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Relationships are for heroes.

Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself.

In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.

About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.

Love Life with Matthew Hussey Matthew Hussey

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    • 4.7 • 410 Ratings

Relationships are for heroes.

Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself.

In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.

About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.

    (Matt Monday): Why They ALWAYS Come Back + How to Reach Out After It Ends

    (Matt Monday): Why They ALWAYS Come Back + How to Reach Out After It Ends

    "How can you tell the difference between love bombing and genuine interest?"


    This is just one question out of 10 that I answer in today's rapid-fire Q&A episode, which also includes answers to:
     "What Dating Advice Would You Give to Your 16-Year-Old Self?"  "When Did You Last Cry?"  "How Can I Get Over the Shame of Having Stayed Too Long in a Relationship?"  "Is It Worth Reaching Back Out to an Ex Who May Have Changed?" ... and much more.


    It was super fun to read and answer all your questions. Be sure to leave me a comment with any questions you might have for part 2!
     
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    • 19 min
    (Rewind): 7 Surprising Signs They Like You...

    (Rewind): 7 Surprising Signs They Like You...

    If you’ve ever wondered, “do they actually like me?" then you don’t want to miss this episode…

    How do you know if someone genuinely has eyes for you, or if they're just like that with everyone they meet? 

    Taking the risk of putting yourself on the line could mean embarrassment, rejection, or make things super-awkward between you both later on.

    You need to know when you have the green light. You need to be sure when it’s ok to flirt and test the waters.

    In this clip then, I'll show you the 7 obvious signs someone REALLY likes you...

    ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at . . .
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    ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
     
    ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

    • 4 min
    247: Why He Disappeared After Sleeping With You

    247: Why He Disappeared After Sleeping With You

    Have you ever gotten intimate with someone who seemed to show ALL the signs of wanting more with you, only for them to go cold afterwards? Why does this happen? And is there anything you can do to protect yourself from this happening again?

    In this episode, Matt and Audrey discuss why men can disappear after sex, how to judge whether to sleep with someone or not, and how not to get seduced by the wrong people. 

    ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at . . .
    → http://www.The3Relationships.com
     
    ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
     
    ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

    • 39 min
    (Matt Monday): 7 Tests to Know If You’re Compatible

    (Matt Monday): 7 Tests to Know If You’re Compatible

    Is love enough to keep a relationship going?

    You may have asked yourself this question when you’ve faced a difficult breakup.

    In today’s episode, I go deep on this question, and talk about 7 compatibility tests that can help determine whether your relationship will last.

    These are some of the most underrated qualities in a partner, and after watching, you’ll never look at compatibility the same way again . . .

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    Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at . . .
    → http://www.The3Relationships.com

    ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

    ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

    • 17 min
    (Rewind): How to Get Over the Pain of Rejection

    (Rewind): How to Get Over the Pain of Rejection

    Perhaps you've felt it after someone ghosted you following what you thought was a perfect date… 


    Or after pouring your heart and creativity into a project only to have it ripped to shreds by those you admire most ...


    Rejection can come in many forms, but the gut punch feels the same as it shatters your ego.


    Ultimately, the history of your rejection has been written, but the legacy of it is for you to decide
    The way you craft this legacy can result in some of the most meaningful wins of your life, and in this week's episode, you'll learn how to make that happen.

    >> Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http:// www.LoveLifeBook.com

    >> FREE Video Training: "Dating With Results" → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

    >> Get Vulnerable Stories, Real Insights, and Practical Tools Delivered Straight to Your Inbox Every Friday. Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at ... → http://www.The3Relationships.com

    • 9 min
    246: Q&A Episode! Answering YOUR Dating Questions

    246: Q&A Episode! Answering YOUR Dating Questions

    We answered YOUR dating questions! Join me and my wife Audrey as we dive into fears of cheating, red flags on dating apps, confusing post-break up texts and more! 

    ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
     
    ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com
     
    ►► Get Vulnerable Stories, Real Insights, and Practical Tools Delivered Straight to Your Inbox Every Friday.
    Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at . . .
    → http://www.The3Relationships.com

    • 23 min

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
410 Ratings

410 Ratings

KimSC23 ,

Thank you for your life-changing Angel work, Matthew & team!

I first discovered Matthew when he was on Red Table Talk. Since then I’ve listened to most of the Love Life podcast episodes, tuned into Matthew’s interviews on other podcasts (Jay Shetty, Lewis Howes, etc.), read Get The Guy, attended many Love Life webinars and trainings, and just finished reading Love Life.

I wanted to share that the book resonated so deeply with me. The wisdom of your words made my heart swell to the point that I felt it explode in my chest, resulting in an overflow of tears. Not out of sadness, but it’s just the reaction one has when one is confronted with the awe-inspiring beauty of The Truth. Your concepts, metaphors, and topics covered in your work (e.g., finding a builder, the relay race, happy enough, F-U confidence, Stephen’s invest & test, fireworks, standards, self-compassion, self-love/being “My Human/Person”, 4 stages in a relationship, grief, peace & progress, the parallel to Chopped, creating magic, scarcity/abundance mindset, etc.) were life-changing for me.

Diving into your work has literally changed the trajectory of my life, and reframed how I am approaching my life with intention and a hopeful heart. One profound a-ha/eureka moment I experienced from reading your most recent book was the realization that the greatest love story I’ll ever experience in my lifetime is the one with myself. I am the heroine and author in my own story. Your message is so uplifting and empowering. You’ve given me what I needed to hear as a 40+ year old single woman finding myself in a life I didn’t expect, but confident that I can make magic out of the ingredients I’ve been given.

If this is the impact you’ve had on me, the power and reach of your work are truly immeasurable given the millions of people who follow you and are part of the Love Life community. Thank you for your Angel work, and for sharing your many gifts with the world. I wish you continued success, every happiness, an abundance of love, and all of Life’s Blessings!

PS Congratulations to you and Audrey! You’ve found your co-builder in each other, and you are going transform your plot of land into magical castle grounds. What a hopeful and inspiring model you two are for us all! May your marriage be marked by lifelong friendship and a love that only continues to grow and deepen with time.

Sara 0909 ,

Love you guys!

Been binge listening since July and you guys are a riot! I heard one reviewer say she didn’t enjoy the chit chat at the start of the episodes, but I totally disagree! I love hearing you guys joke and tell stories. I’ve enjoyed those episodes the most and have laughed my head off at some of the things Matt has said - and the voices lol. Keep it up and we’ll keep listening and purchasing!

Pushni ,

Hands Down The Best Podcast to Improve & Have A Healthy Love Life

I've been listening to Matt for years now and first discovered his content during lockdown. To keep this short and sweet, he has single-handedly changed me from being codependent and insecure to confident (both with myself and in love) and healthily independent but still allowing myself to feel vulnerable in love. His perspective on love and life as a whole is truly remarkable and one of a kind. You cannot find a better podcast when it comes to improving your love life (AND your life in general) than this one. Thank you Matt (and Stephen, Audrey, Jameson) for sharing your light with us. You are changing lives ❤️

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