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With over 25 years in the BDSM community and the mental health field, I have gained a unique understanding and respect for the alternative lifestyle.

As BDSM has become more mainstream it is important that people become informed and educated about truth of the BDSM community instead of letting inaccurate books and movies shape minds, opinions, and lifestyles in a way that is both incorrect and unhealthy. Myself and guests, from porn stars to pastors, will dive deep into all sides of the lifestyle to paint an accurate, informed, and unbiased picture of BDSM and the surprising truth behind the psychology of participants.

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast Kuldrin Entertainment LLC

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With over 25 years in the BDSM community and the mental health field, I have gained a unique understanding and respect for the alternative lifestyle.

As BDSM has become more mainstream it is important that people become informed and educated about truth of the BDSM community instead of letting inaccurate books and movies shape minds, opinions, and lifestyles in a way that is both incorrect and unhealthy. Myself and guests, from porn stars to pastors, will dive deep into all sides of the lifestyle to paint an accurate, informed, and unbiased picture of BDSM and the surprising truth behind the psychology of participants.

    Top 10 Reasons NOT to Join Your Local Community-S05E23

    Top 10 Reasons NOT to Join Your Local Community-S05E23

    Recorded: Feb 18th, 2024 / Published: March 24th, 2024- Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.  - In this episode, Mayfair and I are talking about the somewhat controversial topic of not joining or being involved with your local BDSM scene.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Top 10 Reasons NOT to Join Your Local Community-S05E23?”We realize that all communities have their own ups and downs and overall cultures. We are not saying that all communities have all, some, or any of these issues. We are speaking generally.10: Bad vibes: Pay attention to your intuition (Ben)9: Unsavory activities: Drugs/drinking (Ben)8: People not taking no for an answer: (Jon)7: Lack of education (Jon)6: A culture of pressuring people to go further than they are comfortable or want. (Ben)6A: Culture of “breaking slaves and subs”5: Lack of education by partner (Daddy’s Princess)4: Partner’s feelings about the safety of your relationship (Daddy’s Princess)3: Predators and the protection of predators by the community2: Relationship issues1: People are crazyImportant Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/522National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers (Updated Dec 1st, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:
    Kuldrin Entertainment
    257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
    Alcoa, TN      37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): - Executive Producer ($25/month) Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and Marie- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Knot_the_Daddy, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, LilyChaos, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn,...

    • 1 hr 49 min
    The New Predator Part 3 Histrionic Personality Disorder-S05E22

    The New Predator Part 3 Histrionic Personality Disorder-S05E22

    Recorded: February 4, 2024 / Published: March 19, 2024
    - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use [our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.  - In this episode, by request, we are talking about human furniture play.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com) Safe, sane, consensual, and informed KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “The New Predator Part 3: Histrionic Personality Disorder-S05E22”https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-autism-spectrum-disorder/202009/5-signs-you-might-be-drama-queen#:~:text=Creating%20drama%20was%20one%20way,%2C%20psychopathic%2C%20and%20narcissistic%20disorders.https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/9743-histrionic-personality-disorder https://www.psychdb.com/personality/histrionic#:~:text=DSM%2D5%20Diagnostic%20Criteria&text=Interaction%20with%20others%20is%20often,to%20draw%20attention%20to%20self Histrionic personality disorder (HPD) is a mental health condition marked by intense, unstable emotions and a distorted self-image. The word “histrionic” means “dramatic or theatrical.”“5 Signs You Might Be a Drama Queen” by Claire Jack Ph.D.Cleveland ClinicHistrionic Personality Disorder (HPD)For people with histrionic personality disorder, their self-esteem depends on the approval of others and doesn’t come from a true feeling of self-worth. They have an overwhelming desire to be noticed and often behave dramatically or inappropriately to get attention.People with histrionic personality disorder often don’t realize their behavior and way of thinking may be problematic.
    A pervasive pattern of excessive emotionality and attention seeking, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by 5 or more of the following (Diagnosis Criteria):Is uncomfortable in situations in which he or she is not the center of attention Interaction with others is often characterized by inappropriate sexually seductive or provocative behavior Displays rapidly shifting and shallow expression of emotionsConsistently uses physical appearance to draw attention to selfHas a style of speech that is excessively impressionistic and lacking in detailShows self-dramatization, theatricality, and exaggerated expression of emotion Is suggestible (i.e. - easily influenced by others or circumstances) Considers relationships to be more intimate than they actually areWhat are the signs and symptoms of histrionic personality disorder?Personality...

