30 episodes

Wonderfully Done is a wholesome show about sex, communication and loving yourself.

Lauren & Vix share regular opinions and advice for all your curious questions about sex, relationships, love and everything in between. This is an explicitly shame-free, supportive space.

If you have a burning question, we would love to hear it! Slide into our DMs with your questions @donewonderfully on Twitter, or slip us an anonymous message at curiouscat.qa/wonderfullydone!

Wonderfully Done: Wholesome Sex and Dating Advice wonderfullydone

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.9 • 15 Ratings

Wonderfully Done is a wholesome show about sex, communication and loving yourself.

Lauren & Vix share regular opinions and advice for all your curious questions about sex, relationships, love and everything in between. This is an explicitly shame-free, supportive space.

If you have a burning question, we would love to hear it! Slide into our DMs with your questions @donewonderfully on Twitter, or slip us an anonymous message at curiouscat.qa/wonderfullydone!

    Horny Horror and Freaky Fornication

    Horny Horror and Freaky Fornication

    It’s true! Wonderfully Done is back again for a fresh season of horny and wholesome content! We couldn't miss the opportunity to kick things off with a spooky themed episode. 🎃🖤 Is it a trick or a treat, though? You’ll have to be the judge! 


     


    Topics we explore in this episode:



    What makes Halloween sexy? Why are us queers super into it?

    Our Horny Horror Movie recommendations

    Costumes: Strategically hot? Occasionally terrible?





    Robust discussions on the fuckability of some classic MONSTERS
    Our selections include:



    Swamp monsters

    Ghosts

    Vampires

    Mothman

    Werewolves

    Witches/Warlocks

    Frankenstein / Zombies

    Shapeshifters

    Goo creatures 

    Tentacle monsters





    Our Horny Horror Movie List:


    Jennifer's Body

    Ginger Snaps

    The Mummy

    The Shape of Water

    The Love Witch

    Eyes Wide Shut

    Rocky Horror Picture Show

    Bride of Chucky

    Queen of the Damned

    Dusk till Dawn

    Interview with the Vampire

    Bram Stoker's Dracula


    What other movies do you love for Halloween? We’d love to know!



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    Lots of love,
    Lauren and Vix 💋

    • 1 hr 7 min
    Pegging Pleasure and Finding Confidence

    Pegging Pleasure and Finding Confidence

    The end of Season Two has arrived! ❤️ To you we offer a special Anal August treat, and vulnerable chats about body feels and journeys of personal sexual freedom.


    CW: This episode has some heavy exploration of body image issues and fatphobia



    Topics we explore in this episode:


    Broaching the desire for pegging with a cis het male partner

    Practical advice on developing self esteem & confidence

    Fat liberation, body neutrality, body acceptance and more

    The concept of sexual freedom with lashings of practical advice

    Thoughts and feelings about Season Two and what is to come


     


    Content and Creators mentioned in this episode:




    Book Recommendation:
    Intuitive Eating - A Revolutionary Anti-Diet Approach


    Written by Elyse Resch and Evelyn Tribole


    Health at Every Size


    Written by Linda Bacon


    Podcast Recommendation:
    WHY ARE PEOPLE INTO THAT?!


    Hosted by Tina Horn

    A fascinating podcast really getting into the guts of why people are into different kinds of sex, kink and more with interesting and thought provoking guests


     


    Thank you so much for an incredible second season, cutie beans! 


     


    Connect with us!
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    Lots of love,
    Lauren and Vix 💋

    • 50 min
    Queer Virginity, Talking Boundaries and Desires

    Queer Virginity, Talking Boundaries and Desires

    Hey there, sweet little biscuits! 


     


    Lauren and Vix are back with listener questions today as we approach the season finale. Woah! These are some spicy meatballs, full of challenging conversations that we’re sure many Wonderfully Done listeners can relate to.


     


    Topics we explore in this episode:


    Navigating partners hang ups when you’re a young queer ‘virgin’

    Communicating seeking support re: painful penetration

    Negotiating rough sex while inexperienced

    Voicing what you want ‘in the moment’ with partners

    Questioning boundaries in mixed sexuality relationships 

    Navigating internalised biphobia


     


    Content and Creators mentioned in this episode:


    Game: Later Daters

    Book: Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself by Kristen Neff

    Book: Emotional Agility by Susan David

    Ms. Elle X - Domination tips on YouTube


     


    Connect with us!
    Our Website: www.wonderfullydone.show
    Facebook: Wonderfully Done
    Twitter: @donewonderfully

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    Lots of love,
    Lauren and Vix 💋

    • 55 min
    Domination, BDSM, and Sex Work with Sir James

    Domination, BDSM, and Sex Work with Sir James

    Dearest sex and love nerds, today we’re talking about the D in BDSM 🖤 with a wholesome and yummy interview with a local Pro Dom in Melbourne. Meet Sir James! 


     


    Topics we explore in this episode:


    Anecdotes and lessons learned from kink and sex work

    Legal limitations for sex worker advertising and operating

    Stigma and misconceptions around sex work

    Tackling shame and helping partners find their kinky interests

    How to be a fabulous first-time client

    Tips for adding domination into your dynamic at home

    How to be an active, supportive submissive


     


    Who is Sir James?
    Sir James (He/Him) is a Pro Dom working out of Melbourne at Fetish House in Oakleigh. He’s a strong rugged man, specialising in services including Masculine Domination, Manhandling, Impact, Bondage, couples coaching, and more.


