32 min
BONUS: Q&A with Rob & Tami - How Can I Heal My Addiction? Sex, Love, and Addiction
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- Sexuality
Rob and Tami talk about the biggest emotion you should fear in your marriage is not hate, it’s indifference. When they no longer care, that’s when you know the relationship can not be salvaged. They also share how you can recover from a betrayal, and how long it truly takes to ‘heal’ an addiction.
TAKEAWAYS:
[0:30] Dissociation and decompartmentalization, how does it work?
[3:50] Addicts don’t trust that people can soothe and comfort us.
[6:25] At the end of the day, reality is what wins.
[8:00] How long does it take to really heal from sexual addiction?
[15:35] Been with your addict for a long time? Tami and Rob have a support group for you.
[16:35] How does an addict’s emotional abuse get addressed at Seeking Integrity?
[20:45] When should I tell my daughter about our toxic relationship?
[23:40] My wife is hurt beyond belief. She wants to know how to make the pain stop?
[29:15] Partners are searching through everything you have because they’re looking for reasons to stay.
[29:45] The opposite of love is indifference.
RESOURCES:
Seekingintegrity.com
Email Tami: Tami@Seekingintegrity.com
Sexandrelationshiphealing.com
Intherooms.com
Out of the Doghouse: A Step-by-Step Relationship-Saving Guide for Men Caught Cheating Book by Robert Weiss
Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency Book by Robert Weiss
Sex Addiction 101: A Basic Guide to Healing from Sex, Porn, and Love Addiction by Robert Weiss
Out of the Doghouse: A Step-by-Step Relationship-Saving Guide for Men Caught Cheating Book by Robert Weiss
Cruise Control Book by Robert Weiss
QUOTES
“Addicts don’t trust that other people can soothe and comfort us. We’re the only ones who we believe can make ourselves feel better.” “We don’t ever heal addiction. Addiction is a form of mental illness.” “If you pursue your recovery with the same energy you pursued when you’re acting out, you’ll do really well, but it’s going to take a lot.”
Rob and Tami talk about the biggest emotion you should fear in your marriage is not hate, it’s indifference. When they no longer care, that’s when you know the relationship can not be salvaged. They also share how you can recover from a betrayal, and how long it truly takes to ‘heal’ an addiction.
TAKEAWAYS:
[0:30] Dissociation and decompartmentalization, how does it work?
[3:50] Addicts don’t trust that people can soothe and comfort us.
[6:25] At the end of the day, reality is what wins.
[8:00] How long does it take to really heal from sexual addiction?
[15:35] Been with your addict for a long time? Tami and Rob have a support group for you.
[16:35] How does an addict’s emotional abuse get addressed at Seeking Integrity?
[20:45] When should I tell my daughter about our toxic relationship?
[23:40] My wife is hurt beyond belief. She wants to know how to make the pain stop?
[29:15] Partners are searching through everything you have because they’re looking for reasons to stay.
[29:45] The opposite of love is indifference.
RESOURCES:
Seekingintegrity.com
Email Tami: Tami@Seekingintegrity.com
Sexandrelationshiphealing.com
Intherooms.com
Out of the Doghouse: A Step-by-Step Relationship-Saving Guide for Men Caught Cheating Book by Robert Weiss
Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency Book by Robert Weiss
Sex Addiction 101: A Basic Guide to Healing from Sex, Porn, and Love Addiction by Robert Weiss
Out of the Doghouse: A Step-by-Step Relationship-Saving Guide for Men Caught Cheating Book by Robert Weiss
Cruise Control Book by Robert Weiss
QUOTES
“Addicts don’t trust that other people can soothe and comfort us. We’re the only ones who we believe can make ourselves feel better.” “We don’t ever heal addiction. Addiction is a form of mental illness.” “If you pursue your recovery with the same energy you pursued when you’re acting out, you’ll do really well, but it’s going to take a lot.”
32 min