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Hi! I'm Belah. Discover with me the secrets to an incredible marriage! Join us, as I interview inspiring and amazing wives and marriage experts who share stories of their difficulties, joys, relationship advice, and secrets to a lasting marriage. I ask each guest to share advice about sexual intimacy as well! Listen in to find out how long-time wives have kept the fun, peace and passion alive!

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Delight Your Marriage | Sexual Intimacy, Relationship Advice, & Christianity Belah Rose | Author, Podcaster, & Marital Intimacy Enthusiast

    • Sexuality

Hi! I'm Belah. Discover with me the secrets to an incredible marriage! Join us, as I interview inspiring and amazing wives and marriage experts who share stories of their difficulties, joys, relationship advice, and secrets to a lasting marriage. I ask each guest to share advice about sexual intimacy as well! Listen in to find out how long-time wives have kept the fun, peace and passion alive!

Check out www.delightyourmarriage.com for your free gift!

    • video
    A prayer for you

    A prayer for you

    "Belah , your webinar was absolutely amazing , we both enjoyed it and cant wait for the other 2!
    ​You have such an incredible insight on the male -female relationship that we haven't seen from any other relationship expert !
    ​Your content was spot on and was such an awesome introduction . Where were you 25 years ago !!!!!!! Lol"​​​
    -Husband
    I was very grateful to receive this review!
    Hope you can make it to TOMORROW's PART 2 and bring your spouse! www.delightyourmarriage.com/renew
    You can see Part 1 for a LIMITED TIME here!:
    www.delightyourmarriage.com/renew_replay

    • 11 min
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    Free, LIVE Online Marriage Seminar - Renewed Connection: Deeper, loving relationship and TRUE intimacy

    Free, LIVE Online Marriage Seminar - Renewed Connection: Deeper, loving relationship and TRUE intimacy

    You and your spouse are cordially invited to this free and LIVE online marriage seminar coming up THIS Wed, Fri & Mon! 


    This is a 3-part Seminar for couples to watch together I give some secret sauce of those I train in my coaching programs  and I want to give it to you free!

    this short podcast episode here, I share the story & read the testimonial of a man who had a sexless marriage for a few years and his hope was almost gone  it pained him even to “flirt” with the idea that there may be a reason to have hope... well thanking God, things have CHANGED!
     
    Go to www.delightyourmarriage.com/renew to sign up for the online seminar and invite other friends who might benefit!
     
    This seminar is a very low-key introduction to the foundations of DYM principles, this is a very easily digestible opportunity to share DYM with friends and your spouse  
    If you’re there live, you’ll get in on some free content that won’t be on the replay (as a thank you for going through all the extra effort of being there live!)

    • 8 min
    234-Oral Sex: Why He Cares (SO Much) & Why She's Not Comfortable

    234-Oral Sex: Why He Cares (SO Much) & Why She's Not Comfortable

    Wives:
    As a wife who was bewildered by his desire and feeling grossed out by it, I get it!
    But more than that... my hangups included, it's dirty, wrong, sinful, perverted, from the pornos, etc etc etc.
    But he kept caring about this. And he wasn't the only one.
    And now I hear from husbands all the time about how important this is to them. 
    And these guys aren't jerks, pigs, or abusers. 
    They're God-honoring gentlemen, who love their wives, they're good fathers and they want to enjoy their lives and their marriage and LOVE HER THE WAY SHE FEELS LOVED TOO!
    --
    Husbands:
    On this episode I have some practical (VERY ehemmm practical) tips for you. This can be something for you guys in your marriage even if you've been married many years!
    If you're tempted to ask your wife to listen to this... consider for a bit. Will it make her feel forced? 
    Instead, I want to invite you to my live, free webinar series coming up!
    This is an awesome opportunity to get your wife introduced to my work.
    It'll have intimacy sprinkled in but it won't be as focused (and possibly alarming to someone not really on board with my concepts).
    But you'll want to attend the webinar too because it'll have golden nuggets for you two! What can YOU do to encourage your wife in this?
    ReNewed Connection: Deeper, Loving Relationship & TRUE Intimacy!
     
    --
    The other free resource I mentioned is The 7 Blocks to Her Libido resource!
     
    Looking forward to having you at the Webinar Series. (Also, if you are seeing this in the future, you can go to the same link and gain some kind of helpful material!)
    ReNewed Connection: Deeper, Loving Relationship & TRUE Intimacy!

