The Addicted Mind Podcast Duane Osterlind, LMFT

In this episode of The Addicted Mind Plus, Duane and Eric Osterlind delve into the concept of attachment and its critical role in recovery from addiction. They discuss the different types of attachment styles—secure, anxious, dismissive, and fearful—and how these styles impact our ability to form healthy relationships. By understanding your attachment style, you can improve your relationships and strengthen your recovery journey. Tune in to learn how early childhood attachments shape your adult life and get practical tips to build better connections. Join us for a deeper dive into this powerful topic and find out how you can take actionable steps towards healing.

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Key Topics

- The importance of understanding attachment in addiction recovery.
- Different attachment styles: secure, anxious, dismissive, and fearful.
- How early childhood experiences shape adult relationships.
- Practical tips for improving relationship skills in recovery.
- The connection between attachment styles and forming a supportive community.

Timestamps

1. [00:02:01] - Introduction to the importance of attachment in recovery.
2. [00:05:00] - Historical background of attachment theory by John Bowlby.
3. [00:07:00] - Explanation of secure attachment.
4. [00:08:05] - Anxious or preoccupied attachment style.
5. [00:09:40] - Dismissive attachment and its impact on relationships.
6. [00:11:00] - Fearful avoidant or disorganized attachment.
7. [00:13:00] - Stan Tacken’s perspective on attachment styles.

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Can medications like naltrexone revolutionize the treatment of alcohol dependence? Join today’s discuss as Duane speaks with acclaimed journalist and podcast producer Andy Mills, who brings a wealth of experience from shows like The Daily and Radiolab. Andy delves into his new independent podcast, Reflector, highlighting a compelling episode titled "The Sea Change." He shares the gripping story of his friend Katie, who successfully managed her alcohol issues using the Sinclair Method during the COVID-19 pandemic, sparking a critical conversation on why such effective treatments aren't more widely adopted.
Andy discusses the fundamental role of community and external support in overcoming addiction, underscoring the message that no one heals alone. Drawing from his experiences reporting on the opioid crisis and the unintended consequences of the COVID-19 lockdowns, Andy paints a vivid picture of the evolving landscape of addiction awareness. Through Katie's unique journey – seeking treatment without hitting rock bottom and finding success with the Sinclair Method – Andy illustrates the transformative power of personal stories in understanding addiction and exploring new treatment methods.
In this episode, you will hear:

Uncovering the treatment for overdrinking

Exploring addiction and society's influence

Hidden struggle with addiction stigma

Balancing medication and thriving in life

The depths of human connection

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Supporting Resources:
Reflector - The Sea Change: https://www.reflector.show/p/the-sea-change 
The Daily: https://open.spotify.com/show/3IM0lmZxpFAY7CwMuv9H4g 
Radiolab: https://radiolab.org/ 
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Episode Credits
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In this episode of The Addicted Mind Plus, Duane and Eric Osterlind dive into the groundbreaking ACEs (Adverse Childhood Experiences) study. This research revealed how childhood trauma significantly impacts mental, physical, and emotional health in adulthood. By exploring the origins, findings, and implications of the study, they discuss how early experiences of abuse, neglect, and household dysfunction shape our lives. The episode also provides practical steps for recognizing and addressing these traumas, offering hope and tools for those struggling with addiction and mental health issues. Join us to understand the profound connection between childhood experiences and adult well-being.

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Key Topics

- Introduction to the ACEs study and its significance.
- Types of adverse childhood experiences (abuse, neglect, household dysfunction).
- The impact of ACEs on adult mental and physical health.
- Recognizing hidden forms of trauma and their long-term effects.
- Practical steps for healing from childhood trauma.

Timestamps

1. [00:01:00] – Introduction and significance of the ACEs study.
2. [00:02:28] – History and inception of the ACEs study by Dr. Vincent Felitti.
3. [00:04:21] – Types of adverse childhood experiences.
4. [00:06:25] – Impact of ACEs on adult health and well-being.
5. [00:09:38] – Recognizing hidden forms of trauma.
6. [00:13:23] – Steps to address and heal from childhood trauma.
7. [00:17:11] – Summary and resources for further help.


