Restore Yourself. Restore Your Marriage‪.‬ Shellie Anderson

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Have you ever thought that married sex turned out to be a scam?  If so, you are not alone.   Husbands feel scammed when the quantity of sex is not as high as they had hoped for.  Wives feel scammed when the quality of sex is not as high as they had hoped for.

Both spouses feel scammed for different reasons.  This will leave each spouse attempting to solve the problem with approaches that will meet their own needs, but not both spouse's needs. 

So, what do we do?  Listen in on today's episode where we discover how a simple shift can help us evolve with the evolution of sex and marriage for today's world.  

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Have you ever wondered why men seem to enjoy and want sex so much more than their wife?  While many might assume that its simply because their testosterone levels are higher, it's not the only reason.

The arousing shenanigans of procreation actually requires the man to have "pleasure in the process" in order for it to be successful; it's mandatory.  But this is not the same for women. The sweet spot of their most pleasurable nerve endings doesn't automatically line up the same way, and is located in a totally separate place. 

So, on the one hand, its completely possible that women are having ZERO pleasure during sex while still successful with the reproductive process.  They consistently experience "success without pleasure." But on the other hand, its completely impossible for men to be successful without pleasure!   For them, sex requires pleasure, consistently.   

So, what do we do about this?  Listen in on today's episode as we dive into some insightful definitions that shed a little light on what has been missing, then make a decision to start using The Intimacy Trek, and sign up for a FREE Discovery Session with Shellie 

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Have you ever wondered what approach a husband takes when he is feeling in the mood for sex?  Often, there is no strategic approach at all.  And even more often, the approaches they do try often fall short.

Listen in on today's episode where we look closer at a not-so-obvious trap about rhetoric that seems to be at the root of the many faulty approaches and quick fix attempts.  Discover 3 tips for having a better discussion about sex that benefits BOTH the husband and the wife.  

Have you ever considered that there could be some awesome intimacy insights that could be gained during this unique time of the solar eclipse?  If you haven't, maybe this could be your invitation to do just that.

Listen in as we discuss some of the obvious occurrences that happen in nature during an eclipse and how it can relate to intimacy.  During this time of transformation, when the sun is obscured by the moon, can act as a signal for our own internal transformation... as we allow the superficial ways of approaching intimacy to gain the corona (higher way of thinking) approach, with 5 eclipsing ideas.  

Do you want to try something fun with intimacy this week?  Then this is the episode for you.  And while many women end up on the short end of the stick when it comes to how much pleasure they are experiencing with intimacy, there is so much potential that has yet to be discovered.

Listen in on today's episode where we explore the ratio of potential pleasure that is possible for couples and how to advocate for it.  With the fun and adventure of searching for Easter eggs as a guide, you can create your own sexy hunt with a brand new challenge hidden inside the eggs.  Spring into this fun and easy activity to improve intimacy this week.

Did you know that there are a lot of married women who don't put the words sex and fun in the same sentence?  If you are a married woman reading this, it might seem like common knowledge.  But a married man reading this might be feeling like a freight train just hit him.  He may even wonder, how can sex NOT be fun?

In today's episode, we take a closer look at this concept and the meta-message that takes root when a spouse thinks that sex is not fun.   While it may seem like an impossible task to overcome, when one spouse thinks sex is fun and the other doesn't, there is a beautiful opportunity hidden within this opposition.

Listen in as we challenge this opposition and use it as an invitation, inviting newness and creativity to the table as well as a movement closer to one another instead of further apart.  Sentences are seeds for our intimate experience... so let's plant some fun sexy seeds!