zaya Wade, puberty blockers and the mental healths of young trans kids, what to do when your date robs a bank, what to do when the comedy show date turns dark, dealing with jealousy, finding your g-spot and much more! 
    Hoe(s) of the Week:  Tawanna (aka Tawee-wee), Matina (aka Martini), Tamaj (aka Panini), BigEYEKnows All (#MustStayWoke...n****s creepin), Camillion Here Camillion There Tougher than Nigerian Hair, T Ray Ray, Vana Rosas Aguirre (aka Bad Bitch contest u in first place), Erika (aka Pretty Ricky), Kristen Doherty (KD!), Black Poly Pride: (you down wit BPP)  
    Bae of Week: Courtney Brame of Something Positive for Positive People Podcast
    Self Care Tip: reach out to someone who you feel like you should have thanked/expressed gratitude to
    Fuck That (Currents Events): Bills targeting trans kids are getting defeated in state legislatures and the date that turned into a bank heist. 
    Puberty blockers, gender affirming surgies, suicide rates in trans teens, and Dwyane Wade’s daughter Zaya Wade
    Fuck Me (Our Lives): 
    Sam: When comedy shows turn dark
    Rebecca: Dealing with Jealousy 
    Akua: Finding your g-spot
    HASHTAGS
    Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening. 
    SPONSOR(S)
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    RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES
    Black Poly Pride DC: https://ticketbud.com/events/e6755778-2f18-11ea-b04d-42010a717009
    IHU on Something Positive for Positive People: https://www.spfpp.org/podcast/spfpp-episode-118-self-health-care 
    WEBSITE
     InnerHoeUprising.com
    PAY A HOE
     http://Paypal.me/innerhoe
    https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising 
    WRITE IN EMAIL
    ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com)
    CALL IN VOICE MAIL
    (404) 491-9158
    SPEAKING GIGS
    Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com 
    MUSIC
     Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal
    https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by
     Fuck It: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR
    Fuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa
    Fuck Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR
     Fuck You: "Chandelier" Dramangar
    End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co
    ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY 
    Sam the G.O.A.T.
    SOCIAL MEDIA
    Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A
    Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin
     Akua | IG & Twitter: @heyyakuagirl 
    Rebecca| IG @thedarkestimeline | Twitter: @existncrysis |Tumblr: @noneedtomakebeleive
    Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego
     #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang #sexuality #lgbtq #lgbt #funny #agender #transgender #nonmonagamy #feminism #intersectionalfeminism #kink #porn #BDSM #dating #love #relationships #blackwomen #blackpeople #podcast 

    • 1 hr 1 min
    6: F*ckin Right Next to the Chips and the Sunflower Seeds

    6: F*ckin Right Next to the Chips and the Sunflower Seeds

    The hoes chat about how to ghost and let people know you’re only DTF with care, the new bill thats been introduced in congress to study the safety of sex workers, dating people who complain TOO f*****g much, biphobia, battling back against self deprecation PLUS we watch some awful porn together. 
    Hoe(s) of the Week: Camille (aka Camillion here Camillion there tougher than Nigerian hair) and Sydnee D (aka Syd Deez Nutz) 
    Self Care Tip: Check out @whatswrongwithmollymargaret (https://www.instagram.com/whatswrongwithmollymargaret/) on Instagram for texting templates on how to deal with potentially awkward sexual and romantic conversations and how to put certain identifiers on your dating app profiles
    Fuck That (Currents Events): Sex in the snack aisle: Gas station faces possible closure over porn video
     Points of discussion include: pornhub, exhibitionism, and the porn star @fellarunitall, men centric pornography 
    PoliDICKZ: Elizabeth Warren on Criminal Justice Reform (sex work, the violence against women act, rape kit backlogs and more) 
    Fuck Me (Our Lives):  
    Rebecca: Working on self deprecation 
    Sam: I hate MFers who complain a lot
    Fuck You (Your Lives): 
    A 29 year old queer Black femme tells us about her experience with bi-phobia and politics on dating apps. 
    HASHTAGS
    Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening. 
    SPONSOR(S)
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    CONTENT WARNING(S)
    Brief discussion about the sexual assault of a minor - 26:03 - 26:25
    RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES
    To find the gas station porn you can search: “35TH AND TOWNSEND GAS STATION SURVEILLANCE VIDEO LEAK” on porn hub
    WEBSITE
     InnerHoeUprising.com
    PAY A HOE
     http://Paypal.me/innerhoe
    https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising 
    WRITE IN EMAIL
    ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com)
    CALL IN VOICE MAIL
    (404) 491-9158
    SPEAKING GIGS
    Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com 
    MUSIC
     Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal
    https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by
     Fuck It: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR
    Fuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa
    Fuck Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR
     Fuck You: "Chandelier" Dramangar
    End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co
    ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY 
    Sam aka the Audio Unicorn
    SOCIAL MEDIA
    Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A
    Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin
    Rebecca| IG @thedarkestimeline | Twitter: @existncrysis |Tumblr: @noneedtomakebeleive
    Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego
    Rob | IG: @clint.yeetwood Art IG: @vanta.blaq | Twitter: @robthe_god
     #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang 

    • 1 hr 4 min
    5: I’m Just Sitting On Faces Now, Ya Know?

