REALationship

Maria & Matt Granados
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REALationship Podcast

This is not your ol’ boring marriage podcast. Join Matt and Maria Granados, co-founders of Life Pulse Inc., as they dive head first into the dynamics of real relationships...the good, the not so good, and of course the uncomfortably awkward. In each episode, you’ll learn a new tool or strategy, take a look at how to apply it in your relationship, and laugh as we get a little too real in the process. Hey, who likes fake anyways?

  1. 25 MAR

    Ugh, apologies are messy...so let's clean 'em up

    In this extra-honest episode, Matt and Maria dip into the complex world of apologies and forgiveness within the realm of personal relationships - specifically marriage - and just how dang messy it really can be. With a mix of humor, heartfelt stories, and insightful discussions, they delve into the subtle art of apologizing — uncovering the layers of apology languages, the impact of apologies on relationship satisfaction, and the transformative power of understanding and adapting to your partner’s emotional needs. Matt and Maria navigate the complex dynamics that apologies introduce into relationships, offering listeners a blend of personal reflections, expert insights, and practical advice for fostering a deeper connection with their spouse. Whether you're seeking to mend fences, deepen your understanding of your partner, or simply curious about the psychology behind apologies, this episode offers a comprehensive guide to mastering the art of cleaning up the apology mess, making amends and moving forward together.  Timestamps & What You Will Learn: [00:00:378] - Opening Thoughts and Technical Troubles: A light-hearted start with Matt and Maria discussing the quirks of dealing with technology in everyday life and relationships. [00:56.577] - Introduction to the Episode's Theme: The hosts introduce the episode's main topic: the complexities and importance of apologies in relationships. [03:25.786] - The Significance of Apology Languages: An exploration of apology languages and their impact on how apologies are perceived and the role they play in relationship satisfaction. [08:01.686] - Personal Reflections on Apologies: Matt and Maria share personal experiences and the evolution of their understanding and approach to apologies in their relationship. [10:22.806] - Navigating Forgiveness and Understanding: Discussion on the importance of forgiveness, the process of seeking genuine repentance, and the role of empathy in resolving conflicts. [15:05.798] - The Importance of Timing in Apologies: Insights into why immediate apologies may not always be the most sincere or effective and the value of giving space for genuine repentance. [19:45.682] - The Cultural Aspect of Apologies and Expectations: A dive into how societal expectations can influence our approach to apologies and forgiveness. [24:04.21] - Relationship Satisfaction and Its Influence on Forgiveness: How the overall satisfaction in a relationship can affect the perception of apology sincerity and the willingness to forgive. [28:27.638] - Practical Advice for Couples: Strategies for couples to close the gap caused by misunderstandings and to communicate more effectively about apologies and forgiveness. [33:02.474] - Advice for Single Listeners: Tips for single individuals on preparing for future relationships by understanding and working on their own apology languages and satisfaction levels. [37:49.63] - Closing Thoughts and Personal Anecdotes: The hosts wrap up the episode with some final thoughts on the importance of apologies and share a few light-hearted personal anecdotes. Featured Quote: "It's not just about saying 'I'm sorry'; it's about understanding what that apology means to your partner and how it can heal or hurt further." – Matt & Maria Call to Action: Engage with us! We'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode and your experiences with apologies in relationships. Share your stories with us on instagram: @RiaRambles and @Matt87Granados Resources Mentioned: The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman The Five Apology Languages by Gary Chapman (Note: This is a thematic reference to Chapman's work on love languages, expanded upon for the purpose of discussion in this episode.)

    46 min

  2. 18 MAR

    Yikes, your fruit is showing...

