16 min

The Struggle Is NOT Real: Why Believing 'LOVE IS HARD' Is Ruining Your Relationships Create Your Happy: Conscious Relationships with Others and Yourself

    • Relationships

🎉 Welcome to Episode 5 of Create Your Happy: "The Struggle Is NOT Real: Why Believing 'LOVE IS HARD' Is Ruining Your Relationships" 🎉



Hey there, beautiful souls! Christy Holt here, your Happiness Hussy, with another episode of the Create Your Happy podcast. Today, I’m debunking a pervasive myth that's tripping up so many in their quest for fulfilling relationships – the belief that love has to be hard. Are you ready to challenge this notion and find ease in love? Let's dive right in!



🔥 What You'll Learn in This Episode: 🔥


Why there is confusion around the misleading belief that relationships are inherently difficult.


Understanding that while relationships require effort, they shouldn't be a constant struggle.


The importance of self acceptance and unconditional love in creating effortless relationships.


My personal journey: From believing in the hardship of relationships to discovering ease and joy in love.


Why looking for difficulties can actually lead to experiencing more of them.





Featured Quotes:

“Relationships do require effort. But they shouldn't be a constant struggle.”

“The foundation of any relationship should be unconditional love and acceptance. And this starts within you.”

“If you're looking for and expecting difficulties, guess what you're going to see. Difficulties.”



Resources Just For You!

📓Check out my free mini eBook, "The Relationship Cheat Codes," for insights on reviving your relationships. Download here: https://bit.ly/cheatcodesebook

💖 Love Reimagined Mini-Course: Overhaul your love life with a fresh perspective. Enroll now! https://coachchristyholt.com/product/lovereimagined/

👩‍🏫 Private 1:1 Mentorship: Get personalized, deep-dive guidance to transform your relationships and life from the inside out. Apply now! https://bit.ly/happinesshussy



Connect with Christy:

Website: coachchristyholt.com

Facebook: facebook.com/coachchristyholt

Instagram: instagram.com/coachchristyholt

TikTok: tiktok.com/@happinesshussy



👉 Upcoming episodes:

Stay tuned for discussions on the illusion of perfection, the dangers of people pleasing, and how to handle a partner resistant to change. If you have any topics you'd love me to cover, reach out – I'm all ears!



Show Your Support!

Your support means the world to me! Follow, subscribe, rate, and share "Create Your Happy" with anyone looking to ease their love journey. Let's spread the joy of uncomplicated, healthy relationships. Thank you for being a part of this beautiful adventure!



Music Credit:

Big Adventure by Paul Yudin

License code: IFYBJMN4DCRTCSPO



PS. Remember, life is a messyfuckingbeautiful adventure. Embrace it, love yourself fiercely, and let's do some epic stuff together! 🚀


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Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christy-holt/message

🎉 Welcome to Episode 5 of Create Your Happy: "The Struggle Is NOT Real: Why Believing 'LOVE IS HARD' Is Ruining Your Relationships" 🎉



Hey there, beautiful souls! Christy Holt here, your Happiness Hussy, with another episode of the Create Your Happy podcast. Today, I’m debunking a pervasive myth that's tripping up so many in their quest for fulfilling relationships – the belief that love has to be hard. Are you ready to challenge this notion and find ease in love? Let's dive right in!



🔥 What You'll Learn in This Episode: 🔥


Why there is confusion around the misleading belief that relationships are inherently difficult.


Understanding that while relationships require effort, they shouldn't be a constant struggle.


The importance of self acceptance and unconditional love in creating effortless relationships.


My personal journey: From believing in the hardship of relationships to discovering ease and joy in love.


Why looking for difficulties can actually lead to experiencing more of them.





Featured Quotes:

“Relationships do require effort. But they shouldn't be a constant struggle.”

“The foundation of any relationship should be unconditional love and acceptance. And this starts within you.”

“If you're looking for and expecting difficulties, guess what you're going to see. Difficulties.”



Resources Just For You!

📓Check out my free mini eBook, "The Relationship Cheat Codes," for insights on reviving your relationships. Download here: https://bit.ly/cheatcodesebook

💖 Love Reimagined Mini-Course: Overhaul your love life with a fresh perspective. Enroll now! https://coachchristyholt.com/product/lovereimagined/

👩‍🏫 Private 1:1 Mentorship: Get personalized, deep-dive guidance to transform your relationships and life from the inside out. Apply now! https://bit.ly/happinesshussy



Connect with Christy:

Website: coachchristyholt.com

Facebook: facebook.com/coachchristyholt

Instagram: instagram.com/coachchristyholt

TikTok: tiktok.com/@happinesshussy



👉 Upcoming episodes:

Stay tuned for discussions on the illusion of perfection, the dangers of people pleasing, and how to handle a partner resistant to change. If you have any topics you'd love me to cover, reach out – I'm all ears!



Show Your Support!

Your support means the world to me! Follow, subscribe, rate, and share "Create Your Happy" with anyone looking to ease their love journey. Let's spread the joy of uncomplicated, healthy relationships. Thank you for being a part of this beautiful adventure!



Music Credit:

Big Adventure by Paul Yudin

License code: IFYBJMN4DCRTCSPO



PS. Remember, life is a messyfuckingbeautiful adventure. Embrace it, love yourself fiercely, and let's do some epic stuff together! 🚀


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Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christy-holt/message

16 min