One Girl To Another Tana Ainsworth

Alright, before you go hating on me for the title, hear me out. 

I 100% believe that happiness is found in health, love, faith, etc. 

But, can we all agree that money helps a bit too? 

Whether we are talking about bills that basically every adult human has coming in monthly, or the extra costs of things like self care, wine and dining, or a vacation, money helps pay for those things, and therefore reduces our stress around it, and therefore helps us be happier. 

So yes, I said it. The saying “money doesn’t buy happiness” is bull sh*t. 

Ever wondered why getting your hair done is so spendy? Or why it’s so frowned upon to cancel on your stylist? 

This episode is a fun interview with my friend and Salon Teas owner, Paige Teas, giving us an overview of the behind the scenes costs of being a hair stylist, the many reasons a last minute cancellation is less than ideal, plus some quick tips on hair do’s and don’ts! 

It’s so easy to look in the mirror and pick ourselves apart. 

It’s so easy to compare ourselves to the cool girl, the skinny girl, the pretty girl, or even the girl we see online that is clearly using a filter or has been photoshopped. 

But think about it - while you’re busy judging yourself, 99.9% of other people are NOT judging you. 

They don’t notice or definitely don’t care about the zit on your face, the 5lbs you want to lose, the bad hair day you’re having, the not so funny joke you just told. None of it. 

Hear me when I say it is easier said than done and I need to work on this myself, but why not just go show up as our UNIQUE selves UNAPOLOGETICALLY?! And spare yourself the potential shitty feeling from comparing yourself to the “other girl”. 

All the love, girl 🖤

At dinner with the besties the other night, in the midst of catching up, laughing, and venting, one of them said “We need to be more unbothered.” 

She had recently read a post on Facebook by a girl named Kristen Joy Martin about becoming an “unbothered” person, and she sent it to us. 

While I think I need this tattooed on my forearm to remind myself to be unbothered in the MANY moments I find myself bothered, such as at a red light, a messy house, an unanswered text, etc., it’s a great point and reminder nonetheless. 

I think we’d all be a little happier if we were all just a little more “unbothered”. 

Our face is like our brand, and a lot of us women strive for it to be in the best shape possible. But how do we get there? 

There’s Botox and Dysport, but what’s the difference? How much is it? Is it safe? 

There’s filler, but again, how much is it? Is it safe? 

There’s SO many different skin care products, but which one is best and most affordable? 

All of those questions answered and SO much more goodness in this episode interviewing the fabulous Kari Knight, owner of Knight Dermatology. 

As women, we have to navigate A LOT in life. A significant other, a mom, a friend, a family member, having a career, a grocery getter, a bill payer, a calendar organizer, etc. - some of us are ALL of those things. And if no one else has told you lately, let me tell you LOUD AND CLEAR - Girlfriend, you are an absolute rockstar. And don’t you ever forget it!