12 episodes

Could there be a middle ground between passive-aggressive silence and explosive anger? Honesty without snark. Uncompromising emotional integrity. To own one's inner world without destroying those around you. To get there, we must explore emotional legalism and the rules we put on ourselves and others.

If I'm Honest Heather Bjur

    • Religion & Spirituality

Could there be a middle ground between passive-aggressive silence and explosive anger? Honesty without snark. Uncompromising emotional integrity. To own one's inner world without destroying those around you. To get there, we must explore emotional legalism and the rules we put on ourselves and others.

    How to Connect When You're in Survival Mode

    How to Connect When You're in Survival Mode

    How do we connect with our spouses when we're emotionally exhausted? Asking for our needs to be met is hard for most of us anyway, but in the middle of a seemingly never-ending crisis where our energy is scattered and tapped, it's easy to put our relationships on the back burner. I've got 4 tips for simple communication that can help you move towards open communication.

    • 10 min
    The Dangers of Stuffing your Feelings

    The Dangers of Stuffing your Feelings

    Stuffing our feelings is something we all do from time to time.  But when it becomes the only way we know to cope with them, they cause sickness deep down inside.  Learn how to spot when you're stuffing, and what to do to become "unstuck" emotionally.

    • 11 min
    How to Deal with Anger

    How to Deal with Anger

    We have lots of rules about anger and how we're "supposed to deal with it.  Today, I've got some helpful tips on getting to the root of the anger by asking yourself 5 questions.

    • 10 min
    Being Honest with Yourself

    Being Honest with Yourself

    Today I was reminded that feeling 'unhinged' is a normal part of the Christian life, and in that, to not give up on yourself for feeling that way.  

    • 7 min
    How Does Someone Become Codependent?

    How Does Someone Become Codependent?

    If codependence had a motto, it might sound something like, "I'm only okay if you're okay."

    • 8 min
    The Deconstruction of a Perfectionist

    The Deconstruction of a Perfectionist

    God has placed eternity in our hearts but we want to create Heaven on earth; so we grasp for control or scramble for escape.  

    • 8 min

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