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SDC’s Seek, Discover, Create is devoted to helping you discover your own erotic journey. Whether you’re new to exploring your sexual boundaries, or seeking your next exciting adventure, we’re here to give you access to all the resources you need to illuminate the roads along the path of your individual sexual enlightenment.
Each show will feature experts in their respective fields, who will open your mind up to new ideas, so you can discover who you are and connect with SDC.com’s communities to create unique moments and experiences within your own erotic tribe, in a safe environment.
No topic will be too taboo as we answer a wide range of important questions about sexuality, relationships and health, with expert guidance from leading health and sexuality professionals.
You can unearth the ways in which you choose to express yourself freely, while connecting with like-minded individuals to join you as you explore yourself and your own needs and desires.

SDC Presents: Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver The VoiceAmerica Talk Radio Network

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SDC’s Seek, Discover, Create is devoted to helping you discover your own erotic journey. Whether you’re new to exploring your sexual boundaries, or seeking your next exciting adventure, we’re here to give you access to all the resources you need to illuminate the roads along the path of your individual sexual enlightenment.
Each show will feature experts in their respective fields, who will open your mind up to new ideas, so you can discover who you are and connect with SDC.com’s communities to create unique moments and experiences within your own erotic tribe, in a safe environment.
No topic will be too taboo as we answer a wide range of important questions about sexuality, relationships and health, with expert guidance from leading health and sexuality professionals.
You can unearth the ways in which you choose to express yourself freely, while connecting with like-minded individuals to join you as you explore yourself and your own needs and desires.

    Encore: BDSM: Mind, Body and Kink

    Encore: BDSM: Mind, Body and Kink

    Are you curious about kink and BDSM? Do you want to know why some kinky folks enjoy BDSM so much? If you want to discover more about the BDSM lifestyle, why it can be therapeutic, and how you can incorporate kinky play in your own life, you’re in the right place! Joining me, your host Lexi Sylver, for this episode is an amazing duo, Charlie and Arienne Williams of SexBecause. We go deep as Charlie and Arienne reveal their personal experiences with BDSM, and apply their clinical knowledge to our discussion about what a healthy dominant/submissive and/or master/slave relationship looks like, negotiating boundaries and establishing consent with your partner, and what after care can look like for different people in different scenarios. We also explore how and why BDSM can be considered therapeutic by some people, and how to kink it up a notch when the novelty of your BDSM play starts to wear off a bit. So tune in to join us as we shatter some crucial myths behind the kink.

    • 1 hr
    Encore: Erotic Stories and How to Write Them

    Encore: Erotic Stories and How to Write Them

    To celebrate the new release of her erotic book, Mating Season: Erotic Short Stories, our show’s producer and host Lexi Sylver flies solo to talk about erotica… and teases you with a sexy reading from one of her stories! She also talks about how erotic literature has become more popular in recent years, and how newer erotica is more diverse and representative when it comes to characters and settings. She discusses how gender, sexual orientation and relationship orientation are explored in her book. Lexi explains the reasons why people may enjoy reading erotica and all the benefits of reading and writing erotic stories and sharing them with their lover(s). She examines how erotica is an underrated tool of seduction that can be incorporated into your partnered sex life to explore new fantasies. Lexi discusses the benefits of writing erotica, along with some tips on how you can write your own erotic story. She wraps up by answering questions from the audience in Letters to Lexi.

    • 41 min
    Encore: Self-Pleasure and Better Sex

    Encore: Self-Pleasure and Better Sex

    What’s the big deal about masturbation? Why is there more shame and stigma for women when it comes to self-pleasure? Host Lexi Sylver invites sex educator and sex toy expert Julieta Chiara to discuss all the benefits of masturbation. They cover how self-pleasure is often rooted in shame, and how to change your mentality about touching yourself. Julieta offers tips for people looking to change up their masturbation routine, explore your body and experience more pleasure. She also explains how varying your repertoire can help improve your sex life. Lexi and Julieta discuss how mutual masturbation can increase the intimacy in your relationship and show your partner what you enjoy. They explore how sex toys can enhance partnered sex and how to communicate with your partner about what feels good and new things you want to try. Julieta and Lexi also talk about anal stimulation, warming up and how to make anal experiences more comfortable and pleasurable.

    • 57 min
    The Swinging Lifestyle: Opening Up

    The Swinging Lifestyle: Opening Up

    What is it really like to be a swinger? Mr. Mocha, the co-producer of the lifestyle podcast Ofacez, joins host Lexi Sylver to share some of his wisdom gained from over a decade of swinging. They debunk myths that newbies have when they first enter the open lifestyle and become swingers, and the importance of trust, honesty, and communication as being central to all types of healthy relationships. They explore intimacy versus sex, differences between cheating in monogamous relationships versus ethical non-monogamy, and the ways in which they enjoy certain freedoms within the lifestyle. Mr. Mocha also delves into some of his personal experiences of himself and Mrs. Mocha, who are an interracial couple, being on the receiving end of racism and discrimination both within and outside of the swinging lifestyle. He offers insight and perspective for those having trouble understanding the Black Lives Matter movement and systemic racism, giving actionable advice to create meaningful change.

    • 1 hr 5 min
    Encore: Strap-On Sex: Threesomes, Pegging and More

    Encore: Strap-On Sex: Threesomes, Pegging and More

    How can strap-ons help increase our pleasure during partnered sex? Host Lexi Sylver invites pleasure expert Luna Matatas to discuss the fundamentals of strap-on sex and the fun things we can do with strap-ons. They cover anal sex, pegging, strap-on play for people with vulvas as well as for folks with prostates, and how to incorporate strap-ons to spice up threesomes and other kinds of group sex. Luna provides her expert tips on how to know what kinds of harnesses and dildos can be used for different kinds of play, along with beginner and professional tips for tops and bottoms to make strap-on sex extra pleasurable for everyone involved. They also discuss how to communicate strap-on fantasies with their partner(s) and how to check in during strap-on sex to ensure everyone’s pleasure. During Letters to Lexi, they also provide their advice for couples new to strap-on play, pegging and threesomes, including how a heterosexual couple can prepare to have a spicy threesome with a unicorn.

    • 57 min
    Ethics and Empowerment in the Adult Industry

    Ethics and Empowerment in the Adult Industry

    What do you actually know about the porn industry? Do you want to find out how adult entertainment is evolving to empower women? If you want to delve more deeply into how pornography can become more ethical and driven towards female pleasure, join me today with award-winning adult film stars and producers Jet Setting Jasmine and King Noire, co-owners of Royal Fetish Films, here to share the insight and experience they’ve acquired after over 20 years in the industry. Jasmine and King Noire are going to challenge what we think we know about porn, and what they’re doing differently to help steer the conversation about female sexuality in a more positive and empowering direction. We talk about how good porn can help create positive change within society about the importance of celebrating female pleasure, and the beauty of the female body. We cover important issues like combating sexism, racism and stereotypes within the porn industry, and what it means to create ethical porn.

    • 43 min

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