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A smart & funny weekly audio series about sex, love, and dating from 4 queer Black feminist 20 somethings living in NYC.

Inner Hoe Uprising Inner Hoe Uprising

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A smart & funny weekly audio series about sex, love, and dating from 4 queer Black feminist 20 somethings living in NYC.

    3: Sh*t Happens

    3: Sh*t Happens

    The Hoes chat about why you don’t need to stay hard for 4 hours, how antiquated ideas about sex and sexuality hurt da boys, the new Netflix film about a Black Cam Girl in the early 90s, group sex, and shitting yo pants. 
    Hoe(s) of the Week: Kitty L and Amber R. 
    Self Care Tip:  Manage your expectations
    F**k That (Currents Events):
    The man who took bull stimulant to stay hard and the new book that reveals some obvious truths about what sex, love, and dating means to young men. 
    Viagra, erections, the pressure to stay hard. Peggy Orenstein’s “Boys & Sex: Young Men on Hookups, Love, Porn, Consent, and Navigating the New Masculinity,” and a brief tangent on the Aaron Hernandez documentary. 
    F**k Me (Our Lives):
    Group Sex, sometimes you soil yourself in front of your partner and thats okay, being “jazzed to date,” and Numa Perrier’s new film Jezebel
    HASHTAGS
    Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening. 
    SPONSOR(S)
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    CONTENT WARNING(S)
    Sexual Assault: 00:32:08 - 00:33:30
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    MUSIC
     Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal
    https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by
     
    F**k That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa
    F**k Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR
    End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co
    ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY 
    Sh*tty Booty Sam
    SOCIAL MEDIA
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    Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin
    Rebecca| IG @thedarkestimeline | Twitter: @existncrysis |Tumblr: @noneedtomakebeleive
    Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego
     #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang #nonmonogamy

    • 1 hr 6 min
    2: Don’t Sleep on PoliDICKZ

    2: Don’t Sleep on PoliDICKZ

    The hoes chat about sleep, the young Black sex trafficking victim who’s facing life in prison for killing her trafficker, nude models and body shapes, dating while misanthrope, and PoliDICKZ aka your run down where the candidates stand on sexuality and gender. 
    Hoe(s) of the Week: Tamika and Elizabeth
    Self Care Tip: Akua gives tips on how to improve the amount and quality of sleep that you’re getting 
    F**k That (Currents Events): Justice for Child Sex Trafficking victim facing life in prison for killing her trafficker — Chrystul Kizer
    F**k Me (Our Lives): Sam doesn’t like people but thought Parasite was great film. 
    PoliDICKZ: A break down on Julian Castro’s proposed policies on sex, love, gender, sexuality and race — and why they’re important 
    HASHTAGS
    Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening. 
    SPONSOR(S)
    You can smell amazing, be toxin free, & save 20% off your first Native Purchase by using the promo code IHU at http://nativedeodorant.com
    CONTENT WARNING
    19:20 - 31:00 Sex trafficking, child abuse, sexual abuse, misogynoir,, intimate partner violence
    RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES
    How to Practice Progressive Muscle Relaxation: https://www.uofmhealth.org/health-library/uz2225
    How to Practice Body Scanning: https://www.mindful.org/beginners-body-scan-meditation/
    Bed Time Stretches: https://fitnessista.com/bedtime-relaxing-stretch-routine/
    Sleep Diary:https://www.sleepfoundation.org/sites/default/files/inline-files/SleepDiaryv6.pdf
    Chrystul Kizer GoFund Me: https://www.gofundme.com/f/handsoffchrystulkizer
    Chrystul Kizer Petition: https://www.change.org/p/drop-all-charges-against-incarcerated-trafficking-survivor-chrystul-kizer
    Jaoquin Castro Thirst Trap: https://twitter.com/Castro4Congress/status/1215093435247550471
    Who All was Running (2020 Dom Primary Canidates List: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2020_Democratic_Party_presidential_primaries
    WEBSITE
     InnerHoeUprising.com
    PAY A HOE
     http://Paypal.me/innerhoe
    https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising 
    WRITE IN EMAIL
    ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com)
    CALL IN VOICE MAIL
    (404) 491-9158
    SPEAKING GIGS
    Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com 
    MUSIC
     Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal
    https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by
    F**k That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa
    F**k Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR
     F**k You: "Chandelier" Dramangar
    End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co
    ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY 
    Sam
    SOCIAL MEDIA
    Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A
    Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin
     Akua | IG & Twitter: @heyyakuagirl 
    Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego
     #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang 

