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Can you find love in the time of Corona? Is monogamy dead? Are we expecting too much of Tinder? Get all the answers and more with Dateable, your insider’s look into modern dating that the HuffPost calls one of the ‘Top 10 podcasts about love and sex’. Listen in as Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick dig into why we date the way we do as they talk with real daters and experts about everything from sex parties to sex droughts, date fails to diaper fetishes, and first moves to first loves. Whether you’re looking to DTR or DTF, you’ll have moments of “OMG-that-also-happened-to-me” to “I-never-thought-of-it-that-way-before.” Tune in every Wednesday to challenge the way you date in this crazy Dateable world.

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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick | Dating & Relationship Podcast hosts

    • Relationships
    • 4.0 • 42 Ratings

Can you find love in the time of Corona? Is monogamy dead? Are we expecting too much of Tinder? Get all the answers and more with Dateable, your insider’s look into modern dating that the HuffPost calls one of the ‘Top 10 podcasts about love and sex’. Listen in as Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick dig into why we date the way we do as they talk with real daters and experts about everything from sex parties to sex droughts, date fails to diaper fetishes, and first moves to first loves. Whether you’re looking to DTR or DTF, you’ll have moments of “OMG-that-also-happened-to-me” to “I-never-thought-of-it-that-way-before.” Tune in every Wednesday to challenge the way you date in this crazy Dateable world.

Follow us @dateablepodcast on IG and join the private 'Love in the time of Corona' Facebook group

Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.

Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto

Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts

    BONUS: The Worst Dating Advice...from Dating Coaches

    BONUS: The Worst Dating Advice...from Dating Coaches

    We're saying RIP to some of the worst dating advice we've heard from dating coaches. In this week's bonus episode, we'll discuss why certain dating advice should not be taken if you want to be in a healthy relationship, how certain advice is so outdated despite being given today, and how freaking good it feels to say f*ck the rules!

    Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard

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    • 31 min
    BONUS: Our 2021 Dating Predictions

    BONUS: Our 2021 Dating Predictions

    So dating in 2020 was a bit different than we expected yet ironically some of our predictions did come true! What's in store for 2021? On this week's bonus episode, we are giving our dating predictions based on what we know in today's world. We'll discuss the changing landscape due to COVID-19 still, how we can build off of some of the things that actually worked, and why these trends can actually improve our love lives during this crazy time.

    Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard

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    Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto

    Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts

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    • 44 min
    BONUS: Setting your 2021 Intentions (for love)

    BONUS: Setting your 2021 Intentions (for love)

    F*ck our 2020 visions, it's time to set some 2021 intentions! We are officially in the offseason and diving into what you all shared about how you'd be changing your love life in 2021 and the intentions you're setting to get there. We'll discuss why intentions can set you up for success, the types of intentions we set, and how to stay hopeful for 2021.

    Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard

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    Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto

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    • 32 min
    S11E20: Can you have it all? w/ May Lee

    S11E20: Can you have it all? w/ May Lee

    What happens when you prioritize your career over relationships and starting a family? Will you regret it later....or not? We're chatting with news anchor May Lee about the choices she's made over the last 25 years when it came to balancing her career with relationships. We discuss the tradeoffs that inevitably happen, the different gender dynamics at play with successful women, and how you can be happy no matter what path you end up taking.

    Check out @mayleeshow and the May Lee Show on YouTube and wherever you listen to your favorite podcast!

    Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard

    Thank you to our partners for this episode:
    BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable with the code DATEABLE

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    Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto

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    • 1 hr 40 min
    S11E19: Why can't we just be honest? w/ Jared Freid

    S11E19: Why can't we just be honest? w/ Jared Freid

    Let's get honest for a minute as we chat with comedian Jared Freid about the root of "bad dating behavior" and why it can be so damn hard to be honest. We discuss how it can almost be "ungentlemanlike" to be totally upfront, why ambiguity leads to situationships, and what's really going on in man's brain while on the relationship train.

    Follow Jared at @jaredfreid and listen to the J Train Podcast and U Up? on any of your favorite podcast platforms.

    Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard

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    BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable with the code DATEABLE

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    • 1 hr 15 min
    S11E18: How you're wired (for relationships)

    S11E18: How you're wired (for relationships)

    If you're into attachment theory & personality types, prepare to have your mind blown as we chat with Dr. Avigail Lev, PsyD about how our thought patterns and beliefs (aka our schemas) shape everything from how we show up for relationships to which partners we choose. We discuss how early childhood shapes how we show up in relationships today, the love traps we tend to fall into due to our beliefs, and how you can change your behavior to have the love life you've always wanted

    Learn more about Dr. Avigail Lev and her services at CBT Online (https://cbtonline.com) and Bay Area CBT (https://bayareacbtcenter.com). Take the relationship schema quiz to find out your own: https://bayareacbtcenter.com/relationship-schema-quiz

    Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard

    Thank you to our partners for this episode:
    BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable with the code DATEABLE

    Thrive Cosmetics: Get 15% off your first purchase at
    https://thrivecausemetics.com/dateable with the code DATEABLE

    Magic Spoon: Grab a variety pack of Magic Spoon healthy high protein, low carb cereal at magicspoon.com/DATEABLE and try it today! Use the code DATEABLE at checkout to get free shipping.

    NEW MERCH! We just dropped our line of merch with masks, cute tanks & tees, comfy sweatshirts, mugs, stickers, and much more! Check it out today: http://dateablepodcast.com.com/shop

    Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto

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    • 1 hr 47 min

Customer Reviews

4.0 out of 5
42 Ratings

42 Ratings

clairestrawberrylipstick ,

Dating for single moms

I listened to one episode about single mom dating and learned a lot from it and really enjoyed it. As a single mom myself, I would like you guys to have more about the dating topics re single moms and or single dads. Thank you!

Allisongl ,

The comfort of good friends

This show feels like hanging out with your besties - comforting, reassuring, funny and open. They get into tough topics, like aging and dating anxiety, and somehow manage to put my mind at ease. Love the personal stories. Ignore the commenter who criticized use of “like.” Many of us, like, talk like this. Keep going, ladies!

TeddytheFederbear ,

Fun and relevant podcast

I always enjoy this thoughtful podcast - hosts Julie and Yue are great hosts and aren’t afraid to ask the hard questions, do some introspection and delve into quirky topics (diaper fetish, anyone?). A must listen for me every week!

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