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Mindset + Money + Mumlife

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Sexy Selfish Podcast Shona Gates

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Mindset + Money + Mumlife

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    Money Mindset Live Session With SA Mums In Busines

    Money Mindset Live Session With SA Mums In Busines

    Money Mindset live session with SA mums in business.

    This podcast episode is taken directly from a live stream masterclass in the SA Mums in Business Village membership. It was a fun session where I could share a bit of my journey and offer women access o some of my offerings and products in a high-energy way.

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    X Shona

    Motivational quotes. Quotes about success. Motivational quotes for success. Affirmations for self-love. Motivational quotes for women. Motivational quotes for life. Motivational quotes positive. Affirmation quotes. Affirmations. Abundance quotes. Manifestation for women. Law of attraction quotes. The universe has your back.

    • 31 min
    They Are Lying To You

    They Are Lying To You

    I see A LOT of coaches, gurus, and celebrity entrepreneurs out there flogging the idea that you have to take HUGE, SCARY, STRESSFUL FINANCIAL leaps of faith to succeed.

    "Sell your home"
    "Invest every cent to your name"
    "Live on your grandma's couch"
    "Maxx out a 50k credit card on the retreat weekend"

    And yes, you can do all that if that inspires you. If that type of action lights a fire under you and propels you forward in a soul-aligned way.

    But if it doesn't,

    If it stresses you out, shifts you into overwhelm and surrounds you with the energy of fear, desperation, panic, neediness, survival etc... then its probably not the right choice.

    Often, it's not the right choice for me ...

    And most coaches and mentors, don't want to talk about that. They don't want to acknowledge that people have different personalities, wealth ideals, backgrounds, socioeconomic levels, income levels

    They just want to tell you to take the leap, and if you don't your chicken shit. Because then it's easy for them to put it all back on YOU.

    They tell you that your letting fear win
    They tell you that your chicken
    They tell you your self sabotaging
    They tell you are not brave enough

    When the truth is really ... are you being honest enough with yourself?

    Are you trusting your soul, your heart, your guidance?
    Are you being called to this as you know it's the next right step for you, or Are you stuck in FOMO?
    Are you investing in every program and spending the money but not actioning any learning?
    Or are you scared to push out of your comfort zone a little bit so that you can stretch and grow?

    FYI - there is NO right or wrong answer to these questions, and you'll receive NO judgement from me, but I do encourage you ... be honest with yourself.

    Take a few deep breaths and clear your energy to actually hear the message your heart is trying to tell you.

    That answer is only inside you, but here's what I CAN tell you...

    You are ready for it, you can handle it babe, and I promise you will love it.

    Tap into the unlimited flow of the abundance that is your birthright...

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    X Shona

    Motivational quotes. Quotes about success. Motivational quotes for success. Affirmations for self-love. Motivational quotes for women. Motivational quotes for life. Motivational quotes positive. Affirmation quotes. Affirmations. Abundance quotes. Manifestation for women. Law of attraction quotes. The universe has your back.

    • 21 min
    2022 The Year I Got Diagnosed With Adhd (1)

    2022 The Year I Got Diagnosed With Adhd (1)

    Adhd

    2022 the year I finally had a good hard look at my physical and mental health, made a few changes, implemented some support and tools … and overall ended up with a complete proper legit ADHD diagnosis

    Adhd, thanks to things like TikTok and Instagram, has almost become the buzzword for 2022. I mean, I know this first hand. I posted one reel about how executive functioning messed with my day, and low and behold. It got over 500k views. The comments ranged from super supportive and thanking me for shining light on something so relatable to calling me “a fake”, “someone using mental health for attention”, “another person looking for an excuse to be lazy”, etc. etc .. it got so bad I turned the comments off.

    I’ve had my fair share of drama over the past ten years in business, but I don’t even have space for that online drama anymore.

    Sharing about a diagnosis in such a public way opens you up for many scrutinies. While I was able to get formally diagnosed for so many, this isn’t a reality currently. Due to long wait lists, lack of finical resources, lack of availability and lack of support.



    Today I want to share a little bit about my add diagnosis journey. I share the doctors I use and the referral and diagnosis process.

