Every other sex and dating podcast tells you how to be with that “one special person” Screw monogamy! Join us on the flip side and let’s talk about open relationships. Welcome to Double Teamed, we’re Cami & Niki, and we want you to come to explore non-monogamy with us: polyamory, sex parties, watching your partner have sex with other people… no topic is off the table!
Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki talk about getting tested for STD. You can be open, have fun, and be as sexually active as you please, BUT go get yourself tested, regularly! And not just you, your partner should too. This can be a sensitive topic to discuss and the best approach is to be respectful to your partner when talking about it. Enjoy today’s not so sexy episode!
P.S. We apologize for Snow’s ambient noises she makes. 😅
00:23 STDs and getting tested
04:50 It is on both parties to get tested
09:42 How often should you get tested when you’re sexually active?
11:56 “Hey, I got tested a week ago, I’m good to go. How are you?”
15:18 Guys who do safe sex are hot!
17:57 Make sure to ask follow-up questions
19:08 Now, how do you get tested?
24:10 You only have one coochie kingdom and one dick dynasty, take care of it
24:37 The stigma around sexually transmitted infections
26:25 Treat the subject with care and respect
Kinky Regards: A Brief Intro into the Dom/Sub World
Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki talk about getting into BDSM. The dom/sub identification isn't a single layer kink. It can be a multiple layer kink where you choose to be in control, the authority, the one who gives the command. You can be the opposite, a sub, who finds pleasure in being submissive, the one being controlled. Or you can scale up and find pleasure in receiving punishment, in taking the pain with pleasure. And the best way to fully enjoy these kinks? Find a partner who knows how to satisfy you!
00:16 Meeting J1, J2, J3, and E1 with Cami and friends
06:45 What is means to be the Dom and the Sub
09:48 24/7 versus bedroom only BDSM
13:02 The Penguin Guy from the Bonding movie
14:49 First type of BDSM: the top and the bottom
17:15 Second type of BDSM: the Master or Mistress
24:03 Third type of BDSM: Daddy or Mommy Dom
27:21 From a bratty sub to a Princess or Prince
30:12 Getting in character when intimate but having own individuality when going out
34:06 Don’t be apologetic if you like to have sex differently
39:12 The praise kink is quite special
42:24 The exhilarating feeling of taking a punishment
Dear Nikki (Glaser) from Niki: Women Can Have Casual Sex
Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki talk about women engaging in casual sex. By societal standards, most people are conditioned to associate sex with love, and that they should go hand in hand. But guess what? Anyone can have sex and not fall in love. Anyone can grab a coffee together, have bomb sex, probably orgasm nine times in an hour, and then part ways. No feelings attached, just casual, eye-rolling, intense sex!
00:28 Is men going monogamous a sacrifice?
04:27 We are conditioned to see love and sex go hand in hand
07:36 This cute guy named Roman
10:26 Using sex as a reward won’t change a man’s motivation
14:10 How not to develop feelings while having casual sex
20:04 Don’t put a guy on a pedestal when he gives you a bomb dick
24:09 Lower your expectations, period
27:49 Detach emotions from casual sex, it’s an exploration
31:23 Would you keep a list of the people you sleep with?
36:17 If you can have straight male friends, you can have casual sex
37:52 Don’t just wait around, go get your orgasm, ride that dick
Flamingos and Pineapples: So Many Food References in a Sex Podcast
Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki talk about exploring popular dating apps - Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, and Feeld. They share tips on how to get started through these apps or going organic with your searches, and stories about different approaches that work and don't work. And oh, don't forget about establishing clear communication, building trust, and condoms!
01:25 Different dating apps to find multiple partners
06:11 Be transparent when creating your profile
09:36 Couples in dating apps may get matches at different paces
10:49 Finding partners organically
13:39 What happened in Vegas last year?
16:15 Find local groups and events on Reddit and Facebook
21:26 FaceTime is a good place too
23:17 Tips when saving numbers
28:16 The best age for DOMs
29:22 Always have someone track your location
31:59 How do you verify couples?
33:14 What does an upside down pineapple say?
Preparing for "The Talk": Babe, Let's Sleep with Other People
Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki talk about four important questions you need to ask yourself if you’re considering an open relationship with your partner. Besides the endless possibilities and limitless thrill of inviting people to have fun and sex, it can be emotionally exhausting. So, mentally and emotionally, you need to be ready to get wild and dirty!
01:27 Why would you want to get into an open relationship?
04:33 First and foremost, how secure are you in yourself?
08:41 How are you going to feel seeing your partner with other people?
11:58 What would your boundaries be?
19:52 Having an open relationship can be emotionally exhausting
22:15 Trip with Niki’s husband and his special friend
Non-Monogamy Cake: The Truth About Open Relationships
Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki share their experience in open relationships. We get down & dirty on getting introduced to non-monogamous relationships, exploring sex with other partners… while you’re married, and what it’s like to build your own harem!
01:06 Polygamy is like a wedding cake
04:32 How to start an open relationship
07:56 Sexual exploration
10:00 Harem guy
14:11 People in the poly community
17:08 Are open relationships still taboo?
20:31 Don’t get married before 25!
23:44 Getting introduced to polyamory
27:23 Doing what’s best for your relationship
31:01 Can people love more than one partner?