The Alpha Male Coach Podcast is the only podcast that teaches intelligent men practical tools and strategies for cultivating the confidence to approach beautiful women, create massive wealth, and unleash their personal greatness. Certified Life Coach Kevin Aillaud combines neuroscience and coaching wisdom to teach men just like you how to take control of your life, meet women, get over being shy, start a conversation, make friends, and become an Alpha man. You’ll be surprised at what you can achieve with a well-managed mind. Download Unleash Your Alpha – your guide to shifting to the alpha mindset – at thealphamalecoach.com/unleash.
Episode 115: Commitment In Relationships
Hello and welcome to another episode, my brothers. Today I am talking about one of the most misunderstood facets of the human experience, that's right, today's episode is about relationships. Specifically commitment in relationships, and what it means to commit and stay committed. The reason we have so much difficulty with this area of our lives is our misalignment with the truth, something I want to aid you in correcting!
In order to experience healthy relationships and bear the fruit of our commitments, we need a better connection to the inner world. We need to more closely align with the commitments we make to ourselves because in the end, a relationship is more of a commitment to the self than to another. When our commitment turns into expectations around stories we tell ourselves, we are headed for disaster, brothers. I am here to explain how you can relinquish fear and control and allow trust back into a meaningful connection.
It is asking the impossible of someone when we make and take vows. This is not what commitment means! Actions and thoughts that lead to guilt and anger have no place in a healthy relationship, and this ties into the role of boundaries and what we are prepared to provide for a partner. Join me today as I unpack this vital component of your alpha journey!
Episode 114: What About Anger?
Welcome back to the show, brothers. Today I will be addressing an important part of anyone's emotional landscape, and especially for a man looking to elevate his alpha. Our topic for this episode is anger, a subject that I have received many questions about, and one that is vital in your journey towards accessing your true purpose.
To set the stage, we look at the three tiers of emotions. These categories help us to see how our emotions impact us and how we interact with them. Now, anger can fall into any of these tiers, and that is part of what we explore in this episode. If we become the anger that rises in us, the results of it will be very different from allowing and processing angry feelings we experience in a healthy manner.
An important lesson from this discussion is that there is nothing wrong with anger in itself. But we all have better and worse ways of dealing with anger and the more we are able to exercise healthy habits around it and the array of emotions we feel, the more we master our world.
Anger may occupy a useful place in your internal selves, and there is nothing wrong with that per se. You are the one who needs to choose your emotions and how you relate to them. Your anger can be powerful and even necessary, but remember, brothers, it can only be as strong as the control you have over it! For all this and more on such a vital aspect of our lives, join me today!
Episode 113: The Tools Part 3: The Matrix
In light of the election and many people’s strong emotions about the outcomes, today’s teaching comes at a great time. Whether you experience a sense of victory or loss – depending on who took the presidency – what you’ve got to understand that the outcome really has nothing to do with how you are feeling. The data is neutral; it’s all about how your thoughts are shaping the emotions you have.
What I’m diving into today is the topic of creation. It is not about the created but the power of creation; the power is in the process itself. With people coming to me to lose weight, find a girlfriend, or quit drinking, it is clear that they are hoping for a change that happens from the external to the internal. But it doesn’t work that way and it perpetuates your suffering, my brother. You have to focus on the cause – not the effect. The cause is your belief, and this is what will ultimately determine the outcomes you get. The matrix is always a result, and it keeps you trapped in your beta condition.
Remember that, in the realm of form and matter (the created), nothing is ever added or taken away. How the form and matter are presented is the only thing that changes. To us, it seems like ‘real’, tangible distinctions when, in fact, it is just a flux of energy. The created as we perceive it is thus temporary. Creation is the only aspect of importance. When you understand that the process of creation is in your hands, you step out of the matrix of the created and begin to change your life.
Tuning in today, you will learn how you can tap into your identity as a creator and contributor. You no longer have to be satisfied with what comes your way – you can determine what you get by having the right thoughts. Let me help you transition from the compromised beta condition to the empower alpha state!
Episode 112: The Tools Part 2: The Alpha
Welcome back to the podcast my brothers, as we continue this important journey together! Today's episode is part two in our series on the tools of alignment and is all about what you need to get into touch with your Alpha and relinquish the control that the beta condition can exercise over your life!
So what are we talking about here? The first part is about allowing the Alpha to determine your actions and teach the beta, in order to reach that all-important alignment. This comes with the power of knowing, and I really want to underline how this works and how we come to 'know something'.
As usual, this relates to getting away from fear and accessing that true Alpha state. This is a process episode and I will be trying to keep everything as concrete and actionable as possible for all of you! We even talk about the questions many of you might be asking around the possibility of reverse engineering this process from the results that you already know.
Make sure to join me for this vital piece of the puzzle for elevating your Alpha!
Episode 111: The Tools Part 1: The Law
Today’s podcast is the first of three where we will be exploring some basic tools that you can use to help you see the truth of who you are and what you are capable of – which is exactly what you believe you are capable of.
One thing we all need to understand is that the universe is governed by natural laws. For example, in the law of electricity, watts divided by amps equals volts, and volts times amps equal watts. There is also the universal law of cause and effect, and it is this law that governs the relationship between our thoughts and our lives.
The law of cause and effect does not judge our thoughts. Like any law or system, it takes certain inputs and produces the appropriate outputs. Like a math equation, the law of cause and effect produces precisely the results that are appropriate to the force and frequency of the thoughts it receives as inputs. This law also creates a feedback loop, where the more we see how thoughts produced real events, the more we can believe that specific things will happen when we think specific thoughts.
This law of cause and effect can be seen in action as it governs the results our thoughts produce, and today we go through some exercises that you can do to help you understand it better. These exercises are named the thought download and the unintentional model of alignments. Using them, we study how neutral stimuli that we receive through our five senses are interpreted by our thoughts, thereby producing feelings that drive action. Tune in to learn how to use these exercises to rewire your responses so that you can produce the actions required to change your life forever.
Episode 110: The Alpha State: Unconditional Love
To expand on the ideas of indomitable self-confidence that we explored in the last episode, I will be explaining the importance of unconditional love and how it fits into the model of alignment. The alpha state we are reaching for is within your grasp and this is just another piece of the puzzle for you to get closer to your goals.
That version of yourself that you know you want to attain, the one with confidence and stability, honesty and power, contains, without a doubt, elements of unconditional love. This love can be directed at oneself, but importantly as you will hear, is also a means to deal with other people in our lives.
When we accept the parts that make up the model of alignment, and we begin to see that none of us are our reactions or emotions, our mistakes, and successes, then it becomes that much easier to approach external forces and particularly people, with unconditional love and understanding. In this way we are non-judgmental and it is just another element of cognitive mastery.
Stay tuned for this amazing episode, brothers, as I talk about saying yes to what is, getting away from a fixation on demonstration, and liberating yourself from the beta conditioning that can hold back your greatest self!
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