Hot & Healthy Menopause

Nicole van Hattem

Smart, often funny, and sometimes surprising. Everything's up for discussion: from divorce to dating app disasters, hot sweats, menopause myths, changing body image, family responsibilities, solo travel adventures, and challenging societal norms. Join me for candid chats, expert insights, and the conversations you wish you had. Subscribe here: www.nicolevanhattem.com

  1. 183 - Hormone Replacement Therapy: The Truth About HRT & MHT — From Fear to Facts

    2 DAYS AGO

    183 - Hormone Replacement Therapy: The Truth About HRT & MHT — From Fear to Facts

    Hormone Replacement Therapy — or Menopause Hormone Therapy (MHT) — has been one of the most misunderstood topics in women's health for over two decades. Much of that confusion traces back to one study: the 2002 Women's Health Initiative (WHI). In this episode, Menopause Health Coach Nicole van Hattem unpacks what really happened in that study, why it caused global panic, and what the research now tells us about the safety, timing, and benefits of modern HRT. Nicole also shares her own journey — a decade of trying to manage perimenopause naturally through nutrition, therapy, gut health, lifestyle changes, and stress reduction — before discovering that HRT was the missing piece. After finding the right balance, the transformation was dramatic: within days, her depression and anxiety disappeared. 💡 In this episode, you'll learn: What HRT/MHT actually is and how it supports estrogen and progesterone balance The real story behind the 2002 Women's Health Initiative study — and what went wrong How misinformation led to decades of unnecessary suffering The difference between synthetic and body-identical hormones Why timing matters — the "window of opportunity" for heart, bone, and brain protection The latest research showing how HRT started around menopause can reduce heart disease and all-cause mortality How to work with a menopause-trained practitioner to find your ideal combination The importance of self-education, advocacy, and updated science This episode is for every woman who has ever been told to "just tough it out," every doctor who wants to practice evidence-based care, and every partner or employer who wants to understand the real story behind menopause support. Because the truth is clear: modern, body-identical HRT is safe, effective, and life-changing for many women — when prescribed correctly and started at the right time. 🩷 Resources & Support: ✅ Download your free Menopause Symptom Tracker at nicolevanhattem.com ✅ Explore your inflammation and omega profile with the Zinzino Balance Test ✅ Discover Hot & Healthy Retreats — where calm, clarity, and confidence begin

    12 min
  2. 179 - Menopause & Loss: Finding Identity, Confidence, and New Beginnings in Midlife

    6 OCT

    179 - Menopause & Loss: Finding Identity, Confidence, and New Beginnings in Midlife

    Menopause is often talked about in terms of hot flushes, sleepless nights, and mood swings — but beneath those symptoms lies something deeper: loss. In this powerful episode, Nicole van Hattem — menopause coach, TEDx speaker, and host of Hot & Healthy Menopause — explores the many layers of loss women face during this transition, with honesty, compassion, and a touch of sass. ✨ You'll hear about: The loss of oestrogen and how it impacts body, brain, and emotions Nicole's personal journey of finding new beauty in the mirror — and how to change the algorithm to see ageing differently The loss of fertility and her own grief in never becoming a mother (plus the joy of being a dog mum) How midlife women can reframe their value in the workplace and show up stronger in careers or businesses Reviewing career changes and learning when it's time to slow down or shift direction The changing nature of relationships, intimacy, and desire as hormones shift Why our hobbies, food, and drink don't always suit us anymore — and how to adapt with humour The truth about identity and confidence in midlife, and how to rebuild them piece by piece Nicole closes the episode with her original poem, Hot Flashes & Farewells — a sassy, humorous, and uplifting reflection on loss and reinvention in menopause. 💬 If you've ever felt like you've lost part of yourself in menopause, this episode will remind you: every ending creates space for a new beginning. 👉 Book a coaching session with Nicole at nicolevanhattem.com 👉 Join the Hot & Healthy Menopause community on Facebook #Menopause #MidlifeWomen #MenopauseSupport #MenopausePodcast #HotAndHealthyMenopause

    9 min
  3. 177 - Coffee, Chocolate in Perimenopause to Menopause transition

    19 SEPT

    177 - Coffee, Chocolate in Perimenopause to Menopause transition

    Do you love your morning coffee or that piece of dark chocolate at night? If you're in perimenopause or menopause, caffeine may be affecting you more than you realize. From restless nights to racing hearts — even to magnifying hot flashes — caffeine can be both a friend and a foe in midlife. In this episode of Hot & Healthy Menopause, host Nicole van Hattem explores how caffeine impacts women in midlife and menopause. Drawing on research (including a Mayo Clinic study), she unpacks how caffeine can boost mood and memory for some women while worsening symptoms like hot flushes, anxiety, and poor sleep for others. What You'll Learn in This Episode: Why women metabolize caffeine differently in midlife How coffee, chocolate, and caffeinated canned drinks can affect hormones and liver health The surprising link between caffeine and menopausal symptoms (Mayo Clinic study) When to switch to decaf (and what "decaf" really means) Chocolate strategies: enjoy the health benefits without wrecking your sleep Sneaky places caffeine hides in food, drinks, and even medications Herbal tea swaps and retreat resets to help you break the caffeine cycle Hot & Healthy Tip: If you love chocolate, try sprinkling cacao in your morning smoothie or porridge to get the benefits early in the day — so the caffeine wears off by bedtime. Free Resource Download your free Menopause Symptom Tracker at nicolevanhattem.com to see how caffeine, sleep, and other daily habits affect your midlife health. Retreat Reminder Retreats are a great way to reset old habits like caffeine. With nourishing food, rest, and support, you'll give your body the space to heal and notice exactly how caffeine affects you when you reintroduce it. If you enjoyed today's episode, please follow, rate, and share Hot & Healthy Menopause with a friend. Your support helps more women thrive through midlife.

    7 min
5
out of 5
12 Ratings

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Smart, often funny, and sometimes surprising. Everything's up for discussion: from divorce to dating app disasters, hot sweats, menopause myths, changing body image, family responsibilities, solo travel adventures, and challenging societal norms. Join me for candid chats, expert insights, and the conversations you wish you had. Subscribe here: www.nicolevanhattem.com

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