    • 1 hr 36 min
    Professional BDSM Domination Mistress Mia Darque-S05E21

    Professional BDSM Domination Mistress Mia Darque-S05E21

    Recorded: January 21, 2024 / Published: March 10, 2024 - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use [our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.  - In this episode, we are talking to Oklahoma's own 6'3" Ebony Amazon and Professional Domme, Mistress Mia Darque.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Professional BDSM Domination: Mistress Mia Darque-S05E21”https://www.justsayred.com/ Quote: "... if for any reason you were unsatisfied with your D/s experience please feel free to complain to the domme that you chose to scene with, but if this domme was wearing a pretty flogger on her hip and kept asking if she's hurting you, WELL... ya just got your monies worth..." -M.M.D.How long?Pro only or pro and lifestyle?Do you switch?Most unusual request?Your style of domination?What are your thoughts on BDSM education and do you teach?Within the lifestyle, what is your passion to talk to others about?What advice to give to people asking you how to get into the pro set?Do you mentor others? If so, is there a fee?What do you have coming up? Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/521National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers (Updated Dec 1st, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN      37701 - Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): - Executive Producer ($25/month) Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and Marie- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Knot_the_Daddy, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, LilyChaos, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme &...

    • 1 hr 56 min
    The New Predator Part 2: Borderline Personality DIsorder-S05E20

    The New Predator Part 2: Borderline Personality DIsorder-S05E20

    Recorded: January 7, 2024 / Published:February 25, 2024
    - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this episode, by request, we are talking about human furniture play.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungDisclaimer: Mayfair and I are not medical professionals and we are only giving our interpretation of the information. Because our advice is to talk to a professional, if you choose to make any decisions because of something we say, you are making those decisions against our advised and are solely responsible for all outcomes of your decisions.“From a message: How can you call someone with a mental illness a predator?”Answer: Thank you for the question, especially an easy one when someone isn’t emotionally attached to the topic. First, because all predators have some degree of mental illness or they wouldn’t prey on people. Second, People with BPD tend to use the diagnosis as an excuse for their behavior. It is an explanation NOT an excuse.- “Drama Queens: The New Predator Part 2: Borderline Personality DIsorder-S05E20”https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-autism-spectrum-disorder/202009/5-signs-you-might-be-drama-queen#:~:text=Creating%20drama%20was%20one%20way,%2C%20psychopathic%2C%20and%20narcissistic%20disorders.https://neurodivergentinsights.com/blog/dsm-5-criteria-for-borderline-personality-disorderPBD is a personality disorder characterized by a pervasive pattern of instability. More specifically, Borderline Personality Disorder is characterized by instability in relationships, self-image, emotions, and behavior (impulsivity).Criteria for diagnosis:1. Frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment.2. A pattern of unstable and intense interpersonal relationships characterized by alternating between extremes of idealization and devaluation.3. Identity disturbance: markedly and persistently unstable self-image or sense of self.4. Impulsivity in at least two potentially self-damaging areas (e.g., spending, sex, substance abuse, reckless driving, binge eating).5. Recurrent suicidal behavior, gestures or threats, or self-mutilating behavior.6. Affective instability due to a marked reactivity of mood (e.g., intense episodic dysphoria, irritability, or anxiety usually lasting a few hours and rarely more than a few days).7. Chronic feelings of emptiness.8. Inappropriate, intense anger or difficulty controlling anger (e.g., frequent displays of temper, constant anger, recurrent physical fights).9. Transient, stress-related paranoid ideation or severe dissociative symptoms.PBD is a most commonly a trauma/PTSD based disorder.Another cause of BPD is learned behavior from having a parent with BPD or other serious mental health disorder such as bipolar disorder or substance abuse.About 70% of diagnosed patients are female. 6.2% female and 5.6%...

