We chat with the husband about releasing our new memoir, “if tears were prayers”, now available on www.SystemSpeakBooks.com (international orders accepted). The husband shares how reading the book helped him better understand the experience of DID. We discuss the difficulty of triggers in writing a DID memoir, and ask readers to care for themselves during and after reading the book. We share some about our writing process, and the framework perspective we took in in the layout of our story. We also process our feelings about the decision to release the book - and the growth in accepting our diagnosis and our progress since.