    Summary In this episode, Matt and Maria dig into the importance of and difference between growth and change in a relationship. They emphasize the need for submission and selflessness (oooof those words scare ya don't they?!), as well as aligning individual purposes with the purpose of the relationship. They also explore the difference between optimization and high performance in a culture that idolizes high performers.  If you want to actually GROW through this current season of your relationship and not just act like it, this episode is the one for you.   Takeaways Growth and change are essential in a relationship, and it requires intentional effort. Submission and selflessness are key to navigating growth as a couple. Aligning individual purposes with the purpose of the relationship is crucial for unity. Optimization, rather than high performance, leads to sustainable and fruitful relationships.   Topics 00:00 Introduction and Reintroduction 02:16 Growth and Change 07:02 Submission and Selflessness 09:22 Defining Purpose 13:01 Healthy Communication 21:22 Aligning Purpose 25:37 Sustainability and Fruitfulness 30:26 Prioritizing the Unit 34:02 Wrap-up and Battle Round   Drop up topics for future episodes over on instagram at @RiaRambles or @Matt87Granados or share your thoughts as a review wherever you podcast.

    41 min

  3. 11/11/2020

    Review Your Year & Launch Forward...together!

    Today we are digging into one of our favorite things to do each year...review the year and launch forward! Matt and I have a DIY retreat you and your spouse can do together and customize to meet the crazy schedules you have - whether you have one hour or two whole days! This episode is a DO NOT MISS. You'll be using this tool for years to come - and using it as a launch pad for your family's vision each and every year. Let's dig in! Email us at Matt@lifepulseinc.com or Maria@lifepulseinc.com for our DIY retreat resources.

    34 min

  4. 14/10/2020

    Balancing "Freedom" in Marriage & Life

    Freedom.  We all have it to some degree, especially right now with our work-from-home schedules. But does it really make us free? And how does our spouse view that "freedom"? Do we feel like our significant other takes advantage of the freedom in our schedule? We unpack all these questions and MORE in today's spicy episode ;)

    37 min

  5. 07/10/2020

    Make the Most of the Morning

    We weren't always morning people - but now mornings are our favorite time of the day around the Granados house.  We believe in setting INTENTIONAL systems in your morning that will drive your day...and we believe in supporting our spouse as he/she does the same.  The kicker? It's not always easy...or ideal.  But here's how we make the most of our mornings to set our relationships...and our lives up for success.

    33 min

  6. 05/10/2020

    Livin' By Your Vows? - How to take action today!

    Could you recite your vows to your husband or wife today? Do you even remember what you said, let's be honest - ha.  I wrote my dang vows and forget them OFTEN.  Today, Matt and I break down what it would look like if we actually lived by the words we spoke on our wedding day AND how to take baby steps today to make big changes for our marriage.  Let's dig innnnnnto it! . As always follow us @RiaRambles and @Matt87Granados on ig! Or checkout www.LifePulseInc.com

    34 min

  7. 09/09/2020

    #RelationshipGoals

    Achieving goals on our own is enjoyable but doing it with someone else makes a relationship strong.  This is not as easy as it sounds! So, today we break down why it matters to "go on the trip" with your spouse as he/she achieves his/her goals - and what role you should play in that car ride ;)  Let's dig in!

    31 min

  8. 07/09/2020

    Why Couples Trips Matter in Your Marriage

    Couples Retreat scared us all little bit when it comes to vacations with other married friends, ha. But, today we want to challenge you to think a little different about what it means to take a trip with your favorite couples...and why it might be one of the best things you can do for your marriage.  And, we discuss how to do it on any budget and within any time constraint. Let's dive in!

    35 min
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This is not your ol’ boring marriage podcast. Join Matt and Maria Granados, co-founders of Life Pulse Inc., as they dive head first into the dynamics of real relationships...the good, the not so good, and of course the uncomfortably awkward. In each episode, you’ll learn a new tool or strategy, take a look at how to apply it in your relationship, and laugh as we get a little too real in the process. Hey, who likes fake anyways?

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  • Creator
    Maria & Matt Granados
  • Years Active
    2019 - 2024
  • Episodes
    34
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Maria & Matt Granados
  • Show Website
    REALationship

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