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Let Go of the Need to be a Puppeteer - Wellbeing Wisdom Tiny Bites Podcast Wellbeing Wisdom Tiny Bites
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Have you ever been the broken-hearted half of a breakup?
It hurts soooooo bad! As the sharpness of the pain begins to recede, anger creeps in, along with anger’s ugly cousin, blame.
It’s easy to blame the end of the relationship on the other person, and in a lot of ways, it’s very satisfying, too. The healing process includes the anger and blame – can you make yourself speed through that as quickly as possible?
Because here’s the truth – it’s never one person or the other, it’s both.
Yes, the ex misbehaved.
Yes, the ex didn’t live up to your expectations.
And yes, those expectations are YOURS, not theirs.
You can expect things from yourself, and you have every right to get upset if you don’t live up to your expectations. When someone else doesn’t, ask yourself – was it their job to live up to your expectations?
If things were reversed, would you live up to their expectations of you if you didn’t want to?
No one is here to dance to anyone else’s tune if they don’t want to. Pick up the pieces of your heart and start dancing again like the ex doesn’t matter. Because they don’t.
Want more? Come and play in the Wagalicious Life Online Community playground! Go to Wagalicious.Life. #veterinarian #petindustry #agriculture #leader #lawofattraction
Have you ever been the broken-hearted half of a breakup?
It hurts soooooo bad! As the sharpness of the pain begins to recede, anger creeps in, along with anger’s ugly cousin, blame.
It’s easy to blame the end of the relationship on the other person, and in a lot of ways, it’s very satisfying, too. The healing process includes the anger and blame – can you make yourself speed through that as quickly as possible?
Because here’s the truth – it’s never one person or the other, it’s both.
Yes, the ex misbehaved.
Yes, the ex didn’t live up to your expectations.
And yes, those expectations are YOURS, not theirs.
You can expect things from yourself, and you have every right to get upset if you don’t live up to your expectations. When someone else doesn’t, ask yourself – was it their job to live up to your expectations?
If things were reversed, would you live up to their expectations of you if you didn’t want to?
No one is here to dance to anyone else’s tune if they don’t want to. Pick up the pieces of your heart and start dancing again like the ex doesn’t matter. Because they don’t.
Want more? Come and play in the Wagalicious Life Online Community playground! Go to Wagalicious.Life. #veterinarian #petindustry #agriculture #leader #lawofattraction
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