196 episodes

We’re Cate and Darrell; an Aussie Swinger Podcast team & couple who share their journey into the Swinging Lifestyle. Join us as we talk through events, sex positive reviews, our journey and interview Swingers from all over the world.

Previously called Swinging Downunder Podcast

Wanderlust Swingers - Hotwife Swinger Podcast Hotwife and Swinger Duo

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.6 • 83 Ratings

We’re Cate and Darrell; an Aussie Swinger Podcast team & couple who share their journey into the Swinging Lifestyle. Join us as we talk through events, sex positive reviews, our journey and interview Swingers from all over the world.

Previously called Swinging Downunder Podcast

    Pants On / Off Swinger Friends: The Pros and Cons

    Pants On / Off Swinger Friends: The Pros and Cons

    Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
    Swinger Friends
    In this episode, we delve into the intricacies of "Pants On / Off Swinger Friends," a dynamic that blurs the lines between friendship and sexual exploration within the swinging lifestyle.
    Pants On / Off Friendships The Pros
    Explore the freedom and excitement of maintaining close friendships while also enjoying the benefits of sexual intimacy.
    Foster a deeper level of trust and understanding between partners and friends.
    Experience heightened sexual pleasure through the comfort and familiarity of established relationships.
    Pants On / Off Friendships The Cons
    Navigate potential emotional complexities and jealousy within friendships and romantic relationships.
    Struggle with blurred boundaries and the risk of misunderstanding or miscommunication.
    Manage the delicate balance between maintaining friendships and managing expectations in a swinging context.
    Is the Swingers Lifestyle Approach for you?
    Consider your own desires, boundaries, and comfort levels when contemplating this unique approach.
    Discover whether you thrive in an environment of openness, trust, and shared exploration.
    Evaluate whether you and your partner(s) are equipped to navigate the challenges and rewards of Pants On / Off Swinger Friendships.
    Join us as we dissect the nuances of this intriguing relationship dynamic and offer insights into who might find it fulfilling and who might prefer to steer clear.
     
    Mentioned
    Spicy Match Island, join us this July on a Full Swingers Island Takeover https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine 
     
    Swingers Events
    We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/
     
    Join us in Miami this May/June for Libertine Events Vices https://libertineevents.com/miami/ a Miami Swingers Hotel Takeover 
     
    Support us
    Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
     
    Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com 
     
    Love, Peace and Respect
     
    C&D

    • 1 hr 1 min
    Swingers Date + Foursome in Amsterdam

    Swingers Date + Foursome in Amsterdam

    Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
    Swingers Date Ideas
    Get ready to spice up your dating game with swingers date ideas. Firstly, we share what we think a date in the swingers lifeestyle is, then we take a break and tell a sexy story before sharing our top 5 tips to creating sexy swingers dates.
    In this episode, we're dishing out hot tips for picking the perfect date spots, from quirky outings to steamy soirées, join us as we reveal the secrets to sizzling swingers' adventures. 
    Swingers Foursome Play 
    In the middle of our date episode and the date that sparked this entire conversation is our Swingers Foursome Date in Amsterdam that ended in a fun, flirty play session in their fancy hotel.
    Cate talks about how comfortable she was with her body and why her jaw is now sore. We talk about being the perfect sexual wing person and why you really need to up your game when it comes to physical play barriers. 
    Curious about swingers foursomes and couple swaps? Let's chat.
     
    Mentioned
    Bar Rouge Amsterdam https://www.barrouge.nl/ 
     
    Swingers Events
    We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/
     
    Join us in Miami this May/June for Libertine Events Vices https://libertineevents.com/miami/ a Miami Swingers Hotel Takeover 
     
