Disagree better Tammy Lenski
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How we handle conflict has an impact on the resilience of our vital relationships, the caliber of our decisions, the success of our careers, and our peace of mind. Mediator, conflict resolution teacher, and author Tammy Lenski, Ed.D., uses storytelling and science to help us transform our experience with conflict and inspire us to disagree better at work and at home. The podcast was formerly called The Space Between.
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Discovering and managing your conflict hooks, part 1
One of the best ways to increase emotional agility in conflict is to recognize and manage your conflict hooks.
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Unburied empathy
What we do immediately after we express empathy helps or hinders the connection and alignment we’re trying to build.
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Use these 5 phrases to air your grievances and get heard
How to skip the drama and the rumination and raise a concern so they’ll actually listen.
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Disagree better by asking great questions
It’s tempting to tell people what they should do. It feels efficient, and it makes us feel helpful and wise. When we replace telling with asking, we can do something more powerful and, ultimately, more satisfying: Help people illuminate what’s important and generate effective solutions to problems.
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25 ways to disagree better from 25 years of writing about conflict resolution
My newsletter, Disagree Better, turns 25 this month. I’m marking the milestone with 25 ways to disagree better from a wide array of thinkers.
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Identify a problem’s primary drivers with a relationship diagram
One reason agreements and solutions fail is that they don’t sufficiently identify and address the root causes of the problem. Another is that they address behavioral elements of the conflict without also addressing systemic elements that drive the behavior. The Relationship Diagram is an excellent tool for overcoming both of these problem-solving hurdles.
Relationship diagram demo (video)
Episode transcript
Frame a solvable problem
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The Space Between
Excellent insights, strategies and wisdom on conflict management. A gem of a resource
Great Podcast
Lots of useful information and strategies.