24 episodes

A conversational style podcast by The Bachelor Australia Season 7 Runner up Abbie Chatfield, aiming to be just like having a thoughtful conversation while having a wine with your friends. Abbie and her guests will answer listener questions, doing the best to give her advice about dating, friendships, sex and all other facets of life and then do a deep dive into a topic of interest. Guests will include personal friends of Abbie's, people she admires and experts in fields that she thinks we could all learn from.


For Q&A questions, topic suggestions or corrections email Abbie at itsalotpod@gmail.com
Follow Abbie at @abbiechatfield and follow the podcast at @itsalotpod on Instagram

It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield Abbie Chatfield

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    • 4.4, 891 Ratings

A conversational style podcast by The Bachelor Australia Season 7 Runner up Abbie Chatfield, aiming to be just like having a thoughtful conversation while having a wine with your friends. Abbie and her guests will answer listener questions, doing the best to give her advice about dating, friendships, sex and all other facets of life and then do a deep dive into a topic of interest. Guests will include personal friends of Abbie's, people she admires and experts in fields that she thinks we could all learn from.


For Q&A questions, topic suggestions or corrections email Abbie at itsalotpod@gmail.com
Follow Abbie at @abbiechatfield and follow the podcast at @itsalotpod on Instagram

    23: STOP USING WOMEN AS THERAPY PLS w/ Soaliha Iqbal

    23: STOP USING WOMEN AS THERAPY PLS w/ Soaliha Iqbal

    TRIGGER WARNING: Emotional Labor 


    I wonder which woman you are using for free Therapy today ? 
    This week Abbie finally gets a chance to sit down and chat with Soaliha, who you probably know from the podcast group. Soaliha is all all round gem, and this chat is a testament to that. 


    In this episode, Abbie and Soaliha unravel that mess that is - Male toxicity and Emotional Labor. As women, it’s fair to say we have ALL been there to take out a man's emotional garbage. Not just boyfriends, all men. Safe to say, It’s A Lot! 


    Mentioned in this Episode 
    https://www.5why.com.au/everything-you-need-to-know-about-the-freebritney-movement/




    You can follow Soaliha on 
    Instagram @soalihaofficial 
    Twitter @soaliha_


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    If you would like to be on the episode with Abbie, Send a video to itsalotpod@gmail.com  and give an insight into who you are and why you think you would be great on the show. 


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    • 1 hr 31 min
    22: GLUG IT UP (Solo Episode)

    22: GLUG IT UP (Solo Episode)

    Abbie talks about being happy while being single, answers a question about a failed threesome, gives some advice on how to not fear that everyone hates you and describes in detail how to give a blow job (SORRY MUM AND OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS) The Daily Mail will have a field day.
     
    Ask Abbie: How to be Single
    Past Life Regression – Brian Weiss
    Feeld App for Threesomes and other alternate sex scenes
     
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    • 1 hr 2 min
    21: RED FLAGS! w/ The Bodzilla

    21: RED FLAGS! w/ The Bodzilla

    This week abbie speaks to April, also known as “The Bodzilla” all about flags in relationships. Not all flags have to be the Colour RED, Abbie and April breakdown the Red, Yellow and evn green flags to navigate dating. Discussing how we can be blinded by flags and allow certain behaviors to slip under the radar when we are with someone we THINK is right for us. 


    Follow April on Instagram 
    @thebodzilla


    Mentioned in this Episode  
    Vush  - Use code ABBIE for 65% Off 
    thebodzilla.com


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    • 1 hr 25 min
    20: BIP, NEW NOSE AND BANTS (Solo Episode)

    20: BIP, NEW NOSE AND BANTS (Solo Episode)

    TW: Suicide, mental health, abortion


    This week Abbie talks about her preparation for BIP and how she feels about being on reality TV once again. She then answers questions regarding her abortion, how to keep a FWB situation fulfilling for both parties and whether feminism has a place in Bach Nation.


    The link to Abbie's IGTV: https://www.instagram.com/tv/B7aSjvWFuSR/?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet


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    • 1 hr 3 min
    19: GET YOUR SKIN CHECKED w/ Gina Savage

    19: GET YOUR SKIN CHECKED w/ Gina Savage

    This week, Abbie is joined by the amazing Gina Savage. Gina discusses her ongoing battle with Melanoma and the incredible work she is doing to raise awareness and fight the illness. Gina shares her inspiring message around her purpose and how fundraising and awareness has sparked her drive to help those around her and make a positive impact on lives. 


    The chat is funny and heartfelt, just like Gina 


    You can find Gina here!
    Instagram @ginassavage1
    Everyday Hero Donate link 


    For more information: 
    Cancer.org
    Melanoma Information 


    If you would like to be on the episode with Abbie, Send a video to itsalotpod@gmail.com  and give an insight into who you are and why you think you would be great on the show. 


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    • 1 hr 25 min
    18: A PAGEANT QUEEN? ON A FEMINIST PODCAST? w/ Susana Danielle Downes

    18: A PAGEANT QUEEN? ON A FEMINIST PODCAST? w/ Susana Danielle Downes

    In this weeks episode, Abbie is joined by amazing listener of the show, Susana Danielle Downes. This is the first installment of a new kind of episode that gives you, the listener the opportunity to share Abbie’s platform. Susana is Miss Earth Australia, a bi-racial Filipino woman who we adore! In this chat, Abbie and Susana answer your questions on anxiety around dating, Owning your sexual pleasure and Susanas incredible story. 


    You can find Susana here!
    IG: https://www.instagram.com/sanadanielle/ 
    Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/SusanaDownes
    Her Podcast! https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/crown-and-song/id1513294022
    Website: https://www.sanadanielle.com




    Mentioned in this Episode  
    She Comes First - Audible , Amazon


    If you would like to be on the episode with Abbie, Send a video to itsalotpod@gmail.com  and give an insight into who you are and why you think you would be great on the show. 


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    • 1 hr 11 min

Customer Reviews

4.4 out of 5
891 Ratings

891 Ratings

Sarahw25 ,

OBSESSED!

I find myself looking forward to Tuesday’s thanks to Abbie and I have learnt a lot. I am empowered 💪🏼

AllKaytee ,

Love it

Just listened to the episode with Clementine Ford. Abbie is symbolic of the young new wave of awesome that is coming up and through and I’m so excited to hear it. She’s down to earth, relatable and curious. Looking forward to listening to more podcasts!

Kat_e2000 ,

Cringe factor high

The world of podcasts has become as overpopulated as the world of d grade celebrities. These “celebs” have appeared on a reality show, found 2 minutes of fame (infamy) and thought it was a good idea to capitalise on that via a podcast. There needs to be a moratorium on this. And this podcast is a case in point. Abbie is inarticulate, precocious and I found myself cringing after 5 minutes. Hideous.

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