    • 1 hr 6 min
    1: Welcum to the Hoaring Twenties

    1: Welcum to the Hoaring Twenties

    Happy New Year! The hoes chat about porn watching habits of 2019, media literacy, Butt Stuff, Anti-depressants and sex, the Get Sam’s Groove Back Challenge and much more! 
    Hoe(s) of the Week: @Wowow_vanaa and all the signal boosting homies, Our Patrons, Alia Sterns, Yewande A. Whitley H, Alicia T, and Kyrstal C
    Self Care Tip: Practice Lateral Reading, Media Literacy and Fact Checking 
    F**k That (Currents Events):
    PornHubs annual user data round up and Vice’s annual “what people are putting in their butts” round up. 
    F**k Me (Our Lives):
    How Samantha Got Her Groove Back Challenge
    Rob’s SSRI & Sex Journey
    Akua has a dating blockage 
    F**k You (Your Lives): 
    I still have feelings for my ex International bae even though I’m in a new relationship. What should I do?
    HASHTAGS
    Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening. 
    SPONSOR(S)
    Get accessible, affordable, private therapy online with Better Help. For 10% off your first month of Tele-therapy visit betterhelp.com/IHU
    Make sensuality a part of your daily self care routine. Dipsea is offering a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/IHU
    RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES
    Patrons! New perks have been added to our Patreon page. They are access to a private Slack community and access to our weekly live stream. For more information on how to join the Slack community head over to http://Patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising and read our pinned post. 
    How Sex Changed During the 2010s: https://uproxx.com/life/how-sex-trends-changed-2010s/
    Here’s a good course on Media Literacy that goes in-depth into lateral reading: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL8dPuuaLjXtM6jSpzb5gMNsx9kdmqBfmY
    Pornhub 2020 Highlights: https://uproxx.com/life/interesting-insights-pornhub-year-in-review/
    Quiahuitl Villegas Episode: https://soundcloud.com/innerhoeuprising/i-got-a-spiritual-bitch-slap-from-my-two-spirt-femme
    Black and Brown Party Series in Tuscon: https://www.instagram.com/eltambotucson/ 
    WEBSITE
     InnerHoeUprising.com
    PAY A HOE
     http://Paypal.me/innerhoe
    https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising 
    WRITE IN EMAIL
    ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com)
    CALL IN VOICE MAIL
    (404) 491-9158
    SPEAKING GIGS
    Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com 
    MUSIC
     Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal
    https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by
     
    F**k That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa
    F**k Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR
     F**k You: "Chandelier" Dramangar
    End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co
    ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY 
    Speakeasy Sam
    SOCIAL MEDIA
    Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A
    Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin
     Akua | IG & Twitter: @heyyakuagirl 
    Rebecca| IG @thedarkestimeline | Twitter: @rebbyornot |Tumblr: @noneedtomakebeleive
    Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego
    Rob | IG: @clint.yeetwood Art IG: @vanta.blaq | Twitter: @robthe_god
     #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang 

    • 1 hr 14 min
    59: What’s to Cum in 2020 (and Beyond.....)

    59: What’s to Cum in 2020 (and Beyond.....)

