How to ask your boss for a pay rise

A tough conversation to have, but sometimes necessary. When is it appropriate? And how should you do it? As well, performance based shares, what is their purpose and when should you ask for them? 

(0:50) - "How do I ask my boss for a pay-rise?"

(10:10) - "What are the positives and negatives of asking for performance based shares?" 

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