Save My Marriage Podcast

Aston and Adam Simmonds

We’re not here just to “fix” marriages. We’re here to help high-achieving couples remember who they really are, individually and together. To shed the roles, the resentment, the silent suffering and rise into a relationship that’s deeply connected, passionately alive, and built on truth, trust, and team. We’ve lived the disconnect. We’ve hit rock bottom. We’ve sat on the edge of “too late.” But we also know what’s possible when two people choose to rise, together. This isn’t therapy. This is transformation. This is the new paradigm of marriage. This is the Save My Marriage Podcast. Hosted by Aston & Adam Simmonds, relationship coaches and founders of Save My Marriage School, this show delivers weekly real-talk episodes packed with stories, strategies, and step-by-step frameworks to help you: Rebuild trustRekindle connectionCommunicate without conflictOvercome resentmentAnd recreate a marriage you both love being inNew episodes every Tuesday . Submit your question: https://www.savemymarriageschool.com/podcast Learn more: https://www.savemymarriageschool.com Start listening now and discover what’s possible when you Recreate Your Relationship.

  1. 23 hrs ago

    Why "Aligned Values" Doesn't Mean the Same Values

    Do your values feel completely different from your partner's — and does that mean you're not compatible? This episode breaks down the win-win marriage framework, showing high-achieving couples how values alignment in relationships actually works — and why "different" doesn't mean "broken." In this episode: Why couples confuse values alignment with being identical — and how this misconception creates win-lose relationships The real questions to ask to uncover your true values hierarchy (not the socially-approved answers) How value expression differences — like business growth vs. family connection — can actually benefit each other instead of competing The one-page values exercise Adam and Aston use with couples to turn values conflict into a win-win marriage ———— READY TO GO DEEPER? → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session ———— LISTEN ON: → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds ———— LEAVE A REVIEW: If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. ———— CONNECT: → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsimmonds → Facebook (Adam): https://www.facebook.com/AdamSimmonds11 → Website: https://savemymarriageschool.com/ READY TO GO DEEPER?  → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281  → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session LISTEN ON:  → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860  → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a  → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds LEAVE A REVIEW:  If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. CONNECT:  → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/  → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds  → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

  2. 5 Oct

    How to Stay Connected in a FIFO Relationship

    Working away is hard on a marriage but it's not the FIFO arrangement destroying your connection, it's the missing plan. In this episode we break down exactly how high-achieving FIFO couples stay connected through fly in fly out work arrangements, and how to build a coming home agreement that actually works. In this episode: Why both partners in a FIFO relationship are struggling  and why fighting over "who has it harder" is a lose-lose battle The five minute coffee check in framework for long distance marriage communication that replaces logistics talk with real connection How to build a coming home agreement that stops the role-switching chaos and resentment when your partner walks back through the door Why missing each other is a gift in FIFO couples therapy  and how to use distance to bring back spark instead of letting it become a wedge ———— READY TO GO DEEPER? → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session ———— LISTEN ON: → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds ———— LEAVE A REVIEW: If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. ———— CONNECT: → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsimmonds → Facebook (Adam): https://www.facebook.com/AdamSimmonds11 → Website: https://savemymarriageschool.com/ READY TO GO DEEPER?  → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281  → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session LISTEN ON:  → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860  → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a  → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds LEAVE A REVIEW:  If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. CONNECT:  → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/  → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds  → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

  3. 28 Sept

    "It's Just Her Hormones" Is Wrecking Your Marriage

    Menopause doesn't ruin marriages — silence does. In this episode, Adam and Aston Simmonds unpack why divorce rates and women's suicide rates both peak during menopause, and how emotional acceptance, compassion, and nervous system awareness can turn this transition into the making of your relationship instead of the end of it. In this episode: Why menopause removes your capacity to keep tolerating things that were already broken — not the cause of them The two very different experiences happening simultaneously for her and for him, and why neither is talking about it Why "it's just hormones" is the most damaging thing a husband can say — and what to say instead How feminine and masculine energy dynamics shift during menopause, and why surrender (not force) is the real strength How to move from criticism and blame back into compassion and curiosity as a couple READY TO GO DEEPER?  → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281  → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session LISTEN ON:  → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860  → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a  → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds LEAVE A REVIEW:  If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. CONNECT:  → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/  → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds  → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