     


    Where to find more Sir James


    Twitter: https://twitter.com/SirJamesMedia


    Fetish House Profile: https://fetishhouse.com.au/fetish-providers/james/ 


    Email: SirJamesFetish@gmail.com


     


    Content and Creators mentioned in this episode:


    Resource: Sex Menu
    An awesome tool made by Dr. Stephen de Wit (Sex Therapist)

    This sex menu outlines a wide range of activities and gives you the space to rate your interest out of 5, whether to you to give or receive a certain act, if you’ve done it before and a space for notes

    Filling this in is a great opportunity to get in touch with what interests you in the world of touch, sex, pleasure, and BDSM right now

    Really fun to do alone for personal knowledge or with partners! Also makes for great sexy homework




    Fetish House
    The only custom-designed and built venue in Melbourne specialising in fetish, fantasy and BDSM

    Versatile selection of available professionals, including Dominatrixes, Masters, submissives and more!

    We love their extensive Etiquette Guide 





    Tryst
    Recommended listings page for independent escorts, with photos and lots of information on services, pricing and more





    Everything Harder than Everyone Else by Jenny Valentish
    A fabulous new book focusing on ‘why some of us push our bodies to the extreme’, including a substantial interview with Sir James in the context of BDSM







    Connect with us!
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    Lots of love,
    Lauren and Vix 💋

    • 1 hr 25 min
    Body Acceptance, Sexy Comics and Being Ace with Hien Pham

    Body Acceptance, Sexy Comics and Being Ace with Hien Pham

    “Honestly when it’s just me… I really do like my body.” - Hien Pham


     


    We’ve had a bunch of messages from Wonderfully Done listeners asking for us to have a lovely ace guest. Well! We recently had the absolute pleasure of interviewing a dear friend of ours, Hien Pham. As well as being a brilliant (and often smutty) artist, Hien is gay, gray-ace and an advocate of body acceptance and sex positivity - everything we love! 


     


    Who is Hien Pham?


    Hien Pham (he/him) is a digital artist specializing in gentle and optimistic queer comics.


    He grew up in Vietnam on war stories before moving and finding a home in Australia. His work revolves around respite, around caring and loving and being loved and cared for.


     


    Topics we explore in this episode: 


    Self-healing through creative expression

    Fat joy and fighting fatphobia

    Dating while ace, and dating ace people

    Being a smut creator while on the ace spectrum

    What even is ‘masculinity’, anyway?

    Vulnerability and how audiences can help break shame cycles

    Sex as character development, and ‘flaws’ as good character design



    Where to find more Hien


    Support Hien on Patreon: http://patreon.com/wavingpeople 

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/wavingpeople 

    Website: wavingcomics.com


     


    Content and Creators mentioned in this episode:


    Sex Education: Oh Joy Sex Toy
    If you haven’t visited them yet - GET OVER THERE!

    Wonderful sex ed comics from health, to sex and sexuality, to how to guides

    Sex toy reviews galore





    Comic: ‘Side Effect, Right Effect‘
    Comic for Oh Joy Sex Toy by Hien Pham

    A personal share about mental health, mazzing and being kind to yourself





    Artist: G.C. Houle
    An glorious ace non-binary artist

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/gchoule






    Comic Maker: Gina Biggs
    A comic creator of 20+  years with a focus on sci-fi, romance, and fairytales

    Runs Filthy Figments
    Described as ‘the internet’s premiere collection of Erotic Comics by an amazing lineup of cartoonists’ 




    Twitter: https://twitter.com/ginabiggs






    Comic Artist & Writer: Sarah Winifred Searle
    Referenced as the cool creator who talked about sex as character development

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/swinsea 





    Inclusive, queer and sexy comic companies: Smut Peddler & Filthy Figments


     


    Connect with us! 


    Our website: www.wonderfullydone.show
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    Lots of love,
    Lauren and Vix 💋

    • 1 hr 11 min
    Top, Bottom, Vers - It’s Sexy Glossary Time!

    Top, Bottom, Vers - It’s Sexy Glossary Time!

    With the rise of online dating, words and terms to describe ourselves and our desires are more prevalent than ever. The tricky thing about words is that many (especially in the world of sex and dating!) don’t actually have a singular meaning understood and accepted by all people. So what the heck can we do?


    Questions we ask in this episode: 


    Do we use any slang or language in our own dating profiles?

    Do we use labels? How do labels help us? How do they limit us?

    Why does slang and new language emerge around sex and community? Is it just like horoscopes, or what?

    How do we have conversations asking what terms actually mean for different people?

    When is it about understanding ourselves, and when is it about explaining ourselves?

    What should people ‘know’ or learn? When do we ‘need’ to know specifics?


    Words and terms we explore:


    Top

    Bottom

    Submissive/Sub

    Dominant / Dom / Domme

    Vers / Switch

    Polyamorous vs. non-monogamy etc

    Open Relationship vs. Ethical Non-Monogamy

    Labels like: stud, stem, femme, butch, otter, bear, twink (presentation slang)

    SW lingo: PSE, GFE, BBJ


     


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    Our website: www.wonderfullydone.show
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    Lots of love,
    Lauren and Vix 💋

    • 56 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
15 Ratings

15 Ratings

amingin ,

Awesome listen!

This podcast is a go-to for ways I can communicate taboo topics to friends and my significant other. So helpful thanks!

LeighLiving ,

Interesting and positive

What a fun podcast! It’s great to hear taboo topics tackled in a shame-free, positive and entertaining way.

Damoo_la ,

Just fabulous

A sexy fun podcast about stuff I want to know, but don’t always know who to talk to about it.

The incredible hosts are open, honest and celebratory about a topic that shouldn’t be as taboo as society makes it.

Let this podcast into your world and it will give you more tools for a fuller life.

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