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Techniques and examples for you to be sharp, with confidence and balance.
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Scripts + visualizations to help you prep for upcoming social interactions.
 
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0:00 When does Sharpness backfire?
0:32 Superior vs Inferior vs Balanced
1:42 How to be Definitive
3:21 Detached Sharpness
3:54 Speak from 'I'
5:23 App for Social Scripts
7:17 Regulation Technique
9:46 Balancing Tonality
10:57 Power of Trust
11:43 Feel-Good Nonchalance
12:48 More Resources
 
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ABOUT: My name is Ariel Niu. I share views and guidance on social dynamics and human interactions through understanding our emotions, expressions, and energy. I also share concepts on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own inner state to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages.
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This is how you do it from the inside out.
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0:00 People-Pleasing vs Kindness
1:57 Genuine Compliments
3:19 Know Your Wants / Needs
4:04 Decisive / Definitive Communication
7:41 Sharp / Soft Dynamics
8:40 Body Language
9:37 Facial Expressions
10:20 Authenticity vs Strategy
11:05 More Resources
 
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ABOUT: My name is Ariel Niu. I share views and guidance on social dynamics and human interactions through understanding our emotions, expressions, and energy. I also share concepts on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own inner state to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages.
 
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You are attached to nobody.
 
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Study Notes:
- TENSION with BOUNDARIES: When we are UNCLEAR/INSECURE about our own INTENTIONS.
- REACTIVENESS happens when we ATTACH our worth, needs, standards, liberation to others.
- To resolve CONFUSION: Go to the ROOT, re-plant your TRUE INTENTIONS.
- To resolve INSECURITY: KNOW and BE, not need, your standards and limits.
- Conflict with others happen when we have SUPERIORITY or INFERIORITY within.
- All expressions (Sharp, Soft, Playful) are okay when we practice EYE-LEVEL BALANCE.
 
0:00 Introduction
0:39 Tension with Boundaries
3:54 Superiority vs Inferiority
5:59 Imbalanced vs Balanced Boundaries
9:19 Inner Emotions
10:03 More Resources
 
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ABOUT: My name is Ariel Niu. I share views and guidance on social dynamics and human interactions through understanding our emotions, expressions, and energy. I also share concepts on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own inner state to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages.
 
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Confidence leans towards self - my presence, speech, delivery. Charisma leans towards others - flow, dynamics, engagement with others.
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Study Notes:
- INDIVIDUAL-GROUP FLOW: start a conversation with 1 individual in group (e.g. 'any upcoming trips planned Sarah?'), while having moments dropping questions and small statements to the rest of the group throughout (e.g. 'Honolulu? Amazing! Have you guys been?' 'Check out North Shore Sarah...guys, this place is beautiful. Sarah, I'll give you all the recommendations.')
- Mastery is seamless flow from talking to the individual, to group, back to individual while maintaining full presence and ease with everyone.
- QUESTIONS/PLAYFUL STATEMENTS: end your point/story with a question or a playful statement back to the group to reduce awkward silences.
- SIDE COMMENTS: if you don't want full spotlight but want to be involved, be fully present in the conversations and confidently add reassuring or cheeky comments to others' stories.
- UTILIZE SILENCE: instead of fearing or thinking about the silence, utilize it. Use silent moments to breathe and regulate, come back within yourself fully. This practice will allow new thoughts and flow to naturally arise.
 
0:00 Individual-Group Flow
2:02 Questions/Playful Statements
3:32 Reassuring/Cheeky Comments
7:19 Utilizing Silence
10:29 Confidence/Charisma Balance
11:26 More Resources
 
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ABOUT: My name is Ariel Niu. I share views and guidance on social dynamics and human interactions through understanding our emotions, expressions, and energy. I also share concepts on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own inner state to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages.
 
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You are the presenter, and the initiator and alchemist of the energy in the room.
 
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*Study Notes*
- Break the fourth wall with the audience before the presentation (casual chitchat).
- Have a confident base that is sustainable - honed authenticity with nonchalance.
- Honed authenticity = 'being real with a secret' kind of energy.
- Nonchalance = I am aware of it all and it's always all good.
- It's ok to ask for context, we need context to give thorough, useful responses. E.g. 'Interesting, tell me more about x' 'I think what you are trying to say is this, am I following correctly?' 'Give me more details on this aspect'
- Approach unexpected questions with curiousity, see them as opportunities.
- Hone in on the individual asking the question, treat it like a conversation.
- Approach follow-ups with confidence and excitement if necessary. E.g. 'I'm excited to add this to my research, I'll have it as a point in our follow-up email.'
- Avoid inferiority (shame/victimizing) or superiority (masking confidence) with mistakes, I like to admit to it in the moment with nonchalance and get right back into it. E.g. 'Ok, I just made up that word, what I meant is this :)'
- Catch the initial anxiety, breathe and relax into lightness and nonchalance.
- Curiousity translates into confidence, which translates into the ability to connect the dots.
- It's within our control whether we approach unexpected moments with anxiety/shame/rigidness or curiousity/nonchalance/lightness, and that energy will be felt by all.
 
0:00 Introduction + Examples
0:33 Prepare a Confident Base
2:01 Observe your Audience
5:15 Unexpected Questions
7:29 Unresolved Questions
9:22 Mess-ups
9:53 Your Presence + Reactions
11:20 Power of Curiousity
14:35 More Resources
 
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*ABOUT:* My name is Ariel Niu, I create content on social dynamics and human interactions. I give examples on social cues and techniques, and I share ideas on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own inner state to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages. #publicspeaking
 
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Know the difference between being SHARP / SOFT vs being SUPERIOR / INFERIOR.
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Tips:
- Understand and accept your natural expressions
- Notice the differences between your natural expressions vs reactive expressions
- Remove reactiveness from initial sharp / soft responses
- Active Breathing, remember your Intention, eye-level Balance
- Less what you say, more how you say it (energy + delivery)
- Use ChatGPT for starting scripts
- Practice Nonchalance
- Regulate live thoughts / emotions
- Remember your live thoughts / emotions influence everything
 
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*ABOUT:* My name is Ariel Niu, I create content on conscious human interactions. I give examples on social cues and techniques, and I share ideas on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own inner state to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages. #communicationskills
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