    5: I’m Just Sitting On Faces Now, Ya Know?

    The hoes chat about the life and times of Bayard Rustin -- the Black gay civil rights leader who went to jail 70 years ago kinda just for being gay, cute dates for film nerds and history buffs, how rape culture hurts men, sexuality and anti-depressants, sexuality, weight, face sitting and body image, and much more!
    Hoe(s) of the Week:  Terrell J (tee ray ray), Raymah, Ash, and Tawanna, & Dyme 203
    Fuck That (Currents Events): California lawmakers ask Governor Newsome to posthumously pardon gay civil rights leader Bayard Rustin. 
    Other points of discussion: Adoption in lieu gay marriage, anti-sodomy laws, MLK, Adam Clayton Powell Jr, and the conspiracy to stop the March on Washington.
    Fuck Me (Our Lives):
    Rodecka: Face sitting, Body image, and being comfortable with my own weight
    Rob: My journey with Sex and SSRIs (Anti-depressants) and a new found love of masc on masc porn
    Sam: Contemporary Art by white people is so weird sometimes.
    Cute Date Suggestion: Have  a Black women movie marathon
    Fuck You (Your Lives): 
    A Response to our segment on Season 6 Episode 3 episode “Sh*t Happens” about how societal views of male sexuality make men vulnerable to sexual assault and a subsequent lack of peer support. 
    HASHTAGS
    Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening. 
    SPONSOR(S)
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    CONTENT WARNING(S)
    Discussion about Sexual Assault and Male Survivors: 47:00 - 58:08
    RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES
    Film Forum’s Trailblazing African American Actresses & Images, 1920 – 2001 Series: 
     https://filmforum.org/series/black-women-trailblazing-african-american-actresses-images-1920-2001
    The list of films is at the bottom of the page for people who’d like to Marathon these films at home. 
    The episode “Five” is responding to in their listener letter is “Sh* Happens”. They are referring to the segment that begins at the  19:24  time mark. Click below for direct links to that episode.
    Apple (https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/inner-hoe-uprising/id1057045285?mt=2) : https://apple.co/2RFvNHx
    Soundcloud (https://soundcloud.com/innerhoeuprising) : https://bit.ly/2NKZqGb
    RAINN Hotline:
    If you or a man that you know is a survivor of sexual assault (or a survivor of any gender) and needs space to talk about it you can hit up RAINN -- the rape, abuse, and incest national network. You can call their 24/hr hotline at  800.656.HOPE (4673) or hop on their live chat at https://rainn.org/
    WEBSITE
     InnerHoeUprising.com
    PAY A HOE
     http://Paypal.me/innerhoe
    https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising 
    WRITE IN EMAIL
    ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com)
    CALL IN VOICE MAIL
    (404) 491-9158
    SPEAKING GIGS
    Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com 
    MUSIC
     Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal
    https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by
     
    Fuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa
    Fuck Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR
     Fuck You: "Chandelier" Dramangar
    End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co
    ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY 
    Sam Ray Ray 
    SOCIAL MEDIA
    Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A
    Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin
     Akua | IG & Twitter: @heyyakuagirl 
    Rebecca| IG @thedarkestimeline | Twitter: @existncrysis |Tumblr: @noneedtomakebeleive
    Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego
    Rob | IG: @clint.yeetw

    • 1 hr
    4: True Life: I Was Ghosted by a 9/11 Conspiracy Theorist

    4: True Life: I Was Ghosted by a 9/11 Conspiracy Theorist

    The hoes chat about how folks in 2020 are defining and navigating political beliefs on dating apps,  shame and nuanced approaches to dating, losing friendships after pregnancy, and much more!
    Hoe(s) of the Week:  Emeka and Danielle E.
    Self Care Tip: A reminder:  Be gentle with yourself. 
    Fuck That (Currents Events):
    How dating app users are considering their personal politics when it comes to finding potential partners. 
    Topics Include: Tinder, OK Cupid, Climate Change, and Sam’s deep personal shame. 
    Fuck Me (Our Lives): The #HowSamanthaGotHerGrooveBackChallenge, Bad Boys 3, Personal growth, and Sam’s deep personal shame.
    Fuck You (Your Lives): 
    I feel disowned by my friends after giving birth to my first child, help!
    Topics include: Grieving friendships, pregnancy, navigating relationships with depression, life stages, and a tad bit more on Sam’s deep personal shame. 
    HASHTAGS
    Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening. 
    SPONSOR(S)
    You! Thanks for your continued support homies!
    RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES
    New York Times Politics and Dating Survey is closes but here’s the article that came of it:  https://www.nytimes.com/2020/01/18/reader-center/politics-dating-apps.html
    & Here are the Questions:
    Do you screen potential dates for their political beliefs on dating apps? If so how?
    How do you signal your own political beliefs on your dating profiles?
    Are there lines you won’t cross when it comes to dating someone who disagrees with you on a politically charged topic?
    How important are a person’s politics when you’re dating or beginning a relationship?
    WEBSITE
     InnerHoeUprising.com
    PAY A HOE
     http://Paypal.me/innerhoe
    https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising 
    WRITE IN EMAIL
    ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com)
    CALL IN VOICE MAIL
    (404) 491-9158
    SPEAKING GIGS
    Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com 
    MUSIC
     Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal
    https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by
     
    Fuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa
    Fuck Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR
     Fuck You: "Chandelier" Dramangar
    End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co
    ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY 
    Name Your Shame Sam
    SOCIAL MEDIA
    Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A
    Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin
     Akua | IG & Twitter: @heyyakuagirl 
    Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego
     #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang 

    • 1 hr 10 min
    3: Sh*t Happens

    3: Sh*t Happens

    The Hoes chat about why you don’t need to stay hard for 4 hours, how antiquated ideas about sex and sexuality hurt da boys, the new Netflix film about a Black Cam Girl in the early 90s, group sex, and shitting yo pants. 
    Hoe(s) of the Week: Kitty L and Amber R. 
    Self Care Tip:  Manage your expectations
    Fuck That (Currents Events):
    The man who took bull stimulant to stay hard and the new book that reveals some obvious truths about what sex, love, and dating means to young men. 
    Viagra, erections, the pressure to stay hard. Peggy Orenstein’s “Boys & Sex: Young Men on Hookups, Love, Porn, Consent, and Navigating the New Masculinity,” and a brief tangent on the Aaron Hernandez documentary. 
    Fuck Me (Our Lives):
    Group Sex, sometimes you soil yourself in front of your partner and thats okay, being “jazzed to date,” and Numa Perrier’s new film Jezebel
    HASHTAGS
    Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening. 
    SPONSOR(S)
    Get accessible, affordable, private therapy online with Better Help. For 10% off your first month of Tele-therapy visit betterhelp.com/IHU
    CONTENT WARNING(S)
    Sexual Assault: 00:32:08 - 00:33:30
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    Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com 
    MUSIC
     Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal
    https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by
     
    Fuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa
    Fuck Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR
    End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co
    ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY 
    Sh*tty Booty Sam
    SOCIAL MEDIA
    Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A
    Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin
    Rebecca| IG @thedarkestimeline | Twitter: @existncrysis |Tumblr: @noneedtomakebeleive
    Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego
     #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang #nonmonogamy

    • 1 hr 6 min
    2: Don’t Sleep on PoliDICKZ

    2: Don’t Sleep on PoliDICKZ

    The hoes chat about sleep, the young Black sex trafficking victim who’s facing life in prison for killing her trafficker, nude models and body shapes, dating while misanthrope, and PoliDICKZ aka your run down where the candidates stand on sexuality and gender. 
    Hoe(s) of the Week: Tamika and Elizabeth
    Self Care Tip: Akua gives tips on how to improve the amount and quality of sleep that you’re getting 
    Fuck That (Currents Events): Justice for Child Sex Trafficking victim facing life in prison for killing her trafficker — Chrystul Kizer
    Fuck Me (Our Lives): Sam doesn’t like people but thought Parasite was great film. 
    PoliDICKZ: A break down on Julian Castro’s proposed policies on sex, love, gender, sexuality and race — and why they’re important 
    HASHTAGS
    Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening. 
    SPONSOR(S)
    You can smell amazing, be toxin free, & save 20% off your first Native Purchase by using the promo code IHU at http://nativedeodorant.com
    CONTENT WARNING
    19:20 - 31:00 Sex trafficking, child abuse, sexual abuse, misogynoir,, intimate partner violence
    RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES
    How to Practice Progressive Muscle Relaxation: https://www.uofmhealth.org/health-library/uz2225
    How to Practice Body Scanning: https://www.mindful.org/beginners-body-scan-meditation/
    Bed Time Stretches: https://fitnessista.com/bedtime-relaxing-stretch-routine/
    Sleep Diary:https://www.sleepfoundation.org/sites/default/files/inline-files/SleepDiaryv6.pdf
    Chrystul Kizer GoFund Me: https://www.gofundme.com/f/handsoffchrystulkizer
    Chrystul Kizer Petition: https://www.change.org/p/drop-all-charges-against-incarcerated-trafficking-survivor-chrystul-kizer
    Jaoquin Castro Thirst Trap: https://twitter.com/Castro4Congress/status/1215093435247550471
    Who All was Running (2020 Dom Primary Canidates List: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2020_Democratic_Party_presidential_primaries
    WEBSITE
     InnerHoeUprising.com
    PAY A HOE
     http://Paypal.me/innerhoe
    https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising 
    WRITE IN EMAIL
    ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com)
    CALL IN VOICE MAIL
    (404) 491-9158
    SPEAKING GIGS
    Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com 
    MUSIC
     Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal
    https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by
    Fuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa
    Fuck Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR
     Fuck You: "Chandelier" Dramangar
    End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co
    ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY 
    Sam
    SOCIAL MEDIA
    Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A
    Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin
     Akua | IG & Twitter: @heyyakuagirl 
    Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego
     #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang 

    • 1 hr 6 min

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