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       Warning!!!!!!!!    IF YOU ARE A BITTER BABY MOMMA AND YOU THINIK THAT THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS ACCOUNTABILITY THIS PODCAST ISN'T FOR YOU.           THANK YOU 



As a woman who has kids by someone, you can call me a BM (baby momma) , but I am not that. My ex-husband, and I were married at a point and time. Now with that being said we are no longer together, and I understand that.

Understanding that he can move on and have a family with someone else. That man can also marry someone else if he chooses to, and that's fine, but don't think that I will feel some type of way about your new woman.

Women we should never think that just because we have that man kids that we control him. That man is grown and no matter how we feel we shouldn't try and keep them away or us the child as a pawn. I am dealing with the fact that he chooses not to be apart of his children's life, but picking to be apart of his other child life. As a mother is hurts, but I will never take away his right to come see them, pick them up, spend time with them, or even talk to them. Our children are older so they understand and know how to express themselves.

I am new to this, but I understand and always felt like this. I can't control him and I will not do that, all I can do is pray that he get the understanding that his children need him just like they need me.

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I have heard this being said so much these days, about women don't let a man lead them. That right there sounds crazy.

I thought that a leader is a leader at heart. NO one should have to allow you to do something that's within you, or that you learned how to become. I always hear as a woman that I act to masculine.

I am always hearing that I act like a dude. I wonder why that is. View this you are a woman that has a man in their life, but you have to ask 20x's for that man to do something like take the trash out everyday. View this that man tells you they do this, that, this, but when it comes time. When the moment comes for that man to do and keep his word it doesn't happen at all.

My experience in life is I had to be the one to pay for things, and handle things that a man would normally do for his woman. Yes, taking accountability I didn't have to make that choice, but I did. I also tried to work these little issues out. Understand that no woman wants to be masculine, it a position we are placed in because we dating/married to someone man that won't step up and do what he should do. That sweet spot in our hearts make us not want to give up, so stepping in that masculine role is something that we do, because we have to NOT want to.

If that woman is still with you step up, and do what you have to do. It's only so much that she can deal with before she has to walk away, because if she is going to do it she can just do it alone.

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    Being present is what I haven't been doing for awhile in my life, but also on my planforms.  I started the podcast to share with you a lot of information that would be helpful with life.   I haven't been present at all and I truly apologize.  I don't want to keep apologizing for things that I have been going through in my life because the truth is, these things doesn't just STOP!!!!    I've been going through these things for years in my life since 2009.     
   I don't understand why I go through these things sometimes.  At times I do understand, at times I give up and you all see that.   I'm tired of myself I am truly, but the only way for me to get over this part of my journey is to take accountability, and change these so called habits....    I want you to understand that I am a human that is still figuring things out in my life while I am working, being a single mom now (with support really grateful), and supporting myself in this life journey that I don't have a rule book to follow or go by.    Each day is challenging, and I don't know how I will get through any of the things I am going through, but I push myself and really try very hard to keep going.     
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    new single mom, dealing with mental issues, and handling the new life changes with my children and their emotions.   

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I thought this would be a great topic for Ep.1. I have written out different topic to speak on for Ep.1, but this is a great starter for S2.  

   So why do we have pet peeves like WHY?  Is that a thing. I believe our pet peeve are there to bring awareness to the things that we do, but it makes us upset when someone else does it.   

  As always I will tale about me I don't know about anyone else and I am going to be honest with myself,   the THREE things I will speak on will be;

  1. Practice what you preach. (Strong pet peeve of mine) 

  2. When people say "yall women" and they are really talking about you, but not being direct. 

  3. A liar  (this one is more stronger then the First ONE)

     I will go into more details about these in the podcast cause its a passion topic for me. Also I want to get you all thinking of some of the things that we do and get upset about when someone else does it. 

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Welcome to Season 2    Yayyyyy!!!!!!!!!!

     I am so happy to be back for SEASON 2,     Hitting 2020 off with  the podcast was great, and was a crazy experience at the same time, I say  that, because my family personally dealt with COVID.   I am just so grateful that we made it through that rough patch ending 2020 coming into 2021. 



I realize I can PUSH myself a little bit more harder, so let's make SEASON 2 pop off just right.      THANK YOU all for the amount of support you have given me  THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!  

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   Alot of people are always talkikg about causal sex.   Men and Women really casual sex?   

 Having sex without catching feelings can be done, but you have to understand and really agree with the verbal terms between you and the person that you are trying to have casual sex with. 

     Note: I am not speaking for everyone.  I am speaking for those of us who do have a heart, and want to share those moments with someone special.  At same time do understand that if he/she do go down that road that it is just sex and nothing more then that.    Understanding can get you through alot of things in life even those choices that you make that shouldn't have been made but was made.

     Men I can agree that you all have a better chance of not catching feelings, because you don't over think things and your drive to doing things are different then a woman.  Women we tend to do things and hear a man say that they don't want anything more, but that's not what most women hear.  They tend to hear something else, or think that they can change the way that a man feelings about her, some way some how.    Ladies we don't have that ability to make anyone do or say anything that they don't want or feel like they should do.  Guess what you have that ability too Ladies to control you thoughts and mine also.

Let's get into the KEY POINTS of the podcast;

  1. Why? isn't there an understanding to the verbal agreement that was made between you, and the person linking.   Women understand that he said what he said and you should think anything more.   Men stop thinking that your suppose to get a lot out of casual sex.  Sometimes men will try to get you hooked on something that isn't yours ladies. Why? fall for that. If you are out here having sex you should be able to handle it good/bad it is what it is. (I will go more depth in the podcast)

2. Ladies you can smell BS so why do you keep falling for the same BS.  You are going to get the sweet butter up conversations, and the beautiful lies in their sex man voice.  Can't you smell BS, they don't even know you. Do you really want to hear someone keep telling you that you are beautiful every time they text you. Is texting all that you want to do, are the conversations yall having even what you want to talk about.  Apply pressure ladies, and men you can do the same thing.  Men are starting to tell the truth somewhat so Ladies listen okay. He's letting you know.   Men she will do the same too so listen.

3. If you want something more then the link missions, make a sacrifice to not entertain people who don't want the same things that you want. (I will go into more details in the podcast)





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