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Greenlights by Matthew McConaughey: why you need to choose words with more intention and less hate Steph's Business Bookshelf Podcast
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About the book
Matthew McConaughey has been keeping diaries for 35 years as a way of recording his thoughts and “trying to work out the riddle of life”. These diaries formed this book. As he puts it he “took a one-way ticket to the desert and wrote this book: an album, a record, a story of my life so far. This is fifty years of my sights and seens, felts and figured-outs, cools and shamefuls. Graces, truths, and beauties of brutality. Getting away withs, getting caughts, and getting wets while trying to dance between the raindrops.”
https://greenlights.com/
About the author
Matthew McConaughey is an American actor and producer. He was born in Uvalde, Texas. He is of Irish, Scottish, English, German, and Swedish descent.
He graduated from the University of Texas at Austin (originally studying law, before switching to acting) and got his first big break with the 1993 film Dazed and Confused. He later starred in A Time to Kill (1996) and Amistad (1997), among many others. Named People magazine's "Sexiest Man Alive" in 2005, McConaughey also starred in Mud (2012) and Dallas Buyers Club (2013), which earned him the Academy Award for Best Actor. McConaughey came on strong in 2014 with his starring role on the TV series True Detective, a project that propelled him even further on his star trajectory.
He lives with his wife, Camila, and children in Austin, Texas.
Sources: Biography.com, wikipedia and imdb
BIG IDEA 1 - CHOOSE YOUR WORDS
Matthew learnt at a young age to choose his words carefully. The biggest tellings off he received from his parents were for using two words; ‘can’t’ and ‘hate’. Because they were words that could hurt him. This early lesson stuck with him, he respected language, thought about it carefully and intentionally, and avoiding ‘can’t’ and ‘hate’ became more a value, rather than just a rule. He said in the book “words are momentory, intent is momentous”.
His family were quite ‘old testament’ in their parenting, he was also screamed at by his Mum for once answering to ‘Matt’, being told ‘you weren’t named after a doormat’. Again, showing the importance of words (and why the consequences of getting things wrong were high!).
This attention to his internal and external language served him well. Removing ‘can’t’ from his vocabulary gave him the grit to try new or bigger things before he may have been ‘ready’ or experienced enough.
BIG IDEA 2 - DON’T HALF ASS IT
This mentality turned ‘I would if I could’ to ‘I can and I am’. The attitude of not half-assing things lead Matthew to create his own opportunities, putting himself forward for leading roles when he’d been cast as a secondary role (or even a bit-part) and do whatever he did to the best of his ability.
This was the advice (well, more of an instruction) his Dad gave him when Matthew called to say that he wanted to switch from studying law, to studying acting.
He came back to this advice at several points in his life. From those early days of studying and initial acting roles, through to when he made the decision to stop taking rom-com roles, and wait for more serious acting roles to come up.
BIG IDEA 3 - ESCAPE
Every few years, Matthew would get the call of the wild and would need to go on an adventure. To escape and reset. He went across America in his van with his dog, Ms Hud. He rode across Europe on motorbikes with his friends. He went to South America for an adventure down the Amazon river and he travelled to Africa, to try and find one of his favourite musicians.
Each of these experiences allowed Matthew the time to create some distance between his daily life and time to reflect on his values and what was next. Each trip served almost a transition point between various stages of his life and career, and offered important new perspectives and insights through the experiences he had and the reflections they allowed. It’s an important reminder of
About the book
Matthew McConaughey has been keeping diaries for 35 years as a way of recording his thoughts and “trying to work out the riddle of life”. These diaries formed this book. As he puts it he “took a one-way ticket to the desert and wrote this book: an album, a record, a story of my life so far. This is fifty years of my sights and seens, felts and figured-outs, cools and shamefuls. Graces, truths, and beauties of brutality. Getting away withs, getting caughts, and getting wets while trying to dance between the raindrops.”
https://greenlights.com/
About the author
Matthew McConaughey is an American actor and producer. He was born in Uvalde, Texas. He is of Irish, Scottish, English, German, and Swedish descent.
He graduated from the University of Texas at Austin (originally studying law, before switching to acting) and got his first big break with the 1993 film Dazed and Confused. He later starred in A Time to Kill (1996) and Amistad (1997), among many others. Named People magazine's "Sexiest Man Alive" in 2005, McConaughey also starred in Mud (2012) and Dallas Buyers Club (2013), which earned him the Academy Award for Best Actor. McConaughey came on strong in 2014 with his starring role on the TV series True Detective, a project that propelled him even further on his star trajectory.
He lives with his wife, Camila, and children in Austin, Texas.
Sources: Biography.com, wikipedia and imdb
BIG IDEA 1 - CHOOSE YOUR WORDS
Matthew learnt at a young age to choose his words carefully. The biggest tellings off he received from his parents were for using two words; ‘can’t’ and ‘hate’. Because they were words that could hurt him. This early lesson stuck with him, he respected language, thought about it carefully and intentionally, and avoiding ‘can’t’ and ‘hate’ became more a value, rather than just a rule. He said in the book “words are momentory, intent is momentous”.
His family were quite ‘old testament’ in their parenting, he was also screamed at by his Mum for once answering to ‘Matt’, being told ‘you weren’t named after a doormat’. Again, showing the importance of words (and why the consequences of getting things wrong were high!).
This attention to his internal and external language served him well. Removing ‘can’t’ from his vocabulary gave him the grit to try new or bigger things before he may have been ‘ready’ or experienced enough.
BIG IDEA 2 - DON’T HALF ASS IT
This mentality turned ‘I would if I could’ to ‘I can and I am’. The attitude of not half-assing things lead Matthew to create his own opportunities, putting himself forward for leading roles when he’d been cast as a secondary role (or even a bit-part) and do whatever he did to the best of his ability.
This was the advice (well, more of an instruction) his Dad gave him when Matthew called to say that he wanted to switch from studying law, to studying acting.
He came back to this advice at several points in his life. From those early days of studying and initial acting roles, through to when he made the decision to stop taking rom-com roles, and wait for more serious acting roles to come up.
BIG IDEA 3 - ESCAPE
Every few years, Matthew would get the call of the wild and would need to go on an adventure. To escape and reset. He went across America in his van with his dog, Ms Hud. He rode across Europe on motorbikes with his friends. He went to South America for an adventure down the Amazon river and he travelled to Africa, to try and find one of his favourite musicians.
Each of these experiences allowed Matthew the time to create some distance between his daily life and time to reflect on his values and what was next. Each trip served almost a transition point between various stages of his life and career, and offered important new perspectives and insights through the experiences he had and the reflections they allowed. It’s an important reminder of
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