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Omoluabi Podcast | Season 6 Episode 1

PROVERB CONSIDERED: “Pípẹ́ ni yó pẹ̀ẹ́, akólòlò á pe baba.” (Translation: “It may take a long while, but the stammerer will eventually manage to say ‘‘Papa.’’”)

REFLECTION

Perhaps this proverb reminds you—as it reminded me—of a stammerer you know. Or perhaps, it reminds you of yourself and your occasional stutter. Stammering can be embarrassing, but the way the stammerer is portrayed in this proverb is as a champion that we should learn from. What kind of lessons can stammering teach us?

1. It’s only a matter of time. Between a stammerer’s stutter and their being able to say what they intend to say eventually, it’s only a matter of time. Likewise, between where you are and where you hope to be—or between who you are and who you hope to become—it’s only a matter of time! That’s the wisdom of Ecclesiastes 3, verses 1 and 11.

2. Refrain from giving unsolicited assistance. Whether you are helping someone with whom you are speaking complete their sentence or you are offering your spouse an unsolicited solution to a matter to which they primarily desire your empathy, offering unsolicited assistance can stifle intimacy rather than nourish it. Besides, if stammering nurtures perseverance in us (as the proverb surely implies), offering unsolicited assistance in helping the stammerer complete their statements will kill their opportunity to develop their perseverance further. 

3. There is a blessing in our disabilities and incompetence. God, in His sovereignty, has blessed us with limitations that become tools that shape us into ever-increasing Christlikeness. The more we acknowledge our limitations, the more we will live a life that is fully dependent on Jesus—and the more we will bear the fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23).

4. Stammering reminds us that failure—even repeated failure—is okay. The stammerer fails again and again before eventually being able to say a word, phrase, or statement correctly, but they don’t give up. Besides, for the stammerer, the fact that they were able to get the word out eventually in one moment does not mean that they will be able to do it again in the next moment. Such should be our disposition in life. No matter how many wins we record, we should not become so familiar with success that failure becomes abhorrent. Failure has always been one of God’s best tools to cultivate in us humility and utter dependence on Him. Perseverance validates failures.


5. Lastly, be patient. Be patient with other (fellow) stammerers, and be patient with yourself. If we are being honest, we will admit that, at the end of the day, we are all stammerers—and that’s okay! We all have one area of life or the other where we stutter. Rather than wanting to cover these up, let us acknowledge them for what they are: portals for God’s power to find expression in our weakness!

Be encouraged by the words of Habakkuk 2:3 NKJV — “For the vision is yet for an appointed time; But at the end it will speak, and it will not lie. Though it tarries, wait for it; Because it will surely come, It will not tarry.”




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Omoluabi Podcast | Season 5 Episode 5

PROVERB CONSIDERED: "Ìwà lẹwà" (Translation: "Character is beauty.")

MEANING & ETYMOLOGY

n this enlightening episode, we explore the profound Yorùbá proverb above, which emphasises the deep connection between a person's inner qualities and their external beauty. At the core of being an "Omoluabi" (which breaks down into "Ọmọ tí Olú ìwà bí" -- a child born by the lord of character, i.e., a child of supreme character qualities and virtues) is the understanding that good character is the foundation of true beauty. Character is not merely a facade but a reflection of one's true essence.

CONNECTING PROVERB:
We draw a connection to another Yorùbá proverb, "Èéfín nìwà" (Character is like smoke; it is difficult to hide), highlighting that character inevitably shines through and cannot be concealed. Both proverbs emphasise the importance of cultivating and nurturing one's character.

BIBLICAL APPLICATION:


✥ We discussed the need to prioritise cultivating the fruit of the Spirit, as outlined in Galatians 5:22-23, over being solely focused on manifesting the gifts of the Spirit (1 Corinthians 12). True beauty is found in the character that reflects the nature of Christ.
✥ We reference 1 Peter 3:1-3, which implies that the character of a believing wife can have a transformative impact on her unbelieving husband. This underscores the power of character to influence and inspire positive change in others.

KEY TAKEAWAYS:


✥ Character is at the heart of true beauty.
✥ The term "Omoluabi" encapsulates the importance of character.
✥ Character cannot be hidden; it shines through like smoke.
✥ Cultivating the fruit of the Spirit is paramount in our spiritual journey.
✥ Character can have a profound influence on relationships.

