The Evolved Caveman w/ Dr. John Schinnerer Dr. John Schinnerer -The Evolved Caveman

A Conversation Between Author, Mark Winkler and Dr. John Schinnerer

This episode is an attempt to provide a way forward through the increasingly divisive topic of traditional masculine ideology (i.e., those who subscribe to the ideas that men shouldn't feel, women belong in the kitchen, women are sexual conquests men should be hypersexual, men are homophobic, men who don't fight back are weak, gay men are not 'real men', men should use violence to get respect). Research shows that men who strongly endorse these traditional beliefs are more likely to feel depressed, are less satisfied in their romantic relationships (as are their partners), tend to be angrier, are more violent towards others and are more psychologically rigid. This episode is an effort to invite men to examine their ideas about what it means to be a man...with curiosity and nonjudgmental...to truly look at what parts of it work for them and which pieces need some editing.

The Evolved Caveman is committed to helping men evolve beyond caveman status.

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A fascinating deep dive into sex and relationship with men’s coach, Shana James. Some of the topics include…

What do the tears of men reveal about the conflict between men and women? What happens when someone gives you 100% permission to feel everything you feel? How do authenticity and vulnerability in men improve their romantic relationships?

How can men create more of a spark in their romantic relationship?

How does passion enter into men’s careers, dreams and ultimately, satisfaction with life?

Shana James, M.A. Bio

For 15 years Shana James has coached more than a thousand leaders, CEOs, authors, speakers and people with big visions who step into more powerful leadership, start and grow businesses, increase their impact, find love, create a legacy, and become more personally inspired and fulfilled.

Referred to as a secret weapon, she cuts through distraction and provide direct access to your confidence, power and clarity. She is also a translator between women and men, providing effective tools to transform conversations and dynamics that have gone awry into connection and collaboration.

With an M.A. in psychology, DISC certification, Coaching training, more than a decade facilitating groups and workshops, starting multiple businesses and helping hundreds of entrepreneurs start their own, her range of skills is vast.

For More Info on Shana…
ShanaJamesCoaching.com

TEDx Talk
https://shanajamescoaching.com/tedx

3 ways men lose influence at work and with women:
https://shanajamescoaching.com/3ways/

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Happy New Year! Finally, 2021 is here! [Deep exhale.] With the hope that this year will be much better than last year, now is the perfect time to take a look at who you are and who you want to be. This is the perfect conversation to set your new year heading in the right direction. A deep and poignant conversation between Dr. John and Eric Yusko on the future direction of men for greater success and happiness.

Topics include…

The need for men to work on truly accepting compliments into their heart.

What is your gift as a man to do great things and how can compliments help you identify them?

Why do men build walls to keep others out (As in Pink Floyd's The Wall)? To what extent is The Wall a good metaphor for masculinity?

How does empathy factor into achieving greater success?

What happens when you mistake your strengths for weaknesses?


Eric Yusko Bio


Eric Yusko founded Man of Class, Man of Class Podcast and is the exceptional life strategist for men who know there’s a lot more to life than just the everyday grind. He believes that there’s a better way for men to not only live a life of the daily grind, but a life that is worthy of being defined as exceptional.

Website: www.manofclass.com
Free eBook: www.manofclass.com/handbook

Social Media handle: @ericyusko

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eric.yusko.9
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ericyusko/

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Dr. John discusses the best mindsets for success in business with best-selling author and business coach, Dan LeFave.

Topics discussed include…

The best mindsets for entrepreneurs.

Best ways to implement new mindsets.

Other tools to manage the mind including Dan’s free gift, his productivity planner.

The best ways to scale a business.

Bio
Dan LeFave received life’s second chance when he survived a severe car accident that took three lives. He’s struggled through brain injuries, business failures, heartbreaks, running marathons and daily fights with fear and doubt.
 
He is the #1 Best-selling Author of Living the Life of Your Dreams - How To Stop Working Insane Hours And Start Living An Awesome Life.
 
Dan is the “No Excuse” 7-Figure High-Performance Business Coach; he helps business owners shift from being overwhelmed & disorganized to in control & systematized in just a few short weeks.

Social Media links
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lefavecoaching
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dan.lefave/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/danlefave/ 

Giveaway
https://www.3monthyearacademy.com/productivity-planner

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When he was a young man, Kon was drafted into the special forces in the Air Force in his native Greece. He also loved performing arts and dance. Impressively, he did both simultaneously. This part of Kon’s story really interested me in terms of how he balanced the masculine with the feminine.

How did Kon balance military, antiterrorism work (i.e., more stereotypically masculine) during the day with dance tights (i.e., more stereotypically feminine) at night?

What strengths did Kon pull out of this unique set of experiences? Toughness? Emotional IQ? Communication? A thick skin? Adaptability?

One of the hallmarks of mental health is flexibility of thought. How did Kon’s early experiences fuel his cognitive flexibility?

The top tools to navigate a crisis (which we are all in due to COVID).

What are some of the most needed attributes for effective titans of trade, or leaders in business?

What is your best piece of advice for other men who may be less far along in their journey?

About Kon
Konstantinos Apostolopoulos is the Founder & CEO of Fresh Biz Solutions, a Human Capital Management consulting group that provides performance improvement and training solutions to help organizations develop their people, improve business results, and reap the benefits of a comprehensive Talent Management strategy. He is also the coauthor of the timely book, “7 Keys to Navigating a Crisis: A Practical Guide for Emotionally Dealing with Pandemics & Other Disasters,” and a regular contributor to Thrive Global and Achievers Engagement Blog.
For More Info About Kon:
Web: freshbizsolutions.com
Email: kon@freshbizsolutions.com

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Watching Band of Brothers inspired Cameron Harman to volunteer for the U.S. Army. He wound up in the Afghanistan war. This is his story.

How does one go from solider to PTSD to spiritual student?

Is it necessary to be a mean, out-of-control a*****e to be respected as a leader in the military?

What motivates people better — fear or love?

To what extent is fear a necessary motivator in battle?

To what extent is physical strength needed to be masculine? Is it so important that steroids are a viable option?

What does PTSD look like/sound like/feel like?

The impact of insults on our masculinity and how easily manipulated we are by them (e.g., Cam wanted to get a brain scan for his traumatic brain injury due to an IED. His C.O.’s response, “Ok bitch boy, you go have the crazy doctors check you out!”).

What sort of psychological damage do we inflict on others when our masculinity and mental health are out of whack?

The big idea that depression in men comes out as irritability or alexithymia (i.e., the inability to name what you are feeling).

Cameron Harman, veteran of the U.S army and Afghanistan war. After service over seas he suffered from PTSD. He tried therapy and counseling both in the military and out. When he hit rock bottom, he began to study Buddhism and spirituality. He deeply connected to the texts and teachings. By practicing meditation and changing his perceptions, he healed my PTSD. His healing changed the way he sees the world. Hermit_Radio (podcast) was a way to give back to the world by sharing his knowledge. He now lives life with two principles: love everyone and tell the truth.

Website: Hermitcast.com
Podcast: https://anchor.fm/hermitradio
IG: hermit_radio
Twitter: hermit_radio

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Editing/Mixing/Mastering by: Brian Donat of B/Line Studios www.BLineStudios.com
Music by: Zak Gay http://otonamimusic.com/