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Widowhood presents profound challenges, with loneliness permeating every aspect of life, including the realm of sexuality. The loss goes beyond losing a life partner; it extends to losing a sexual companion as well.
In this week’s Java with Juli, Dr. Carol Tanksley, who became widowed after just seven years of marriage in 2016, delves into the complexities faced by widows, and sheds light on the emotional and psychological hurdles they face. She also shares her personal experience of surrendering her sexuality to God in widowhood.



Guest: Dr. Carol Tanklsey
 
Carol’s website: drcarolministries.com
Carol’s Instagram: @drcarolt
 
Book: Sexpectations by Dr. Carol Tanksley
Book: The Other Half of Church by Michel Hendricks and Jim Wilder
 
Java with Juli: #407 Masturbation: The No. 1 Question You’re Asking Us!
Blog: Masturbation: Is It Wrong?
Blog: “Is Masturbation a Sin?” You May Be Asking the Wrong Question



Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.

Why are we all so lonely? Why is it that at a time when we are more connected than ever, many of us find ourselves feeling lonely and isolated?
Jeff Kemp and Juli explore what’s making us feel lonely, how to bring more vulnerability and honesty into our relationships, and why understanding our identities is pivotal when it comes to cultivating deep, long-lasting friendships.
 
Guest: Jeff Kemp
 
Jeff’s Website: jeffkempteam.com
 
Book: Receive: The Way of Jesus for Men by Jeff Kemp
Book: Level 5 Friendship Playbook (download through the pop up on his website)
 
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Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.

Married sexuality has its challenges, internal and external, and it can be tempting to quit having sex or step outside the marriage, but there are ways to address some of the issues and overcome them as a couple.
 
Christian sex therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma joins Juli to talk about:
How to manage mismatched libidos
Why foreplay matters
What to do if you experience symptoms of Erectile Dysfunction
Why sex is important in marriage
How to re-enter holy sexuality and eroticism after abstaining without it becoming sin



Guest: Dr. Michael Sytsma




Website: Building Intimate Marriages
Instagram: @buildingintimatemarriages
 
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Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.

What do your attractions say about you? Do they say anything about you? Is attraction always about sex, or are there more layers to it than we tend to think?
Hannah Nitz joins Juli for a conversation all about attraction and desire.



Co-host: Hannah Nitz



Hannah’s Website: hannahnitz.com
Hannah’s Instagram: @hannahnitz
 
Blog: 3 Subconscious Beliefs You May Hold About Living With Same-Sex Attraction
 
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Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.

For most marriages, the most challenging years are the earliest ones. Marital problems can come in any number of forms, but sometimes the most difficult to navigate are those you don’t see coming.
Few know this better than Chris and Stephanie Teague, the duo behind Out of the Dust, who experienced divorce suddenly after only three and a half years of marriage.
The couple join Juli to discuss exactly what happened before their marriage fell apart, and what God did in both of them to put it back together.



Guests: Out of the Dust (Chris and Stephanie Teague)
 
 
Website: outofthedustmusic.com
Instagram: @outofthedustmusic
Check out the new album from Out of the Dust, releasing April 26th!
 
 
Q&A: Where do I begin healing?
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Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.

Gender dysphoria is becoming more and more common, and parents with kids who are struggling are at a loss at what to do. Should they affirm their kids? Should they approve hormone blockers?
 In this week’s episode of Java with Juli, Juli is joined by Dr. Miriam Grossman, a child psychiatrist and author who has testified before congress about some of the hidden dangers behind transgender activism.




Guest: Dr. Miriam Grossman, MD




Book: "Lost in Trans Nation: A Child Psychiatrist's Guide Out of the Madness" by Miriam Grossman M.D.
Book: “You’re Teaching my Child What?!” by Miriam Grossman M.D.
Java with Juli: #507 What You Need To Know About The Gender Conversation
Java with Juli: #508 What Does Healthy Masculinity Actually Look Like?
 
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Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.