    The hoes do a deep dive on what sex, love, and dating has looked like in 2000s and the 2010 and predict what’s to cum in the 2020s.
    Bae(s) of The Week: Sam’s Fav Podcasts
    Podcasts you should listen while we are on break: QueerWOC, BagLadiez, Marsha’s Plate, Tea with Queen and J, A Little Juju Podcast, Ms. Vixen, Man Up, Flash Forward, The Black Guy Who Tips, Sexually Liberated Woman, 1619 Project, Stush an’ Bush, Not Yet & In Those Genes 
    Hoe(s) of the Week:
    Everyone who made this season possible
    Self Care Tips: 
    Listen to your inner dialogue and continue journaling
    Cute Date Idea:
    Please have a roaring twenties themed New Years party and speak in the accent. 
    F**k That (Currents Events):
    The Hoes review the decades 2000-2009 and 2010-2019 from the lens of sex, love and dating. And then give some futuristic predictions of what sex, love and dating will look like in the 2020s
    2000s: Madonna & Brittany, Girls Gone Wild, Online Dating, Dating Shows, Gay Marriage, The Pregnant ManSex Tapes, Pops on Blast, Elliot Spitzer, Sex Work, Abstinence, Sex Bracelets, 
    2010: Democratized Sex Sells, The First Slut Walk, Rise of self-identifier “hoe”, Dating Apps, Emma Sulkowicz & Campus sexual assault, #MeToo, reclaiming sexual autonomy, Aziz Ansari, the millennial “sex drought”
     
     The 2020 Predictions: Corporations take over sex work, Increased gender violence, the rise of Alternative ways to fulfil our sexual and emotional needs, Folks have more pleasurable, kinkier, shame free, fluid, care-filled sex with lots of enthusiastic consent.
    F**k Me (Our Lives):
    Rob is on Zoloft and having a good time, and Akua and Sam miss romance.
    HASHTAGS
    Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening. 
    SPONSOR(S)
    Make sensuality a part of your daily self care routine. Dipsea is offering a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/IHU
    You can smell amazing, be toxin free, & save 20% off your first Native Purchase by using the promo code IHU at http://nativedeodorant.com
    Brighten up your life and make your home or office an indoor jungle. Head to rooted.nyc/ihu and use the code IHU to receive 15% off your first order of houseplants
    PODCASTS SUGGESTIONS 
    QueerWOC: https://apple.co/2DJlsnn
    Bag Ladiez: https://apple.co/2DLydxB
    Marshas Plate: https://apple.co/38hwEpk
    Tea with Queen and J: https://apple.co/2LDXxdt
    A Little Juju Podcast: https://apple.co/2YjRK1F
    Ms Vixen: https://apple.co/2OOTJru
    Man Up: https://apple.co/34SlhSD
    Flash Forward: https://apple.co/3658LPL
    The Black Guy Who Tips: https://apple.co/2Yiaqic
    The Sexually Liberated Woman: https://apple.co/38adVvw
    1619: https://apple.co/2DYQgRf
    Stush an Bush: https://apple.co/2OOTTPC
    Not Yet: https://apple.co/2reUjpD
    In Those Genes: https://apple.co/33JY0ko @InThoseGenesPod on Instagram and Twitter
    RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES
    5 Year Journal: https://amzn.to/2PfKkZ5
    Gratitude Journal: https://amzn.to/2Lp2o21
    The 00s in sex According to the Daily Beast: https://www.thedailybeast.com/decade-in-sex
    VICE The 2010s Made Sex Political Again: https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/gyza3m/the-2010s-made-sex-political-again
    WEBSITE
     InnerHoeUprising.com
    PAY A HOE
     http://Paypal.me/innerhoe
    https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising 
    WRITE IN EMAIL
    ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com)
    SPEAKING GIGS
    Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com 
    MUSIC
     Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal
    https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by
     
    F**k It: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa
    F**k Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR
    End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co
    ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY 
    Podcast Producer of this Dec