    Support us
    Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
     
    Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com 
     
    Love, Peace and Respect
     
    C&D

    • 36 min
    Swingers Mental Health - Swingers Health Vol 6 - Part 1

    Swingers Mental Health - Swingers Health Vol 6 - Part 1

    Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
    Swingers Health Vol 6 - Mental Health
    The Swingers Lifestyle is exciting, there are all these fun parties, costumes and new emotions to play with. But there is also the reality that with these new emotions and new experiences we need to consider what impact this might have on us, our primary relationship and the other people. In today's epsiode we're diving into the fascinating world of nonmonogamy,we’re going to dig into communication, boundaries, conflict resolution and more. She wants something, he doesn’t… how the f**k do we move forward?!
    Swingers Communication
    You know what the cliché is .. communicate, communicate, communicate
    Yeah ok but… really? Let’s get into it.
    What are the intricacies of effective communication, setting boundaries, and maintaining open and honest conversations.
    Resentment in the Swingers Lifestyle
    Let’s shift our focus to addressing the inevitable challenges in the swingers lifestyle. How do we deal with resentment and misunderstandings. We’re going to explore common sources of tension, strategies for conflict resolution, and tips for fostering a positive relationship environment
    Links
    Expansive Connection website https://expansiveconnection.com/enm 
    Instagram https://www.instagram.com/expansive.connection.coaching 
    Twitter https://twitter.com/expanconnect
    Pursue and Withdraw cycle https://drkimblackham.com/understanding-the-pursue-withdraw-cycle 
     
    Swingers Events
    We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/
     
    Support us
    Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
     
    Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com 
     
    Love, Peace and Respect
     
    C&D

    • 51 min
    Swinging Saved Our Relationship - UK Swingers

    Swinging Saved Our Relationship - UK Swingers

    Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
    Today we’re interviewing Jem and Daz, UK Swingers that seem like any other couple. They have kids, they go to the gym together, they lead normal lives. But that relationship was broken according to Jem and Daz and Swinging Saved Their Relationship.
    Swinging Saved Our Relationship - UK Swingers
    We’ve all heard creators, bloggers, podcasters… random swingers on the sidewalk give the advice not to enter the lifestyle if your relationship or relationship is suffering ‘’don’t swing unless you have a good foundation’’, ‘’don’t swing to save your relationship."
    Let's break down the taboo
     
    The Ups and Downs of the Swingers Lifestyle
    Let's talk about the realities of swinging. It's not always smooth sailing. How do you navigate the highs and lows?
     
    Links for this episode
    Jem and Daz Instagram https://www.instagram.com/jemanddaz  
    Jem and Daz Twitter https://twitter.com/jemanddaz 
    Jem and Daz TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@jem.daz 
    Shameless Care, STi Testing and ED Medication for the lifestyle (use code Libertine for $30 off) https://shamelesscare.com/?ref=Libertine 
    Casual Toys (use code Wanderlust for 15% off) https://www.casualtoys.com/ 
     
    Swingers Events
    We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/
     
    Support us
    Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
     
    Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com 
     
    Love, Peace and Respect
     
    C&D

    • 54 min
    Swingers Hotel Takeover Miami - Libertine Events Carnival

    Swingers Hotel Takeover Miami - Libertine Events Carnival

    Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
    Get ready for an intimate and revealing episode as Darrell, your host, turns the tables and interviews Cate about hosting a Swingers Hotel Takeover in the sizzling city of Miami.
    Tune in now for a conversation that goes beyond the surface and into the heart of the Swingers Hotel Takeover experience.
    Swingers Hotel Takeover Miami
    In this candid conversation, delve into the ins and outs of organizing the Libertine Events Carnival Swingers Hotel Takeover in 2023. From the initial inspiration to the unexpected challenges faced, join us for an unfiltered exploration of the behind-the-scenes world of the lifestyle community.
    The ins, outs and inner workings of running a Swingers Hotel Takeover
    Step into the shoes of Darrell as he bombards Cate with a series of unexpected and intriguing questions. From the whimsical to the downright curious,
    Darrell covers everything from the best moments to what went wrong during the Libertine Events Carnival Swingers Hotel Takeover.
    Brace yourself for an entertaining rollercoaster ride as we unravel the mysteries of what makes Cate want to masturbate at these events and discover the thrilling highs and inevitable lows of orchestrating an unforgettable experience in the world of Miami's libertine lifestyle.
     
