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Sex Chat for Christian Wives Bonny Burns, Gaye Christmus, J Parker, and Chris Taylor
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- Religion & Spirituality
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4.7 • 42 Ratings
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Four Christian wives encourage other wives to enjoy God’s gift of sex in all of its awesomeness by presenting a biblical view, practical tips, and engaging discussion about godly sexual intimacy.
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Dealing with Your Gag Reflex (Quickie)
In this week's Sex Chat Quickie, Chris gives you four tips on dealing with a gag reflex during oral sex.
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Fostering Sexual Attraction
When we talk about romantic attraction, we think of personal charm, visual appeal, and that spark of chemistry when a certain person is near. But for today's episode, consider this scientific one from Merriam-Webster, defining attraction as "a force acting mutually between particles of matter, tending to draw them together, and resisting their separation."
We're not just particles, but we want to be drawn toward our husband and to resist separation from him (and vice versa). But attraction doesn't stay the same over the whole of our marriage. Today, we talk about how we can keep attraction going or revive it if it's been lost.
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From the Bible
My beloved is radiant and ruddy,
distinguished among ten thousand.
Song of Songs 5:10
But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and forever! Amen.
2 Peter 3:18
Resources
What If You Don't Find Your Husband Attractive - Hot, Holy & Humorous How to Boost Romantic Chemistry in Your Marriage - Hot, Holy & Humorous Why Being a Good Father Turns Your Wife On - Hot, Holy & Humorous Episode 70: Pursuing & Wooing Your Wife, with Kevin A. Thompson - Knowing Her Sexually (khsministry.com) I Wouldn't Sleep with You Either - Kevin A. Thompson (kevinathompson.com) Donate to the Ministry HERE.
Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! if you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.
Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:
Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker -
Learn About His Body (Quickie)
This week's quickie sex tip encourages you to learn about your husband's body.
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What's So Great About Sex?
You've probably heard that sex is good for your husband or good for your marriage, but what about you? We share our thoughts on what's so great about sex for WIVES. Listen in!
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From the Bible
So I commended enjoyment, because a man has nothing better under the sun than to eat, drink, and be merry; for this will remain with him in his labor all the days of his life which God gives him under the sun. Ecclesiastes 8:15 (NKJV)
So God created mankind in his own image,
in the image of God he created them;
male and female he created them.
God saw all that he had made, and it was very good. And there was evening, and there was morning—the sixth day.
Genesis 1:27, 31
“For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. Ephesians 5:31–32
Resources
Dear Wife, You Deserve a Great Sex Life | Calm.Healthy.Sexy. Sex Is for You Too Episode 132: The Orgasm Iceberg Controversial Ideas: Does Semen Act As an Antidepressant to the Recipient? (popsci.com) The Health Benefits of Sex (healthline.com) The Gift of Sex: A Guide to Sexual Fulfillment by Clifford & Joyce Penner Episode 101: Enjoying Sex, with Joyce Penner Rethinking Sexuality: God's Design and Why It Matters by Dr. Juli Slattery Episode 147: God, Sex, and Your Marriage, with Dr. Juli Slattery Donate to Our Ministry
Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! if you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.
Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:
Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker -
Undress for Your Husband (Quickie)
In this week's sex tip, Chris talks about undressing for your husband as a sort of foreplay that helps both of you.
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Sex Drive & Genetics, Erectile Problems, and Missing Sleep for Sex (Listener Questions)
Today, we tackle listener questions about whether low sex drive might be genetic, as well as how to address lack of desire; dealing with a husband's erectile problems; and what to do about a husband who disrupts a wife's sleep for sex.
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From the Bible
Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires. Song of Songs 2:7, 3:5, 8:4
Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them. Colossians 3:19
Resources
Unlock Your Orgasm by Bonny Logsdon Burns Unlock Your Libido by Bonny Logsdon Burns Dear Wife, You Deserve a Great Sex Life | Calm.Healthy.Sexy. How Not to Think About Sex | The Forgiven Wife Sex Is for You Too What Is Sex? | Hot, Holy & Humorous 2020 Study about Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction 5 Times of Day to Make Love | Hot, Holy & Humorous Does Sex Wake You Up or Make You Sleepy? | Hot, Holy & Humorous Melatonin Gummies (Amazon) Donate to Our Ministry HERE.
Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! if you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.
Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:
Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker
Customer Reviews
Candid, helpful, honest, needed
I think our world needs more of these types of podcasts. Love how the hosts here aren’t scared to tackle an often taboo topic within Christian circles. I so value hearing the perspectives of more than just one woman, especially because I have felt “odd” in the past because of my higher sex drive. The conversation from more than one host makes it more relatable! Also, Thankyou for all the links in the description of the podcasts. Blessings on your ministry.
Steph
So refreshing!! My husband actually came across this podcast during a rocky time in our now 13yr marriage. He showed it to me and I LOVED it. The dialogue is candid, funny and extremely helpful. I felt less alone in my struggles. The wisdom and honesty from these ladies have helped to shift my perspective in many areas of sexual intimacy. As well as helping me to understand my husband a bit more - hello 🙌🏼!!! There are tons of different topics to choose from, so this podcast is a must-listen in my books. You will not be disappointed!
The mentors I wish I had
I came across this podcast at a time when I had become resentful toward my husband, always giving him sex out of a sense of duty, but never actually enjoying it myself. I was brutally honest with him one day and told him I hated having sex. Then I started listening to these ladies and felt like they were the mentors I wish I had. I learned that my low sex drive during the pregnancy and the young children years is perfectly normal and there are some simple things you can do to help. These ladies are refreshingly practical, and I love that they don't all agree, so you get several different takes on each issue, rather than being fed just one "orthodox" way of seeing everything, as so many Christian resources offer. They laugh a lot, and I find myself laughing along with them. I also love that they all have two or more decades more wisdom than I do, so there is a more well-rounded perspective than my peers can offer. As for our sex life, it has taken a turn for the better! My husband and I both recommend this podcast.
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