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Omoluabi Podcast | Season 5 Episode 4

PROVERB CONSIDERED: "Èké mọ ilé-e rẹ̀ ó wó; Ọ̀dàlẹ̀ mọ tirẹ̀ ó bì dànù"
(Translation: "The devious person builds a house, and it collapses; the treacherous person builds one, and it tumbles in ruins.")

In this captivating episode, we delve into the profound Yorùbá proverb that carries a powerful message about the consequences of deceit and treachery. The proverb paints a vivid picture of the fate that awaits those who engage in underhanded actions, highlighting that their efforts will ultimately lead to ruin.

MEANING & BIBLICAL CONNECTION:
We explore the depths of this proverb's meaning, drawing parallels to the story of Job and the wisdom found in Job 5:3ff. Particularly, we anchor our discussion on Job 5:12-13 (AMPC) which reads, "He frustrates the devices of the crafty, so that their hands cannot perform their enterprise. He catches the [so-called] wise in their own trickiness, and the counsel of the schemers is brought to a quick end."

MORAL & SPIRITUAL APPLICATION:


On a moral level, we reflect on the importance of choosing a path of righteousness and integrity over deceit and treachery. The proverb serves as a reminder that dishonesty ultimately leads to downfall.
On a spiritual level, we find solace in the assurance that no evil can overcome the believer. This aligns with Jesus' teachings in Matthew 5:43-48 (NLT), urging us to love our enemies and live in a manner that reflects the character of God.

KEY TAKEAWAYS:


The consequences of dishonesty and treachery are depicted vividly in the proverb.
God frustrates the plans of the crafty and catches them in their own schemes.
As Christians, we are called to live righteously and extend love even to our enemies.
Trust in God's protection and be guided by the principles of integrity.

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Omoluabi Podcast | Season 5 Episode 3

PROVERB CONSIDERED: “Ilé ahun ò gba ahun; ọ̀dẹ̀dẹ̀ ahun ò gbàlejò; ahún kọ́lé ẹ̀ tán ó yọ ọ̀dẹ̀dẹ̀ níbàdí” (Translation: "The tortoise's house is not large enough for it; the tortoise's porch is not large enough to receive visitors; the tortoise built its house and adds a porch at the rear.")

MEANING: In this episode, through the above Yorùbá proverb, we highlight the issue of stinginess and its consequences. The proverb cleverly plays on the word, "ahun" which could either mean "stingy" or (as a contracted form of "alábahun", means) "tortoise." Of course, the tortoise is often depicted as both a stingy and cautious creature in many Yorùbá folk tales.

The proverb is using the morphology of the tortoise as an object lesson. If the tortoise's shell is its house, it would seem that the tortoise but itself a house that is hardly spacious enough to contain himself alone let alone have some spare room (not even a well sized porch) to entertain visitors in.

BIBLICAL APPLICATION: In a world often driven by self-preservation and scarcity mentality, the call to generosity can be challenging. However, the wisdom of both Yoruba culture and the Bible reminds us that true fulfilment lies in giving to others selflessly. When we open our hearts to generosity, we participate in a beautiful cycle of blessings.

Just as the tortoise's limited space denies it the joy of hosting guests, stinginess restricts us from experiencing the joy of enriching others' lives. God designed us to be conduits of His love, and when we share what we have with others, we sow seeds of hope, love, and transformation.

In contrast to the tortoise's morphology, the example of a kangaroo comes to mind. Think of the kangaroo's pouch, with enough room to embrace multiple young ones. When we give without reservation, we create space in our hearts to nurture and support others. Our acts of kindness, no matter how small, can have a profound impact on those around us. We draw parallels from biblical teachings, such as Proverbs 11:24-25 and Proverbs 28:25, that emphasize the principle of scattering and increasing wealth through generosity.

BIBLICAL REFERENCES:
✥ Proverbs 11:24-25 (NIV) - "One person gives freely, yet gains even more; another withholds unduly, but comes to poverty. A generous person will prosper; whoever refreshes others will be refreshed."
✥ Proverbs 28:25 (NIV) - "The greedy stir up conflict, but those who trust in the LORD will prosper."

KEY TAKEAWAYS:


Generosity leads to abundance.
Hoarding and excessive caution can lead to impoverishment.
Be led by God in giving and trust Him to prosper you.
Embrace a saving culture but avoid making savings an idol.

