50 episodes

Jay Dee from the blog UncoveringIntimacy.com explores married sexuality from a Christian perspective. Each week we'll explore topics relating to married sexuality from psychology, physiology and also explore what the Bible says about sex, and how to apply that to our lives. We'll also take listener's questions and answer them with frank, but informative answers, drawing on our communities experiences through surveys when applicable. If you have a question you'd like answered on the podcast, please visit UncoveringIntimacy.com to submit your anonymous question on our Have A Question page. So, if you want a healthy, vibrant, active sex life but have questions that are holding you back, please tune in and learn about how amazing and fulfilling marriage can be.

Sex Within Marriage Podcast : Exploring Married Sexuality from a Christian Perspective Jay Dee - Marriage Educator

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Jay Dee from the blog UncoveringIntimacy.com explores married sexuality from a Christian perspective. Each week we'll explore topics relating to married sexuality from psychology, physiology and also explore what the Bible says about sex, and how to apply that to our lives. We'll also take listener's questions and answer them with frank, but informative answers, drawing on our communities experiences through surveys when applicable. If you have a question you'd like answered on the podcast, please visit UncoveringIntimacy.com to submit your anonymous question on our Have A Question page. So, if you want a healthy, vibrant, active sex life but have questions that are holding you back, please tune in and learn about how amazing and fulfilling marriage can be.

    SWM 052 – Are Dominance/Submission Games in the Bedroom OK?

    SWM 052 – Are Dominance/Submission Games in the Bedroom OK?

    Are Dominance and submission games in the bedroom okay? This is a question from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.
    In this episode, we're tackling the question of whether or not dominance and submission play is humiliating, if it's okay to call your husband "sir" in the bedroom, what about "daddy", and what if the wife is the dominant one?
    This month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List printable, which we're actually giving away free to our $5+ supporters this month. Interested in learning more? Check it out here. Want to get it free, check our supporter information page.
    Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:
    My wife wants me to tie her up?Beginner Bondage QuestionsHonor BondageHousehold Hierarchy - What does our phsysiology say about who should lead?According to the Bible, which gender should lead?What does household leadership mean for the husband?Finding the Father - Herb MontgomeryFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter
    If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.
    We are 95% of the way to our next support goal! Thank you to all our faithful supporters.
    If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference.

    • 19 min
    SWM 051 – Anonymous Questions – October & November 2019 – Types of orgasms, sleeping during sex & more

    SWM 051 – Anonymous Questions – October & November 2019 – Types of orgasms, sleeping during sex & more

    October and November 2019 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.
    In this episode, we're tackling the subjects:
    Other types of orgasmsHow to deal with a transgendered-friendCrossdressing for comfortAn unrepentant husbandOrgasmless sexWife sleeps during sexHusband will not come to bed at a decent timeWhat if you medically can't have sexHow do you switch from being single and chaste to married and sexual?This month our most popular resource is our Spice Jar printable. Interested in learning more? Check it out here.
    Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:
    What happens to our souls when we have sex?Dante's The Divine ComedyHow do I know my spous is my soul-mate?Is it wrong for Christians to crossdress?Keep your love on - Danny SilkBoundaries in Marriage - Henry Cloud and John TownsendIs mutual masturbation okay for married Christians?Intimacy IgnitedFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter
    If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.
    We gained a bunch of supporters back again, some new, so we are 91% of the way to our next support goal! Thank you to all our faithful champions.
    If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference.

