This American Ex Wife the Podcast lyz

Last year, we made a 10-episode season of this podcast and we are so proud of how it turned out. And want to make one more!!
Please fill out the survey to let us know the topics you want us to cover, the people you want us to talk to, ways to support the show, and any other ideas you want to share. We are listening.
Here is a link to the survey!
Oh and Lyz’s book is out in the world. Make sure you get a copy. If you love this podcast, you’ll love the book even more.
Okay, now, send us your stories:
* You can record a voicemail for me on Speakpipe. Speakpipe has an easy user interface and we want to hear your voice. These stories were our favorite part of season one. We can’t wait to hear what you have to say for season two. Please anonymize your stories as best as you can. We want to hear from you about:
* The moment you knew your marriage was over.
* Stories about co-parenting.
* Calling off engagements.
* Custody arrangements.
* Divorce parties.
* What you did with your wedding dress.
* What your life is like as an ex.
* The thing no one believes about your marriage.
* The hardest part of being divorced and the best part.
* What you love about your life now.
* That story about your marriage that you only tell your friends after two margaritas.
* You can also send an email to menyellatme@gmail.com. Tell us your stories there! But we do prefer voice messages. It’s an audio medium after all.
Thank you for making this an amazing first season!


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Surprise! Here are the first 10 minutes from the first chapter of my book, This American Ex-Wife.
It’s a clip from the audiobook, which I narrate myself. I recorded the audiobook during a blizzard and an arctic freeze, and at some point, you can hear my throat start getting scratchy with a cold. I managed to get through with an ungodly amount of cough syrup. But it was such a pleasure to record. And let me tell you the joy that I had when I read, “This has been a production of Random House audio…” it was palpable.
Take a listen and please preorder the book! If that’s not in the budget you can request it from your local library. Preorders are crucial to the success of the book. So I appreciate every one of them. Thank you all so much.


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In this episode, Lyz and best-selling author and journalist behind the popular newsletter, Burnt Toast, Virginia Sole Smith read your email and talk bodies, love, sourdough dads, and divorce.
This is the last week to PREORDER your copy of This American Ex-Wife.
Show notes:
* Read Virginia’s amazing newsletter Burnt Toast.
* Also, Virginia and Sara Petersen have an incredible podcast, “The Cult of Perfect.”
* Of course, read Virginia’s best-selling book and one of my favorite newsletters of hers on “The Life-Changing Magic of Eating Alone.”
* This American Ex-Wife is hosted by Lyz Lenz (@LyzLenz) and produced by Zachary Oren Smith (@ZachOSmith). Illustration by Alessandro Gottardo. Show art by Suzanne Glémot (@tape_remover).


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We want independence. We want respect. We want love and relationships. We live our lives trying to cultivate these qualities. But as Minda Honey points out, we also live in a world that doesn’t prioritize our wants.
Less than two weeks until the book comes out! So preorder This American Ex-Wife. It’s the best way to support this work.

Show notes:
* Buy Minda’s book The Heartbreak Years. It’s funny and smart and insightful.
* You can also follow Minda’s work on Instagram.
* This American Ex-Wife is hosted by Lyz Lenz (@LyzLenz) and produced by Zachary Oren Smith (@ZachOSmith). Illustration by Alessandro Gottardo. Show art by Suzanne Glémot (@tape_remover).


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In the ancient play Lysistrata women withhold sex as a means of ending the Peloponnesian War. And the logic – using sex as a shaping force in marriages – is widespread both in self-help books and right-wing subreddits. Academic Donna Zuckerberg has written about the appropriation of the Classics by misogynistic groups and weighs in on Lysistrata, liberal men, ancient wives, and modern love.
If you like what you hear, preorder This American Ex-Wife. It’s the best way to support this work.
Show notes:
* Read Donna’s Washington Post op-ed about Lysistrata.
* Donna has a newsletter you can read and subscribe here!
* This American Ex-Wife is hosted by Lyz Lenz (@LyzLenz) and produced by Zachary Oren Smith (@ZachOSmith). Illustration by Alessandro Gottardo. Show art by Suzanne Glémot (@tape_remover).


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Aubrey Hirsch was in a hospital bed. She had just birthed her first child and found herself having to argue with a nurse over whether her last name Hirsch could be her child’s last name. In that instance and more, Hirsch shatters the notion that heterosexual parents have the same powers in the relationship.
Show notes:
* Read Aubrey’s essay for Time about giving her kids her last name.
* Support Aubrey’s newsletter and follow her on Instagram.
* This American Ex-Wife is hosted by Lyz Lenz (@LyzLenz) and produced by Zachary Oren Smith (@ZachOSmith). Illustration by Alessandro Gottardo. Show art by Suzanne Glémot (@tape_remover).
* Support the show by preordering Lyz’s book This American Ex-Wife. From 1/24-1/26 Barnes and Noble is offering 25% off for members. Premium members get an extra 10% off. Use code: PREORDER25.



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