  4. 21 Sept

    Why The More You Do, The Less Your Partner Does

    If you're carrying the mental load — planning, organizing, remembering everything — while your partner seems to do less and less, this episode names exactly why. Adam and Aston break down the over functioning under functioning dynamic and show you how to rebuild real partnership instead of silent resentment. In this episode: How the over functioning under functioning trap forms, and why it's perspective, not fact Why these patterns trace back to childhood roles and the beliefs that keep them alive The exercise Aston uses to reveal how much you're carrying that was never yours How control disguised as helping makes your partner feel like an employee READY TO GO DEEPER?  → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281  → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session LISTEN ON:  → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860  → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a  → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds LEAVE A REVIEW:  If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. CONNECT:  → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/  → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds  → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

  5. 14 Sept

    How To Repair After A Fight Even When The Apology Never Comes

    Tired of always being the first to say sorry after a fight? Adam and Aston explain why this pattern develops and share five steps to repair your relationship without waiting for your partner's apology. In this episode: - Why arguments turn into lasting resentment when you never repair - How childhood experiences shape the way you apologize or shut down - Five steps to acknowledge hurt, take responsibility and reconnect - How to validate your partner without agreeing or keeping score 00:00 Repairing after a fight 10:36 Why apologizing feels so hard 20:28 What repair really means 25:36 Five steps to repair and reconnect 28:39 Going first without keeping score READY TO GO DEEPER?  → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281  → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session LISTEN ON:  → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860  → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a  → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds LEAVE A REVIEW:  If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. CONNECT:  → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/  → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds  → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

  6. 7 Sept

    The Perimenopause Marriage Crisis Nobody Warns Couples About

    Perimenopause doesn't just change her body. It exposes everything your marriage has been tolerating for decades. If the rage, distance, and disconnection feel suddenly unsurvivable, this episode is for you. In this episode: - Why perimenopause doesn't create marriage problems. It reveals what was already there, and why hyper-independent women are hit hardest - How to shift from blame and labeling ("she's just hormonal") to curiosity and compassion. Why that shift changes everything - The move from complaints to positive requests: practical language that keeps your partner leaning in instead of shutting down - How the five-minute coffee check-in can rebuild daily connection fast and why doing nothing is the most dangerous choice you can make READY TO GO DEEPER?  → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281  → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session LISTEN ON:  → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860  → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a  → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds LEAVE A REVIEW:  If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. CONNECT:  → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/  → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds  → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

  7. 31 Aug

    Should I Get a Divorce?

    Most couples asking "Should I get a divorce?" are actually asking the wrong question and that one shift in perspective can change everything. If your marriage feels hollow, disconnected, or like you're living as roommates, this episode is for you. In this episode: - Why "should I get a divorce?" is usually the wrong question and what to ask instead - How emotional disconnection builds silently over years through thousands of small moments, not one big event - Why therapy and counselling often leave couples more defeated and what actually creates change - Co-created patterns keeping you stuck, and how taking responsibility for your part breaks the cycle READY TO GO DEEPER?  → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281  → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session LISTEN ON:  → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860  → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a  → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds LEAVE A REVIEW:  If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. CONNECT:  → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/  → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds  → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

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We’re not here just to “fix” marriages. We’re here to help high-achieving couples remember who they really are, individually and together. To shed the roles, the resentment, the silent suffering and rise into a relationship that’s deeply connected, passionately alive, and built on truth, trust, and team. We’ve lived the disconnect. We’ve hit rock bottom. We’ve sat on the edge of “too late.” But we also know what’s possible when two people choose to rise, together. This isn’t therapy. This is transformation. This is the new paradigm of marriage. This is the Save My Marriage Podcast. Hosted by Aston & Adam Simmonds, relationship coaches and founders of Save My Marriage School, this show delivers weekly real-talk episodes packed with stories, strategies, and step-by-step frameworks to help you: Rebuild trustRekindle connectionCommunicate without conflictOvercome resentmentAnd recreate a marriage you both love being inNew episodes every Tuesday . Submit your question: https://www.savemymarriageschool.com/podcast Learn more: https://www.savemymarriageschool.com Start listening now and discover what’s possible when you Recreate Your Relationship.

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