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Some people think that Highly Sensitive People are averse to sex because of their issues with sensory overload. Au contraire!  And here's why.


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Semen retention is a big topic on men's social media, but it's not really backed by science.  It is however a great commonsensical way to have a better sex life in various ways.  In this episode I discuss that while she should get off in every encounter, you may not have to, especially as you get older.


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For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com. If you need help with intimacy, my sexologist that can work in all states and internationally: https://www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com/heather-ray-certified-sexologist!

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Some men say that women want a servant versus a partner. They often say this is because of their own relationship, usually sexless, where their wife says she has an acts of service love language and also wants to make all the decisions. They think this may be the norm. Fortunately, this is not a usual situation, and is not representative of a healthy relationship dynamic. How does this dynamic arise and how is it different from a loving marital partnership?


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For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com. If you need help with intimacy, my sexologist that can work in all states and internationally: https://www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com/heather-ray-certified-sexologist!

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I did an episode on when your boyfriend won't go down on you. This one is even worse!  Run run run run. And here's what to do if it's a husband who's saying this.


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For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/

For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com. If you need help with intimacy, my sexologist that can work in all states and internationally: https://www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com/heather-ray-certified-sexologist!

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Often, female followers comment that there are many women who do "everything" in the home, but no men that do.  This is patently untrue, although if you have been raised to view men as "useless," then it can feel very true.  In this episode I discuss men who do "everything" in much the same way that some women do (e.g., https://www.drpsychmom.com/2014/10/23/reader-q-husband-adhd-ruining-marriage/).  Often, just as women are ashamed to admit when they are the higher libido partner, men are ashamed to admit when they do the bulk of the childcare/housework because this is counter to traditional gender narratives and make the men feel as bad about themselves and and their partners as women do when they are the sexual pursuer. This episode can help to validate men in this situation while also helping other listeners interrogate their implicit gender biases.


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Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://anchor.fm/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes; the most recent one is about when people have implicit "rules" about what is allowed to be shared with the therapist in couples therapy!

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For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/

For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com. If you need help with intimacy, my sexologist that can work in all states and internationally: https://www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com/heather-ray-certified-sexologist!

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Many of my clients who on the path of divorce (starting with separation through a completed divorce) struggle with their loss of close friends.  I have not spoken to any divorcing people who have not shared that they have either had conflict with or entirely stopped speaking to at least one family member or close friend due to their divorce. Why does this happen and how can you work through it? And you can read more about this here: https://www.drpsychmom.com/2022/02/04/why-you-lose-friends-after-divorce/


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