The Wrestle in Singleness Pieces Of Me

This piece took months to write. Most of the content has been pulled from private journal entries along with prayers and petitions to God. As a 30 something single woman, I have many questions about my future status. As I continue to seek God in singleness, I’ve learned to rest in the tension of contentment and longing. Even though I am content, I also grieve an unfulfilled desire. It’s okay to feel both. I hope this gives singles in the church a voice. Unfortunately, the church has brushed us aside in many ways, sort of like a “come back when you’re married” mentality. But single brothers and sisters, God sees you. You are important. You have value. Whether a pastor, fellow church goer or potential mate chooses to not see it, doesn’t mean it isn’t there. Your value is in Jesus, not in marital status.