54 min
10: The Crab Basket Effect: Do Women Hold Each Other Back? Podussy with Big Fat Gorilla
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- Relationships
The short explanation for the crab basket effect would be: If i can't have it, then she can't have it either!
In this episode Big Fat Gorilla discusses all sorts of circumstances where she has brought women down. Why is it so that when we see another women have something that we don't have, or secrelty maybe even want, we are tempted to bring them down for the most misogynistic reasonings? Are we as women secretly in competition with each other?
From wearing ''too'' much make up, instagram filters, bikini pictures, sleeping with multiple people, finding a characteristic about another woman would objectively be ''better'' than hers or even being the hotter ex, Big Fat Gorilla will break down all sorts ways she has brought women down on the expense of not only herself, but the other woman too.
What's your opinion? Do all women crab? Can you ever get rid of these conscious or sometimes unconscious thoughts?
Shownotes:
Books: Krabben, Daan Borrel en Milou Deelen
https://www.bol.com/nl/nl/p/krabben/9200000125491836/
I’m glad my mom died, Jennette Mccurdy
https://www.amazon.nl/Im-Glad-My-Mom-Died/dp/1982185821/ref=ascdf1982185821/?tag=nlshogostdsp-21&linkCode=df0&hvadid=572451176330&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=8123544260730302391&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=m&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9064512&hvtargid=pla-1530068095877&psc=1
Youtube: Lipglossssssssss
Making fun of a woman’s looks is always more then just a joke (Jada and Will)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1tUTM0D0Pb4
Please leave me a review if you liked it and follow me on my socials;
https://www.instagram.com/podussywithbfg/
https://www.instagram.com/bigfatgorilla/
https://www.instagram.com/barbaravginkel/
If you wanna be involved with the podcast, please ask me a question through the google drive link down below or linked in my instagram bio :)
https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1JXz1GT8svqR-57SdcXUcp8LHaOS5xJPdC7hcX_nbs/edit
The short explanation for the crab basket effect would be: If i can't have it, then she can't have it either!
In this episode Big Fat Gorilla discusses all sorts of circumstances where she has brought women down. Why is it so that when we see another women have something that we don't have, or secrelty maybe even want, we are tempted to bring them down for the most misogynistic reasonings? Are we as women secretly in competition with each other?
From wearing ''too'' much make up, instagram filters, bikini pictures, sleeping with multiple people, finding a characteristic about another woman would objectively be ''better'' than hers or even being the hotter ex, Big Fat Gorilla will break down all sorts ways she has brought women down on the expense of not only herself, but the other woman too.
What's your opinion? Do all women crab? Can you ever get rid of these conscious or sometimes unconscious thoughts?
Shownotes:
Books: Krabben, Daan Borrel en Milou Deelen
https://www.bol.com/nl/nl/p/krabben/9200000125491836/
I’m glad my mom died, Jennette Mccurdy
https://www.amazon.nl/Im-Glad-My-Mom-Died/dp/1982185821/ref=ascdf1982185821/?tag=nlshogostdsp-21&linkCode=df0&hvadid=572451176330&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=8123544260730302391&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=m&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9064512&hvtargid=pla-1530068095877&psc=1
Youtube: Lipglossssssssss
Making fun of a woman’s looks is always more then just a joke (Jada and Will)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1tUTM0D0Pb4
Please leave me a review if you liked it and follow me on my socials;
https://www.instagram.com/podussywithbfg/
https://www.instagram.com/bigfatgorilla/
https://www.instagram.com/barbaravginkel/
If you wanna be involved with the podcast, please ask me a question through the google drive link down below or linked in my instagram bio :)
https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1JXz1GT8svqR-57SdcXUcp8LHaOS5xJPdC7hcX_nbs/edit
54 min