46 episodes

Kinky, neurodivergent, want to connect with someone who gets it? It's time to call your Kinky Bestie. Emma (aka your Kinky Bestie) is a neurodivergent ex-catholic school girl turned professional kink mentor for fellow submissives, here to chit chat about all things BDSM lifestyle! New episodes drop every Monday.

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Kinky, neurodivergent, want to connect with someone who gets it? It's time to call your Kinky Bestie. Emma (aka your Kinky Bestie) is a neurodivergent ex-catholic school girl turned professional kink mentor for fellow submissives, here to chit chat about all things BDSM lifestyle! New episodes drop every Monday.

    Listen to this if you keep getting ghosted by Doms online

    Listen to this if you keep getting ghosted by Doms online

    If you're all too familiar with the disappearing act, this is the episode for you. The sooner you understand it you can avoid getting into these situations, and find some lovely kinky matches who are in it for the long haul.



    Relevant Episode Mentioned:

    Episode 8: "4 Ways to Meet Kinksters IRL"



    ☎️ Book a 1:1 Mentorship Call



    Hang out on Instagram @kinkybestie

    • 17 min
    Here's how to know if you should (or shouldn't) go to that Kink Event

    Here's how to know if you should (or shouldn't) go to that Kink Event

    Some reasons why kink events might be right for you, a simple way to gauge whether or not you should go to an event, and why I haven't been attending kink events lately as a mentor in the community 😲



    Relevant Episode Mentioned:

    Ep 22 "Finding Community in Kink: Overcoming Fears & Embracing the Kink Community"



    ☎️ Book a 1:1 Mentorship Call



    Hang out on Instagram @kinkybestie

    • 18 min
    When Submission becomes Self-Sabotage

    When Submission becomes Self-Sabotage

    Let's talk about what happens when serving and sacrificing within a BDSM dynamic can tip-toe into sabotage. How to identify it, what to do about it, and how to find these boundaries for yourself to be the best hecking sub you can be (by taking care of yourself first and foremost).



    🔮 Grab your limited time kinky oracle reading



    Free resources mentioned:

    💖 Kink Shame Healing oracle reading

    🧰 Tech Toolbox for Kinky Entrepreneurs

    • 19 min
    Kink-Shaming is affecting your life more than you realize....

    Kink-Shaming is affecting your life more than you realize....

    SOOO let's talk about the less obvious ways that kink-shaming is 100% affecting your life as a kinkster and what we can actually do about it. I'll also share with you how to flip the script to own and accept your desires + an AMAZING free resource I've made for you to continue your healing journey. ✨ Free Kink Shame Healing Oracle Reading


    Work with Emma:



    Private Kinky Oracle Reading

    1:1 Kink Mentorship

    Kinky Dating Course



    Connect on Instagram @kinkybestie

    • 24 min
    What are Scene Names all About?

    What are Scene Names all About?

    From the practicality of protecting your identity to the powerful manifestation tool they can become, I share my personal journey of choosing my scene name and how it has impacted my kink journey and beyond. Whether you're considering adopting a scene name or curious about their significance within the community, my insights and tips will leave you inspired and empowered to explore your own kinky identity

    • 8 min
    Dating as a Neurodivergent Kinkster

    Dating as a Neurodivergent Kinkster

    Time to dive into the world of dating through the lens of neurodivergence kink mentor. As someone with ADHD and a unique perspective on social interactions, I share my personal experiences and insights on navigating the dating scene when processing things takes a little longer. Whether you're neurodivergent yourself or simply curious about different approaches to dating, join me as I offer tips, anecdotes, and mindset shifts to help you feel more confident in your connections.

    • 21 min

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