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On this Father’s Day, we’ll look at how to use our positions and power in a God-honoring way. In a world where many seek to flex their muscles and control those around them, Jesus calls us to serve, lift, and empower. One of the most attractive traits of those we want to draw near to is feeling safe with them. They are approachable, tender, and gentle.

If there is one relational principle we get backward, it’s this one. When someone hurts our feelings or does something offensive to us, we do everything but the one thing Jesus tells us to do: Go to them. This message will look at recalibrating our dysfunctional ways of handling hurts. We’ll explore how to have hard, honest conversations with those who have wounded us.

thanRelationships were God’s idea. He created us and designed them for our well-being. It only makes sense that from time to time, we need to step back and ask the question if we are building our relationships on His Word or upon Our Wants. Nothing will get us off track quicker than not having Christ as the Cornerstone of our relationships.

Have you ever seen an old car that’s been restored? They’re beautiful! Fresh paint, trim, seat covers, and a car you were ready to take to the junkyard becomes one you don’t want to part with. The same is true in our relationships. Sometimes, we forget that the simple things, the little things, attract people to us or repel them from us. This message looks at some of those little things and the difference they make when we put them into practice.

The most powerful story in the world is the one we tell ourselves. It’s also the most powerful part of our relationships. The stories we tell ourselves about other people and ourselves are often lies that the Enemy uses to divide us. He takes our past wounds and struggles and tries to make it the lens through which we view today. Healthy relationships only happen as we learn to reframe our interactions with others and learn to change the stories we tell ourselves.

Relationships were God’s idea. He created us and designed them for our well-being. It only makes sense that from time to time, we need to step back and ask the question if we are building our relationships on His Word or upon Our Wants. Nothing will get us off track quicker than not having Christ as the Cornerstone of our relationships.