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Black Girls Heal helps women break out of cycles of unhealthy relationships with unavailable partners and feeling not enough by combining coaching, therapeutic support, and practical tools.
Every episode, we will talk about intimacy, attachment, healing unresolved trauma, and growing in our self worth.
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#247: 3 Signs You've Grown and Are Healthier
In this episode, let’s discuss the importance of recognizing and celebrating personal growth. Reflecting on past conversations with coaching students, I explore three key signs that show how much you've evolved: pausing before reacting even when hurt, becoming open to alternative viewpoints, and feeling and validating your emotions. Alongside these insights, we discuss the impact of sharing emotions with safe individuals and re-evaluating your social circle for healthier relationships.
We have been very attuned to keep our focus on our shortcomings but rarely do we allow ourselves to celebrate the progress that we’ve been making in our inner work.
Tune in to learn how to acknowledge your progress, appreciate your journey, and break unhealthy patterns for a better tomorrow.
In this episode, we cover…
02:49 The inspiration for this episode04:00 How labels from your past are keeping you stuck from growing05:16 Why you should give yourself credit for the progress you've made06:49 Why you need to pause before reacting09:15 Are you open to seeing alternative perspectives?10:21 A tool to use when you're triggered14:43 Example of seeing the alternative perspectives in dating16:41 Example of seeing the alternative perspectives in inner work18:38 Feeling your emotions and validating them20:15 Why people *don't care* about your emotions21:14 What to do when you don't have safe people around you
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#246: The 4 Seasons of Healing
In this episode, I go over the 4 seasons of healing everyone will go through when healing from unresolved trauma and relationship issues.
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#245: The First 3 Steps of Healing Love Avoidance
In this episode, I review the first 3 steps to heal from love avoidance and the issues that get in the way.
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#244: 4 Ways Family Trauma Will Normalize Emotional Abuse
In this episode, I talk about 4 examples of emotional abuse that may set us up to be vulnerable to love addicted and love avoidant relationships.
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#243: 3 Ways Love Addicts (Accidentally) Sabotage Their Relationships
As a love addict, it can be easy to slip into pushing away the love we want by holding on a little bit too tightly.
In this episode, I review 3 ways that love addicts accidentally sabotage their relationships.
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#242: 7 Tips to Recover after a Friendship Breakup
This episode for anyone who is experiencing or has experienced a friendship breakup that has been hard to recover from. I hope these 7 tips help you move forward and find friendships that help you feel fulfilled and whole.
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