    Links for this episode
    - Libertine Events Swingers Hotel Takeovers https://libertineevents.com/ 
    - Win a Prize Package to Libertine Events Miami https://swingershelp.com/libertine-giveaway/  
    - Meet and Greet in Brisbane
    https://www.opendoorqld.com.au/event-details-registration/logan-meet-n-greet 
    - Walkthrough the Casual Toys Penthouse Playroom https://www.instagram.com/reel/C0127OpuboT/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== 
    - Get some custom made Lifestyle Costumes and Outfits https://www.instagram.com/thetherapeuticdandy/  
    - Hashtag Open Dating App for NonMonogamous People https://hashtagopen.onelink.me/iDmG/libertine 
    - Shameless Care, STi Testing and ED Medication for the lifestyle (use code Libertine for $30 off) https://shamelesscare.com/?ref=Libertine - Casual Toys (use code Wanderlust for 15% off) https://www.casualtoys.com/ 
     
    Swingers Events
    We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/
     
    Support us
    Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
     
    Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com 
     
    Love, Peace and Respect
     
    C&D

    • 44 min
    BDSM, Health Journey, TikTok, SwingTok, OH MY w/ That Hot Couple In GA

    BDSM, Health Journey, TikTok, SwingTok, OH MY w/ That Hot Couple In GA

    Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
    Today I'm interviewing Ash and Russ aka That Hot Couple In GA on all social media platforms. We're going to be talking about their jouney and how they met at 22, started in a DOM / SUB relationship and eventually found the swingers lifestyle and now live out and proud with their faces on social media. 
     
    BDSM and The Swinging Lifestyle
    What do you know about the Dom/Sub relationship? Have you heard couples discuss their contracts and boundaries? Today we dig deep into Ash and Russ start in the kink lifestyle before moving into swinging. We talk about how their communication from BDSM assisted them in their initial journey.
    Spoiler Alert - they were DOXXED and we discuss how they lost friends and loved ones in the process
     
    Health Journey and Body Positivity
    Having both lost over 100 pounds each (45kg for my metric friends) Ash and Russ know what it's like to be lacking in confidence to join the swingers lifestyle. We discuss how this health journey helped shape their lifestyle experience and what it truly means to be comfortable in your skin.
    I put them on the hot seat and I ask if they are portraying a healthly lifestyle for those looking in on social media.... let's see what they have to say!  
     
    Links for this episode
    - Find Ash and Russ on Social Media here https://linktr.ee/Thathotcoupleinga  
    - Choking 101 Mens Health https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a26471117/choking-during-sex/ 
    - Choking 101 Sex With Emily https://sexwithemily.com/choking-etiquette-101/ 
     
    Swingers Events
    We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/
     
    Support us
    Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
     
    Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com 
     
    Love, Peace and Respect
     
    C&D

    • 47 min

Customer Reviews

4.6 out of 5
83 Ratings

83 Ratings

Just a normal Aussie bloke ,

Very real couple

Above all else you guys make me laugh 😂. I listen in the car whenever I’m driving and find myself laughing out loud. You are a great natural couple who are not “try hards” and have some awesome stories to tell. I love the sexy stories blended with natural humour and have learned a lot from your podcasts. The type of couple I would love to have a beer with sometime and share some laughs.
Aussie fan Phill

SF620 ,

Excellent

Love the openness and honesty of their adventures in the LS.
C has been excellent in responding to my emails.
Keep up good work guys!!!
Fellow Aussie.

Kelpiei ,

Better without D

My partner and I love listing to the episodes as they are very interesting… BUT we find D can sometimes be very condescending towards C and completely over bearing. He is very demeaning often disagreeing with C and arguing his point. This is when we tune off.

Sorry C…we absolutely love your enthusiasm, the clarity in your voice and the imparting of information, experiences and thoughts. But as a previous person wrote in their review, D is not funny and needs to tone it down!

Love your work C! ❤️

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