    Shall we dive in …

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    • 24 min
    I Quit The Car Search

    I Quit The Car Search

    I Quit the car search, here's why

    I don’t know if you saw this on my social media but a few months ago I started looking at new cars, my dream car my Jeep Wrangler is sexy but a guzzler on fuel, with fuel price increases and the amount of country driving I do to kids theorists appts, I felt the pinch …

    But after 2 months of looking at fuel-efficient boring cars and just not feeling the vibe.

    My husband came and smacked me in the face with a truth bomb “just make more money Shona, it’s not hard, just make an extra few dollars a week, there’s always going to be a limit on how much you can restrict, save, cut back …. But there is NO limit on how much money you can make”

    He was completely right, I gave up the car search and decided to manifest the extra from a place of fun and overflow …. And I did, almost instantly,

    Fear, scarcity, and my broke bitch mindset back in her box no longer needed or serving me in any way

    In this episode of the podcast, I share all about the mindset shifts that happened to me when I decided to stop thinking like a broke bitch!

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    X Shona

    Motivational quotes. Quotes about success. Motivational quotes for success. Affirmations for self-love. Motivational quotes for women. Motivational quotes for life. Motivational quotes positive. Affirmation quotes. Affirmations. Abundance quotes. Manifestation for women. Law of attraction quotes. The universe has your back.

    • 14 min
    Manifesting My Dream Home ...

    Manifesting My Dream Home ...

    Manifesting our dream home …

    While this journey was by no means an easy one and
    pushed us way out of our comfort zones on multiple occasions, it also proved to be an environment that truly was a pressure cooker for personal growth.

    Every day as I scrolled the real estate websites, I was forced to remem-
    ber my affirmations. Every time we put an offer in, I reminded myself to detach from the outcome. Every time we went to an open house, I had to tap into the feelings of it already being ours. Every time we lost an offer, I
    had to pick myself back up. Every time the tension and stress rippled out and left me snapping at the kids, I had to practice self-care and self-compassion.

    It taught me a lot. Mostly the size of your deposit doesn’t
    really make a fucking difference (we had a 6-figure de-
    posit and still had to jump through hoops with so many
    banks).

    Today on this episode I want to deep dive into our home buying journey .. during the middle of a global pandemic. and how unwavering faith in our vision, ended up with us purchasing our perfect home.

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    X Shona

    Motivational quotes. Quotes about success. Motivational quotes for success. Affirmations for self-love. Motivational quotes for women. Motivational quotes for life. Motivational quotes positive. Affirmation quotes. Affirmations. Abundance quotes. Manifestation for women. Law of attraction quotes. The universe has your back.

    • 32 min
    Lets Be Radically Honest With Ourselves

    Lets Be Radically Honest With Ourselves

    let's be radically honest with ourselves …

    When I sat down to write “goodbye money guilt” ( the second time because yall know I threw out the first draft because I wasn't happy with it ) I really wanted to take the readers through a journey.

    That scaffolding framework is what I used to write the book and take readers through the process of acknowledging their current relationship with money, identifying and finding the root cause of any limiting money beliefs and then consciously choosing new more abundant beliefs moving into the future.

    In today's episode of the podcast, I am going to give you guys the “in a nut shell” version of that process and make it super easy to understand each step.

    Plus tell you all about some of my own blocks and how I processed and moved through them

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    X Shona

    Motivational quotes. Quotes about success. Motivational quotes for success. Affirmations for self-love. Motivational quotes for women. Motivational quotes for life. Motivational quotes positive. Affirmation quotes. Affirmations. Abundance quotes. Manifestation for women. Law of attraction quotes. The universe has your back.

    • 22 min

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IngridCarter ,

Truth Bombs

I love listening to Shona because she is real and authentic! Says it exactly how it is, we need more Shonas in the world.

The tips are bang on and worth their weight in gold 🙌🏻

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BANG ON!

I’ve just listened to two of your podcast episodes around judgement and awareness and they were POTENT! Thankyou for your work Shona Gates, you are inspiring beyond belief ☺️

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An awesome podcast about all things money

I am addicted to this podcast. Her last episode dropped so many nuggets of wisdom about being confident in your product pricing - how to detach emotionally, normalise conversations and help normalise the prices you charge. I never miss an episode of this incredible podcast.