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It’s Lisa Bilyeu and I’m PUMPED to share this episode of Women of Impact with you today about something SO important and SO hard to do, and that’s setting AND HOLDING your boundaries! 
And the amazinggggg woman here to help is the Boundary Boss herself, my homie Terri Cole.!
Terri has been on the show a number of times because she is SO DAMN GOOD at empowering women to put toxic people in their place!! And in this episode, she’s sharing soooo many amazing tactics and insights into setting and holding your boundaries AND how to deal with the people in your life and exactly WHAT to say to those who don’t respect your boundaries. 

We go into:  

- The 5 categories of boundaries & why you need health boundaries in all of them 

- Why boundaries are the best BRIDGES in your relationships, NOT BLOCKS!!

- How to get away from the manipulator who is exploiting your good heart to get you to stay 

- Actual word for word Boundary scripts you can use to flip the conversation and power dynamic when someone is blatantly crossing your boundaries  

- How to deal with someone who repeatedly & purposefully crosses your boundaries

- And MUCH MORE! 


So listen up homie!! Cause your comfort and your feelings frikin’ MATTER, and the ONLY person’s feelings that are YOUR responsibility are YOUR OWN – it’s NOT your responsibility to take care of the feelings of others!!! 

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Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement

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Introducing Inside the 2024 Met Gala from The Run-Through with Vogue.
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The Met Gala is here! Reporting fresh off the red carpet, Chloe and Chioma speak to Oscar-winning actress Da’Vine Joy Randolph and fashion designer Zac Posen. They cover their favorite looks and best moments of the most iconic night of the year. 

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Have you experienced relationships centered around physical attraction? Relationships can fall apart for dozens of reasons, and physical attraction and sex appeal are definitely one of the major reasons. The truth is, we are all having a biological experience as Tom puts it, and in order to have a long lasting relationship,you have to understand human nature. Luckily, there is no pressure or obligation to agree or disagree with it, but as human beings there are natural tendencies we are biologically wired for. Tom and Lisa have a raw conversation about the nature of men and women’s attraction to one another and what we can learn to value to overcome our biological impulses. [Original air date: 4-22-22].

Relationship Theory with Tom and Lisa Bilyeu encourages healthy, loving, life long relationships. Whether you are fresh out of your last relationship, on a break, taking time to heal from a breakup, or looking for ways to strengthen the romance and bond in your current relationship, Tom and Lisa are sharing their 20 years of experience. They’re taking questions and giving relationship advice that will enhance all of your relationships.

SHOW NOTES:
Nature of Attraction | Tom shares how important beauty is in a relationship [0:45]
What to Value | Lisa and Tom on insecurities and choosing what to value in yourself [7:59]
Losing Attraction | Tom breaks down the pain for men being viewed as harmless [10:31]

QUOTES:
“In life, you go through phases, enjoy every phase for what it has to offer.” Tom Bilyeu [5:29]
“I recognize the danger in valuing my beauty or my physique or how I look [...] I'm not attached to that and I'm not feeling insecure about it.” Lisa Bilyeu [12:50]

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In this week’s episode of Relationship Theory, Tom and Lisa discuss how stress can negatively impact your relationship.

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Welcome back to part 2 of this FASCINATING  episode of Women of Impact with former CIA spy Andrew Bustamante. 
And we are digging even deeper into the tactics con-men and toxic people use to target and manipulate you, and how you can protect yourself and shut down the abuser before it’s too late. 
Andrew is NOT holding back, guys!! 

We get into: 

- The system an abuser will use to SLOWLY manipulate you 

- Why it’s SO important to be cautious about who you trust and not let new people in too quickly

- How real world con artists like the Tinder Swindler, Dirty John, Ted Bundy, and Elizabeth Holmes target and hunt for their victims  

- How master manipulators use seduction, intimacy and sex to control you 

- Understanding the foundation and context behind seemingly suspicious behaviors in a person

- How you can slow things down, protect yourself, and make decisions in your best interest  

- And SOOO much more!!


The odds of you coming across a con artist is virtually guaranteed,  and learning these tactics can actually help you STOP the con before it starts and even potentially save your life. 
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If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu 

Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement

SPONSORS:
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Go to https://www.heytabu.com/discount/LISA15 use code LISA15 to save 15% off your order
Get 5 free AG1 Travel Packs and a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D with your first purchase
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Go to https://tryviome.com/LISA and use code LISA to get 20% off your first 3 months, and take control of your gut health today!

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If you’re anything like me and are obsessed with true crime and serial killer documentaries then guys, THIS episode is for you!!!
Today’s episode of Women of Impact is ABSOLUTELY PACKED with information and tactics so you can spot manipulators and their sleazy grooming process BEFORE they can sink their teeth into you!! 
Too many women feel helpless and powerless in situations where they realize they fell for the wolf in sheep's clothing. The reality is, 1 in 10 people are either a psychopath, sociopath, or a narcissist. And while there are differences between the 3 types of abusers, one thing they all have in common is that they will manipulate and con you for their benefit. 
This episode, with former CIA spy Andrew Bustamante, is here to educate and equip you to take control and protect yourself from people who don’t have your best intentions at heart. 
Andrew is the absolute expert in spotting these con-artists and has spent years of his life and career studying them! So he is super experienced, knowledgeable, and practical when it comes to spotting & shutting down manipulators. 

We cover SOOO much in this episode, including:

- The 3 warning signs someone is the “1 out of 10” and is actively trying to manipulate and control you

- The natural vulnerabilities most women have to being conned, and how to put up guardrails to protect yourself so you can avoid becoming a victim

- How real world con artists like the Tinder Swindler, Dirty John, Ted Bundy, and Elizabeth Holmes target and hunt for their victims 


And that’s just in part 1 of this 2 part episode!

Seriously guys, the odds of you coming across a con artist is virtually guaranteed, and whether it’s protecting yourself from a toxic romantic relationship, or protecting your grandma from a “helpful” neighbor that seems a little TOO friendly, learning these tactics can help you STOP the con before it starts and even potentially save your life. 

Learn your spy superpower: https://everydayspy.com/spyquiz

Follow Andrew Bustamante:
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Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcast

Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: 
Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ 
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ 
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu 
X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu 

If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu 

Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement

SPONSORS:
Be sure to get your copy of Lisa’s book, Radical Confidence, here: https://radicalconfidence.com/
Go to https://www.heytabu.com/discount/LISA15 use code LISA15 to save 15% off your order
Get 5 free AG1 Travel Packs and a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D with your first purchase
your first purchase by going to https://drinkAG1.com/lisa.
Go to https://tryviome.com/LISA and use code LISA to get 20% off your first 3 months, and take control of your gut health today!

ORDER YOUR COPY OF LISA'S BOOK "RADICAL CONFIDENCE" 
(NOW IN PAPERBACK & WITH A NEW CHAPTER!) & GET YOUR FREE BADASS BONUSES: https://bit.ly/radcon

***CALLING ALL BADASSES!***
If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be! 

*New episodes delivered ad-free, EXCLUSIVE access to hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, and so much more!*
Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary!

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