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It's Episode #47 - #FreePalestine and we are joined by Dalia Fakih to talk about the very important issues that face us with regard to Palestine and Israel. We aim to set these discussions in a historical context and in light of the recent reports from Human Rights Watch and B’Tselem, which categorise Israel to be an apartheid state that persecutes the Palestinian people in the occupied territories, Israel proper and the Gaza Strip. 


 


Key Message: As Martin Luther King once said, “injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.”


 


Some of the key points we touch on in this episode:


- Zionism and History


- Geographical lay of the land


- Current situation - this is a human rights issue


- Recent escalations - how did this gain momentum?


- Media, censorship and international complicity


- Distinction between criticism of Israel & anti-semitism


- What is different this time and the solution?


- How to help


 


Who is Dalia?


Dalia Fakih, citizen of the world. A Cypriot of Palestinian and Lebanese decent, educated in the UK. Dalia is a law graduate here to start the conversation on Palestine and human rights. Talking about apartheid, persecution and what we can each do to see a free Palestine with justice and equality for all. Join the fight against selective human rights worldwide.


 


Further Resources


Human Rights Watch Report


B’Tselem – The Israeli Information Center for Human Rights in the Occupied Territories Report


Jewish Voice for Peace


BDS Movement


Eye on Palestine


 


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In this episode, Tom finally gets to talk about Football!


Yes, that's right, we're wading in with our thoughts on the recent European Super League debacle and pondering the problems that there are with the modern game. Are fans becoming increasingly seen as customers and consumers rather than fans? What were the proposals and why did they fail? Why wouldn't it be awesome to watch Liverpool v Real Madrid every week? What are the solutions to issues of ownership?


The backlash to the announcement of the European Super League from fans of all tribes and backgrounds was a fantastic moment for civil disobedience, people power and solidarity. It was a teachable moment and served as a microcosm of our society in this era of neo-liberal capitalism. Were the owners of the football clubs not just trying to secure their economic futures and pursue profits? The basis of our capitalist system.


We know there are many footaball fans out there with strong opinions on the European Super League plans. We hope that you enjoy the episode and get in touch to let us know what you think about what we've had to say here. What were your thoughts on the plans? Can the same impetus and movement be created around other social institutions that belong to the people; the NHS for example?


You can get in touch at all the usual places. Thank you for listening and we look forward to hearing from you!


T&S

To talk about violence against women, with invited back onto the podcast the amazing Kaley Ames for Episode #45. Continuing on from last episode’s chat about toxic masculinity, we explore the experience of women & the increased violence they face throughout their lives which can go largely unknown to the men around them. This isn’t a topic we think should be left for women to suffer silently, and so as usual, we think this is an incredibly important conversation to have. 


 


Some of the topics we cover in this episode:


the case of Sarah Everard 

the State responsibility to better protect women & vulnerable communities

effect of COVID-19 on domestic violence

toxic masculinity & the impact that has on women

the Patriarchy & women

impact of culture & media

getting men to care


 


We want to thank Kaley for her insightful conversation, providing a unique perspective on an issue Tom & I don’t have first-hand experience with. It’s through conversations such as this, that we can continue to open minds to the realities faced by our friends & family. By sharing stories of difficulties & moments of vulnerability, we can turn our sympathy into empathy and hopefully bring about the societal change that is so desperately needed. 


 


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Full show notes at tomstuandyou.com

Welcome to Episode #44 where we ask the question; “What is Toxic Masculinity?” Having personal experience with this subject, and recognizing the importance of discussing this topic with others, we were both excited and apprehensive to dive right into such a controversial topic. Masculinity is so tied up in our sense of identity, that it’s hard not to feel personally attacked whenever someone questions our manliness...but that’s kinda the problem in a nutshell. We need to redefine what it means to be a good man, because toxic masculinity affects not only boys & men, but society as a whole. 


 


Key message: “By far the worst thing we do to males — by making them feel they have to be hard — is that we leave them with very fragile egos.”


— Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, award-winning author


 


Here are some of the topics we look into throughout this conversation:


What is toxic masculinity?

Why is it an issue? 

Examples of toxic masculinity

Personal experiences with toxic masculinity


Argument that biology supports gender differences

Argument that gender is a social construct 

Capitalism and toxic masculinity

Even if there were biological differences, shouldn’t we want to create a more equal world?

How does socialization impact toxic masculinity?

Why the term toxic is triggering and using mindful masculinity instead


 


We know this is a difficult conversation to have. It’s hard to come to terms with our own self-identity, and when we question what makes us ‘a real man,’ it can be hard to put into words our feelings & values. That’s why we need to have this conversation though, because it’s hard is exactly why it’s so important. 


 


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Episode #43, our second of 2021, and it’s our most comprehensive episode yet! We chat to the incredible Robin Clapp about socialism, the current state of the political movement, its leadership challenges and why he’s still optimistic about youth in politics. Heads up, this is a long episode but if you’ve ever felt curious about socialism and want to learn more, Robin is a fascinating storyteller and the most knowledgeable guest we could have possibly found to discuss this topic. 


 


Key Message: Socialism is a form of activism that’s necessary for a better world. We just need to go to where the workers are.   


 


What we talk about in this episode:


Robin’s political journey to socialism

Why socialism

What socialism is

Break the ‘Us vs Them’ mentality

Challenges facing socialism

How do we get from Capitalism to Socialism

Socialism as activism

The importance of leadership

Marxism & Capital

Labour in the UK

Youth in politics


 


Further Resources


The Capitalist Crash and the New Challenges Facing Socialists

 Biden & The British Labour Party Leadership 

Global capitalism at most dangerous conjuncture since the 1930s


 


Who is Robin?


Robin has been a socialist since 1973 after witnessing his father lose 3 jobs in 12 months as a result of a massive recession. He currently sits on the National Committee of the Socialist Party of England and Wales. Full bio at Robin Clapp | Tom, Stu and You


 


You can follow Robin’s work at the below links:


Website


 


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Hello and happy new year everyone!


We hope that you are doing well and keeping safe at this difficult time! Episode 42 of the podcast is now live and available for you to listen to one the website, YouTube and all major podcasting platforms. We’re back after the Christmas and New Year break, shaking the rust off by looking back over the past year and pondering the future for 2021.


We appreciate that a lot of people will be keen to forget 2020 as quickly as possible but we feel it is important to look back over the year, review it, see what lessons there are to be learned and take that learning into the future. We talk about the things that have been revealed by the coronavirus pandemic, our value systems, the performance of our leaders, our relationship with the natural world and how our economic systems have worked during this time. We talk about what we’ve learned personally, what we can learn collectively as a society and what we hope for the future.


As always, we love to hear from you. Let us know what your thoughts are on the past year, lessons you’ve learned, things that have been highlighted to you and what you hope for 2021 on a personal and societal level. You can get in touch with us by email at hi@tomstuandyou.com, leave us a comment on YouTube or leave us a comment or send us a direct message on social media. Happy listening. We look forward to hearing from you.


Stay safe and take care everyone!


 


Further resources:


Ceeroo: 2020 Remixed https://youtu.be/eMOUTgWQM74 


Stu's 2020 Year in Review https://youtu.be/z7kJ8V4ZJgI