ACTION STEPS:
This week, let us strive to be more generous and open-hearted. Reach out to someone in need, give even when it pinches, and trust that God will bless your acts of kindness. Remember, true generosity leads to an enriched life.

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Omoluabi Podcast | Season 5 Episode 2

PROVERB CONSIDERED: “Ajé ní ḿba ojú ọ̀rẹ́ jẹ́.”

ENGLISH TRANSLATION: "It is money that brings a frown to the brow of friendship."

MEANING & BIBLICAL APPLICATION: The point of this proverb, to put it simply, is that nothing ruins a friendship more surely than the intrusion of money. In other words, money is very sensitive and requires wisdom to manage it properly.

It is often said that the top 3 things that destroy marriages are communication problems, sex-related problems, and money-related problems. We agree. So what attitudes towards money management tend to ruin friendships, partnerships, marriages, and other relationships? We highlighted a few of them in this episode, including:


Laziness.
Wrong attitude towards Savings and Investment
Greed
Debts (borrowing and not repaying)

We concluded by recommending a sound stewardship mindset towards managing money.

Scriptures Cited include:

✥ “Lazy hands make for poverty, but diligent hands bring wealth.” Proverbs 10:4 (NIV)

✥ “Dishonest money dwindles away, but whoever gathers money little by little makes it grow.” Proverbs 13:11 (NIV)

✥ “Such are the paths of all who go after ill-gotten gain; it takes away the life of those who get it.” Proverbs 1:19 (NIV)

✥ “The rich rule over the poor, And the borrower is slave to the lender.” Proverbs 22:7 (NIV)

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PROVERB CONSIDERED: “Ọmọ tí àgbẹ̀-ẹ́bí, oko ni yó ro; ọmọ tí Gàm̀bàrí bí, okùn ni yó ran.”

ENGLISH TRANSLATION: "The child born by a farmer will engage in farming; the child born by a Hausa man will engage in rope weaving." 

MEANING & BIBLICAL APPLICATION: This is one of those proverbs that sound like a hasty (or even myopic) generalisation. Factually, not every farmer's child goes on to become a farmer and not every Hausa man's child will weave ropes. However, to treat the proverb like that is to miss the point. The point of the proverbs is rather clear: There is such a thing as "family likeness." A goat will sire a goat in the same way a lion will sire a lion. We will take after our parents (or foster parent, or guardian, or pastor, or mentor . . . etc), at least in certain respect and to some certain degree. As Barry Hallen noted, "Proverbs do not introduce themselves to us as universal truths, as generalizations that always apply. Their pith, their point, their punch is situational or context-dependent to an essential degree."

If we think of this proverb biblically, therefore, an essential scriptural truth comes alive: We are supposed to take after our Heavenly Father! In fact, this is the reality unto which every child of God is predestined! 

“For those whom he foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, in order that he might be the firstborn among many brothers” (Romans 8:29 ESV). “God, in his foreknowledge, chose [us] to bear the family likeness of his Son, that he might be the eldest of a family of many brothers” (Romans 8:29 PHILLIPS). “God knew what he was doing from the very beginning. He decided from the outset to shape the lives of those who love him along the same lines as the life of his Son. The Son stands first in the line of humanity he restored. We see the original and intended shape of our lives there in him” (Romans 8:29 MSG). “. . . And so we are transfigured much like the Messiah, our lives gradually becoming brighter and more beautiful as God enters our lives and we become like him” (2 Corinthians 3:18 MSG). “. . . as the Spirit of the Lord works within us, we become more and more like him” (2 Corinthians 3:18 TLB).

In a nutshell, “all of us, as with unveiled face, [because we] continued to behold [in the Word of God] as in a mirror the glory of the Lord, are constantly being transfigured into His very own image in ever increasing splendor and from one degree of glory to another; [for this comes] from the Lord [Who is] the Spirit.” (2 Corinthians 3:18 AMPC)

This leaves each of us with a rather personal question: “How is your transformation and transfiguration going?” Each of us will have to take responsibility for our part in this process. As the AMPC hinted in 2 Corinthians 3:18, the tool by which this transformation happens is the Word of God. What’s your relationship with the Word of God like as you dig into 2023 in full?

May we be faithful to our individual sanctification process as God supplies the grace, in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Scriptures Cited include:


✥ Romans 8:29
✥ Romans 8:6
✥ 2 Corinthians 3:18

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