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Through all the despair and hope, love will guide us to find our place back home. Let nature be our best friend and solace. Give yourself the love you deserve and share that love with those matter most to you. Let's us be grateful for this morning when we awaken alive in love.

What do you really want to do with your life? And what is your fuel to do it? These are 2 questions that keep me struggle for years. The answers don't come easily and mostly it comes to me through pain. It's said that love can move mountain, I am not sure it's true for me but it sustains and renews me everyday to do small things consistently. So you do it not to impress anyone or prove anything but to serve those you love. Even when you only love one person in your life, it's a huge source of strength. You don't just live for yourself but also for the one you love. Your heart beats for others as well. May you find your fuel! And maybe together we can move mountain. Be patient and pay attention inside yourself.

Birds don't wake up until 5.30am so this morning let's sit with them and hear them sing. And let's make a cup of tea to cherish a new day with them.

Freedom is not escaping a situation, it is a shift in mental state when there is clear seeing, acceptance and disidentification with content of mind. When the mind says: "i'm lost!", question it "is it true? where are you going?" if you are not going anywhere, how can you be lost? you are right here right now. Observing helps us to step back and have a necessary distance to painful thoughts to disidentification. What causes pain in relationship is none of people but attachment. Attachment is an invisible tie, in which one feels responsible for another. One tries to make decisions and fix another. There is fear and lack of trust. Attachment is natural, it's not wrong. It will naturally form in close relationship and pain is the opportunity to examine the dynamic. After seeing clearly the dynamic, detachment will happen. Detachment does not mean you become cold, indifferent to each other. On the contrary, you see each other clearer, without bias or prejudices, hold space better and become more loving, caring in an objective stance. You allow each other to be who we are and trust the struggle each handles without interfering. This is a lesson we learn through many relationships with parents, siblings, spouse, friends and it is not an easy process. The key to go through it is to not judge or label other as wrong, bad or villain but to see the interacting dynamic in between. When there is labeling there will be no room for examination because the mind has been biased. Just seeing and understanding its nature in your real relationships, it's worth it.

Life is comprised of transitions. Doors close and open. You are set on a path that you can never go backward. How to embrace yourself in those trying times? Solitude is my friend and I make my mind my best friend to have conversations that only me can express and hear me wholeheartedly. Surrender with gratitude for everything and everyone. Life does not always flow like a song and that is a gift for your maturity.

"My, my, time flies
A new day is on its way
So let's let yesterday go
Could be we step out again" Invite you to listen to the soft rain of early morning and feel sensations of each breath. Relax and immerse into the serenity of a new day. May you be loved!