    • 1 hr 38 min
    58: I Got A Spiritual Bitch Slap From My Two Spirt Femme

    58: I Got A Spiritual Bitch Slap From My Two Spirt Femme

    Two Spirit Trans Femme Indigenous Rock Star Quiahuitl Villegas joins IHU to talk about growing up queer and punk, having a spiritual gender awakening, reconnecting with indigenous roots, Traditional Afro Latinx Music and much more! 
    Hoe(s) of the Week: @turtlexxo, veryone who wished us happy bidet; Angela D, NCSD Folks (Lakita, Leandrea, Matt, David, Desiree), PLUS Sophia and Chloe and Annie, and all of our new listeners 
    Self Care Tips: Flex & strengthen your introspection muscle
    Cute Date Idea: Attend a glass blowing or ornament making class to make a shared decoration for you and bae. 
    F**k It (Topic of the Day): 
    Quiahuitl — a two spirit trans femme musician and educator —  joins us to discuss her gender, sexual, musical, cultural and life journey. 
    Points of discussion include:
    Growing up In Tuscon Arizona, the (false) gender binary, Yoreme, Yoeme, Yaqui, Mayo, Aztec, assimilating into whiteness, the early 2010s, punk rock aesthetics, Salvador Bahia Brazil, Samba, Cumbia, decolonizing, retribalizing, Peyote, Sweat Lodges, Feminine clothes and expression, gender dysphoria, chosen families, fetishization, cis people being weird, dating while two-spirit, community and much more!
    HASHTAGS
    Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening. 
    SPONSOR(S)
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    RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES
    Inner Hoe Uprising @ STDENgage: https://bit.ly/2QPMe5c our segment starts at 1:41:00
    Ways to Flex Your Introspective Muscle: https://positivepsychology.com/introspection-self-reflection/
    Everyday Feminism Article on being 2 Spirit: https://everydayfeminism.com/2015/10/consider-two-spirit-identity/
    Geo Neptune’s Two Spirit Video for “Them”: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A4lBibGzUnE
    WEBSITE
     InnerHoeUprising.com
    PAY A HOE
     http://Paypal.me/innerhoe
    https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising 
    WRITE IN EMAIL
    ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com)
    SPEAKING GIGS
    Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com 
    MUSIC
     Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal
    https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by
     
    F**k That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa
    End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co
    ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY 
    My Chemical Samantha
    SOCIAL MEDIA
    Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A
    Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin
     Akua | IG & Twitter: @heyyakuagirl 
    Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego
    Quiahuitl | IG: @quiahuitlv | El Tambo @eltambotucson | @tacosauceband
     #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang #indigenous #native #twospirit #gendernovember

    • 1 hr 40 min
    57: Scientist, Youtuber, Intersex Person, & The Gayest of All Gays

    57: Scientist, Youtuber, Intersex Person, & The Gayest of All Gays

    Scientist, Youtuber, Intersex person, and Gayest of all Gays, Babalwa Mtshawu joins Akua and Sam to discuss her journey being an Intersex queer person living in South Africa
    First, Sam and Akua give some intersex 101, including definitions, condition descriptions, and misconceptions. 
    Points of interview discussion include: 
    Discovering that you are intersex, South Africa Khossa, Family dynamics, Coerced Intersex surgery, Androgen insensitivity syndrome, The Medical Industry and surgeons, Menopause, Hormone Replacement Therapy, coming out as intersex, pity, exotification, being a touch-me-not, body shame, sexual harassment, genetics, dealing with doctors, family secrets, 
    HASHTAGS
    Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening. 
    RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES
    Bad Bitch Affirmations: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/bad-bitch-affirmations-tickets-76587381921
    Intersex 101 Notes: https://isna.org/faq/
    RadioLab Gonads Series: https://www.wnycstudios.org/podcasts/radiolab/projects/radiolab-presents-gonads
    Babalwa’s Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCzIv_qDrHdBZ_pWMo3wudMA
    WEBSITE
     InnerHoeUprising.com
    PAY A HOE
     http://Paypal.me/innerhoe
    https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising 
    WRITE IN EMAIL
    ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com)
    SPEAKING GIGS
    Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com 
    MUSIC
     Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal
    https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by
     
    F**k That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa
    End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co
    ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY 
    Sam
    SOCIAL MEDIA
    Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A
    Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin
     Akua | IG & Twitter: @heyyakuagirl 
    Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego
    Babalwa | IG: @tomboibarbie
     #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang #gendernovember

    • 1 hr 47 min

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