    • 1 hr 33 min
    Drama Queens The New Predator Part 1-S05E19

    Drama Queens The New Predator Part 1-S05E19

    Recorded: December 17, 2023 / Published: Feb 17, 2024 - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this first episode of a three part series we are deep diving into the most controversial topic we have address on the podcast: the predatory drama queen.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Drama Queens: The New Predator Part 1-S05E19”https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-autism-spectrum-disorder/202009/5-signs-you-might-be-drama-queen#:~:text=Creating%20drama%20was%20one%20way,%2C%20psychopathic%2C%20and%20narcissistic%20disorders.is a personality disorder characterized by a pervasive pattern of instability. More specifically, Borderline Personality Disorder is characterized by instability in relationships, self-image, emotions, and behavior (impulsivity).Criteria for diagnosis:1. Frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment. 2. A pattern of unstable and intense interpersonal relationships characterized by alternating between extremes of idealization and devaluation. 3. Identity disturbance: markedly and persistently unstable self-image or sense of self. 4. Impulsivity in at least two potentially self-damaging areas (e.g., spending, sex, substance abuse, reckless driving, binge eating). 5. Recurrent suicidal behavior, gestures or threats, or self-mutilating behavior. 6. Affective instability due to a marked reactivity of mood (e.g., intense episodic dysphoria, irritability, or anxiety usually lasting a few hours and rarely more than a few days). 7. Chronic feelings of emptiness. 8. Inappropriate, intense anger or difficulty controlling anger (e.g., frequent displays of temper, constant anger, recurrent physical fights). 9. Transient, stress-related paranoid ideation or severe dissociative symptoms. A pervasive pattern of excessive emotionality and attention seeking, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by 5 (or more) of the following:1. Is uncomfortable in situations in which he or she is not the center of attention2. Interaction with others is often characterized by inappropriate sexually seductive or provocative behavior3. Displays rapidly shifting and shallow expression of emotions4. Consistently uses physical appearance to draw attention to self5. Has a style of speech that is excessively impressionistic and lacking in detail6. Shows self-dramatization, theatricality, and exaggerated expression of emotion7. Is suggestible (i.e. - easily influenced by others or circumstances)8. Considers relationships to be more intimate than they actually are“5 Signs You Might Be a Drama Queen” by Claire Jack Ph.D.Borderline Personality DIsorder (BPD):Histrionic Personality Disorder (HPD)Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/519National Suicide Hotline:...

    • 1 hr 40 min
    Human Furniture What, Why, and How-S05E18

    Human Furniture What, Why, and How-S05E18

    Recorded: Nov 3rd, 2023 / Published: Fed 4th, 2024
    - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this episode, by request, we are talking about human furniture play.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Human Furniture: What, Why, and How?-S05E18”Human furniture refers to a practice within the BDSM community where a person acts as an object or piece of furniture for another individual's use or pleasure. This practice involves a consensual and negotiated power exchange dynamic where one person willingly takes on the role of being used as an object or piece of furniture by another person or group. The person might be positioned or manipulated to resemble furniture, such as becoming a footstool, table, chair, or any other household item. The submissive might be required to hold a specific pose or position for a certain period, providing physical support or serving as a surface for the dominant person's comfort or convenience.Participation in human furniture kink, like many other activities within BDSM or fetish communities, can be motivated by a variety of psychological factors and individual desires. Here are a few potential reasons:Power Dynamics: For some, assuming the role of human furniture can be a way to explore power dynamics. Both the person taking on the role of furniture and the person using them may find pleasure in the exchange of power and control.Sensory Stimulation: Engaging in this kink might provide intense sensory experiences. For some individuals, being in a static position or role could create physical sensations or mental states that are stimulating or arousing.Role-Playing and Fantasy: Like many BDSM activities, human furniture play can involve role-playing and fulfilling specific fantasies. It could be a form of escapism or a way to explore desires that are not easily expressed in everyday life.Exploration and Experimentation: Engaging in unconventional or taboo activities like this can be a way for some to explore their own boundaries, desires, and limits within a safe and consensual context.Connection and Intimacy: It might also serve as a means of connection and intimacy between partners. Trust and communication are crucial in these scenarios, and the level of intimacy can deepen as participants engage in a vulnerable yet controlled environment.Crafting a human furniture scene: Like all scenes, there are eight basic steps to follow to help mitigate risks and increase rewards. A few of the most important things to remember are to communicate thoroughly, go slow, and don’t expect yourself or someone else to be a table for hours on end at the start. Like kneeling, impact play, bondage, and most other types of play, a person needs to build stamina through practice.Communication and Consent: Start by discussing interests, desires, and limits with your partner(s). Clearly express what you're comfortable with and what you're interested in exploring. This includes the roles, positions, intensity of the play, medical conditions, medications, and psychological issues and needs.Establish Safe Words and Signals: Agree upon a safe word or signal that anyone involved can use to pause or stop the role play if they feel uncomfortable or need a break. Safety and consent are paramount.Define Roles and Scenarios: Decide who will take on the role of...

    • 1 hr 14 min

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