    • 25 min
    233-CONFLICT is... good? Interview with Larry Shushansky

    233-CONFLICT is... good? Interview with Larry Shushansky

    Oh man! You're going to get a lot out of this one. Larry Shushansky (from https://www.independentenough.com/) has 40 years of experience as a psychotherapist. We dig into what conflict is, why it happens and how to deal with it. But also that it is GOOD for your marriage.
    However, MOST couples do conflict WRONG---thus it's BAD for theirs. Don't let yours be in this category!
    He has been featured on: Psychology Today, Fast Company, Chicago Tribune, The Huffington Post to name a few... and it shows!
    Some things may SURPRISE you.
    How could conflict be good? How do you MAKE conflict good? What does it mean to be independent but also dependent in your marriage? Aren't you supposed to be vulnerable with your spouse? So, why would you also be independent? Is there some kind of manipulation here? My hope is it will challenge you to think way differently about conflict and your connectedness with your spouse.  Oh, and Larry and I have a conflict about something. I think you'll be really interested to hear! Neither of us backed down and he says we did it right.
    --
    Also, I mentioned that I'd like to invite you and your spouse to attend my Live and Free webinar series:
    New Year, ReNewed Connection: Deeper, Loving Relationship & TRUE Intimacy! Sign up here: www.delightyourmarriage.com/renew2020
    This is for couples (or people to watch on their own) and a ending segment JUST for wives. If you're looking for an easy segue-way to invite your wife to be interested in my work THIS IS IT.
    Or if you have friends that need this work but you don't know how to talk to them about DYM because you know... sex. I get it!
    This is a easy to digest and hints of truths about intimacy but nothing as strong and explicit as I have on my podcast or other material. Its a super easy intro as well as extremely helpful relationship tools.
    Looking forward to having you!
    Love,
    Belah

    • 1 hr 3 min
    “Honey, for my Christmas present, would you...?”

    “Honey, for my Christmas present, would you...?”

    If you’ve listened for a while you may be at a spot where you’re really hoping your spouse would tune into the content. 


    Especially if you’re a husband there is a way that may be really effective around the holiday. 


    “Honey, for my Christmas present would you [read this book, watch this video training with me...]?”
    I have seen this be an effective way to encourage your spouse towards listening and recievubg some of this content that isn’t always the easiest to invite her to listen to or read. 


    If you’d like to sign up for the free, limited offered 3-part video series go to www.delightyourmarriage.com/video
    If you’d like to read my book Delight Your Husband: The Christian Wife’s manual to confidence, passion and oral sex, you can find it onAmazon in ebook or paper book. I’m working on the audiobook so that’ll be available soon!
    God bless you this Christmas season!
    Belah

    • 3 min
    232-Reflect On This One, For Your Next Best Year

    232-Reflect On This One, For Your Next Best Year

    The new year is just about upon us! But how are you prepping for it? How are you making sure you're growing in the ways God wants you to?
    In this podcast, I invite you to think about the ways God may be asking you to reflect on the year you've had. I encourage you to have a pen and paper handy so you can jot down what comes up for you. 
    Why is this a difficult task? I discuss the 3 reasons people don't reflect, but then the way it's vitally important if we're going to be the people God wants us to become. 
    Don't go through a difficult season and NOT learn the lessons He wants you to. You'll just be doomed to repeat that same sad, painful situation. 
    But when you reflect effectively, it gives you hope, peace and faith that God is going to guide you in the next season as well. 
    When you go through this exercise you'll be able to know how you should focus for the new year. I encourage you to spend the time before the new year focusing on what He wants you to. 
    With that in mind, I'll be taking 3 weeks off from the podcast so I can focus and listen and plan for 2020. During this time I hope you'll prep yourself for the new year (feel free to relisten to podcasts you may have missed or wanted to listen to again!). 
     
    I'll speak with you in the New Year! Merry Christmas and God bless!

    • 46 min

Customer Reviews

John15/13 ,

An incredible blessing

I started listening to try and understand my wife more and I got much more than I hoped for.

Turbo locked ,

Option 1 or 2. Downhill

I would take option 2.
Your podcast seems to unfortunately be going downhill. I’ve been here since almost episode 1. You used to focus on women’s sexuality through a biblical lense. That’s what I came to hear. Now maybe you feel you don’t know where to go but you’re including men stuff and your personal coaching stuff and non sexual stuff and... it’s not what I come for. Chill and get back to basics. One more thing, I’m a licensed therapist myself and when you advertise saying 45 minutes is worth $500 plus I choke every time. I’m pretty sure a person can speak with Esther for that coin. I know your trying to come across as worth that but it sounds pretentious and not biblical. You are good at what you do, relax about making millions of dollars and surrender to His plan for finances.

D mcdonald ,

Love it!

Great advice and great guests. A must have on your iPod list to take your marriage to the next level or to answer those questions you have been struggling with.

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