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In this episode of The Addicted Mind Plus, hosts Duane Osterlind and Eric Osterlind explore the transformative power of routines in recovery. They discuss how establishing a daily routine can bring stability to the chaotic early and mid-stages of recovery, and how it can even benefit long-term wellness. By setting a routine, individuals can reduce anxiety, improve sleep cycles, and create a positive structure that supports their goals. The hosts also debunk common myths about routines and provide practical tips to overcome roadblocks. Whether you’re just starting your recovery journey or looking to strengthen your long-term stability, this episode offers valuable insights and actionable advice.

Download the eBook “Stability Routine for Early Recovery: Transforming Chaos into a Safe Daily Routine”

Key Topics


Importance of setting a daily routine in recovery

Debunking myths about routines being boring and rigid

Simple steps to start a routine and keep it flexible

Addressing roadblocks like negative self-talk and burnout

The role of accountability in maintaining a routine


Key Moments

1. [00:01:00] - Introduction to the topic of routines in recovery
2. [00:02:00] - Definition and benefits of a routine
3. [00:03:29] - The importance of a morning routine
4. [00:05:30] - Debunking myths about routines
5. [00:08:56] - Flexibility and simplicity in routines
6. [00:11:00] - Overcoming roadblocks in setting routines
7. [00:13:47] - The importance of accountability

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Fifteen years sober and radiating resilience, Dr. Samantha Harte joins Duane to recount her transformative journey through the depths of addiction to the shores of recovery. With raw honesty, she opens up about the emotional wreckage in her wake, and the intense pressures that drove her to seek healing. Her story, illuminated further in her book "Breaking the Circuit," serves as a beacon of hope and a guide for those seeking to rewire their lives for joy in the aftermath of trauma. 
Samantha bravely shares the complexities of mending a marriage scarred by infidelity and the personal demons of dependency. Duane’s reflections on solitude and the path to self-soothing weave through the conversation, highlighting the vigorous inner work required to heal the wounds of self-abandonment. Samantha's voice underscores the potent necessity of forgiveness, not only towards others but starting within – as we navigate the delicate process of rebuilding trust and fostering genuine self-compassion. 
This episode isn't just an exploration of the recovery landscape – it's a deep acknowledgment of the human struggle against guilt, shame, and the inner critic that so often hinders our progress. Additionally, Samantha’s perspectives on motherhood and the evolving journey of sobriety, especially among Gen Z, offer a fresh take on the traditional 12-step program, inviting listeners to harness their pain for a higher purpose. Join us as we chart the challenging yet rewarding expedition from the throes of addiction to the light of self-discovery and authentic living.

In this episode, you will hear:

Overcoming trauma and finding recovery

Finding faith in recovery through sponsorship

Confronting the reality of addiction

Struggling with authenticity and self-abandonment

Navigating adversity and soul care


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In this episode of The Addicted Mind, hosts Duane and Eric Osterlind explore the profound connection between grief and addiction recovery. Using Elizabeth Kübler-Ross' five stages of grief—denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance—they discuss how these stages apply to the emotional process of giving up an addiction. Many people don't realize that overcoming addiction involves grieving the loss of the substance that has been a significant part of their lives. By understanding and embracing these stages, individuals can move more effectively through their recovery journey. Tune in to learn how recognizing and processing grief can lead to a deeper sense of acceptance and a more fulfilling life in recovery.

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Key Topics

The five stages of grief and their application to addiction recovery

The hidden grief of giving up addiction

Emotional challenges and identity loss in recovery

The non-linear nature of the grief process

Tools and support for navigating grief in recovery


Key Moments
1. [00:01:00] Introduction to the topic of grief in recovery
2. [00:02:00] Discussion on the grief of giving up an addiction
3. [00:04:00] Explanation of the five stages of grief
4. [00:06:30] Deep dive into the anger stage and its impact
5. [00:09:00] Exploring the depression stage and identity loss
6. [00:11:30] Moving towards acceptance and its significance in recovery
7. [00:14:10] Announcement of the worksheet and deeper dive session

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