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Are you the woman who has everything except your man? Dating coach Evan Marc Katz will help you find him. Evan is the author of four books, has a blog with over 35 million readers, and has coached 13,000 women through Love U, his signature course that helps smart, successful women find lasting love. With a rare blend of wit, wisdom, and warmth, Evan is an invaluable asset to any woman who is frustrated with dating and wants to fix her broken man-picker. Each week, Evan gives tangible, practical advice on how you can raise your standards, set healthy boundaries and attract a high-quality, commitment-oriented man. www.evanmarckatz.com/now

The Love U Podcast with Evan Marc Katz Evan Marc Katz

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.6 • 25 Ratings

Are you the woman who has everything except your man? Dating coach Evan Marc Katz will help you find him. Evan is the author of four books, has a blog with over 35 million readers, and has coached 13,000 women through Love U, his signature course that helps smart, successful women find lasting love. With a rare blend of wit, wisdom, and warmth, Evan is an invaluable asset to any woman who is frustrated with dating and wants to fix her broken man-picker. Each week, Evan gives tangible, practical advice on how you can raise your standards, set healthy boundaries and attract a high-quality, commitment-oriented man. www.evanmarckatz.com/now

    How to Balance an Anxious/Avoidant Attachment Style

    How to Balance an Anxious/Avoidant Attachment Style

    If you didn't have a healthy nuclear family with loving married parents, its likely that you formed an attachment style that is either anxious or avoidant. But what happens when your anxiety turns into avoidance, and your avoidance turns into anxiety? This is something I see with women in Love U and a phenomenon that I felt was worth airing in today's episode. Your past doesn't have to predict your future; it just takes strength to make different choices with men.

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    • 15 min
    Why Dating Is Different As You Get Older

    Why Dating Is Different As You Get Older

    My readers often ask me to create specific programs for...

    • 26 min
    Are You Trying to Change Him?

    Are You Trying to Change Him?

    You know the narrative. Men suck. There are no good...

    • 15 min
    Should You Be Happy Alone?

    Should You Be Happy Alone?

    My smart, successful clients have all loved and lost. Yet...

    • 22 min
    Men Are About Feelings

    Men Are About Feelings

    While it’s easy to get mad at guys who overvalue...

    • 16 min
    3 Steps to Determine If He Gets a Second Date

    3 Steps to Determine If He Gets a Second Date

    When you’ve had bad luck with men, it’s easy to...

    • 17 min

Customer Reviews

4.6 out of 5
25 Ratings

25 Ratings

Izzfizz** ,

Thank you so much Evan

Hello,

I was in a very unhappy marriage for 20 years. I started dating again after 7 years on my own and to my delight, met a lovely man quite soon afterwards (online dating). The universe was good to me as I had started reading Evan’s blog and I literally did everything he told us to do. What was most helpful, comforting and illuminating was the advice that in the beginning your only job is to say yes. If he calls, and you want to take the call, do it. If he asks you on a date, and you want to go, say yes. If he leans in for a kiss and you want to kiss him, say yes. “He will show you who he is”. That was in 2015 and we have been very happily married since 2019. He really loves me and shows up for me, I feel totally safe, heard and respected. I don’t know if I would have been able to be as calm and confident as I was in the beginning if I hadn’t had the huge benefit of your so generous, intelligent and considered advice. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for helping me to be in a wonderful wonderful marriage.

Smurfs hater ,

Fabulous advice

I have binge listened to Evan’s advice and have now found myself in the relationship I deserve. Clear, practical and sensible messages. The only dating podcast worth listening to. Thanks Evan!!

Canuck-Aussie girl ,

Fantastic advice for every age

I’ve been listening and reading for a few years now and Evan’s advice has guided me extremely well - it’s like having the big brother I never had! I’m divorced and in my early 50s and I wish I knew back then what I know now. Evan’s advice resonates very well with me. Even though I’m in a great relationship now I still find his podcasts enlightening! Thank you Evan!

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