    • 36 min
    SWM 050 – Anonymous Questions from September 2019 – Deployed Spouses, Passive Sex Partners, Sleep Apnea and How to Boost Attraction for your Spouse

    SWM 050 – Anonymous Questions from September 2019 – Deployed Spouses, Passive Sex Partners, Sleep Apnea and How to Boost Attraction for your Spouse

    September 2019 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.
    In this episode, we're tackling the subjects:
    How do you deal with deployment and sex drivesHow do we improve sexual intimacyHow to improve our sex lifeSatisfaction and adventurousnessHow do you get your wife to be more dominant in bedAsking doesn’t work, not asking doesn’t workHusband has sleep apneaWhat should teenagers do instead of masturbate?Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:
    Mutual Masturbation for Married ChristiansDr. Jessica McCleeseIntimacy Ignited - Small Group StudyThe worst time to spice up your sex life9 raunchy reasons why letting him c*m up your nostril will lead to the best sex of your lifeIntroduction to Talking DirtyIntimacy Advent CalendarFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter
    If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.
    We gained a bunch of supporters back again, some new, so we are 86% of the way to our next support goal! Thank you to all our faithful champions.
    If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference.

    • 42 min
    SWM 049 – Focus on your spouse, not the model

    SWM 049 – Focus on your spouse, not the model

    Focus on your spouse, not the model. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.
    In this episode, I'm talking about spontaneous and responsive desire are just a model to help educator and guide. But eventually you have to drop the model and focus on how your spouse is unique.
    Listen to these two podcast episodes first:
    Responsive desire is a blessingSpontaneous desire is a blessingCheck out our Intimacy Advent Calendar if you're looking for a Christmas gift to help boost intimacy and keep you and your spouse focused on each other during the holidays. Visit the site to check out all the amazing reviews people shared from last year.
    If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our support page for more info. Also, supporters giving at least $5/month get our Intimacy Advent Calendar free this month.
    Make sure you subscribe to the newsletter so you don't miss out on everything that's going on. Lastly, if you have any questions, you can always email me at jay@uncoveringintimacy.com.

    • 15 min
    SWM 048 – Anonymous Questions from July & August 2019 – Squirting, Anal sex tips & Unreciprocated oral sex

    SWM 048 – Anonymous Questions from July & August 2019 – Squirting, Anal sex tips & Unreciprocated oral sex

    July and August 2019 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.
    In this episode, we're tackling the subjects:
    How often do people's sex drives switch from low to high?How to squirtWife is into whippingAnal sex tipsSingle and curious about erectionsLow drive wife is secretly masturbating every nightHusband has a secret Facebook profilePorn addiction ruining relationshipsWife said she could go months without sexLow drive husband with Asperger's SyndromeSex is just another thing on my wife's checklistOral sex not being reciprocatedHusband engaging with women onlineHere are the links I mentioned during the podcast:
    Responsive vs Spontaneous DesireWomen's Health Magazine - Make yourself squirtBoundaries In Marriage - Henry CloudCovenant Eyes Web FilteringThe Complete Guide to Asperger's Syndrome22 Thing a Woman Must Know if She Loves a Man with Asperger's SyndromeFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter
    If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.
    We lost a few supporters over the slow summer and due to fincial setbacks from a couple of our supporters, but we're gaining traction again. We're 81% of the way to our next goal - weekly podcast episodes!
    If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference.

    • 33 min
    SWM 047 – Spontaneous desire is a blessing

    SWM 047 – Spontaneous desire is a blessing

    Spontaneous desire is a blessing. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.
    In this episode, I'm talking about how spontaneous desire can actually be a blessing to both the one with spontaneous desire and the person who's spouse has it.
    Links I mentioned are:
    Responsive desire is a blessingOur supporter forumWhat's a good first sex toy?All you want is sexTrapped Gatekeepers - Blame the guard, not the prisonerThe dual control model - Why you sometimes can't get in the mood for sexYour definition of gross changes when you're arousedIs sex a need or a want?Marriage CoachingIf you have any questions, you can email me at jay@uncoveringintimacy.com.
    If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our support page for more info.
    Make sure you subscribe to the newsletter so you don't miss out on everything that's going on.

    • 27 min

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Great for non-Christians too

I'm a non-Christian female who was looking for some insight into what my husband was thinking/feeling especially when it came to sex. This podcast helped me to decode a lot of this and as a result my marriage has drastically improved. Listen with an open mind, I promise you'll learn a lot. Also the host Jay Dee was quick to get back to me with f-up questions I had. Highly recommend.

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