Not Your Average Autism Mom Shannon Urquiola

In this episode of the Not Your Average Autism Mom podcast, we're tackling the ups and downs of video gaming for children on the autism spectrum. Video games can be both a
source of joy and frustration, providing excitement and a sense of control but also leading to emotional meltdowns when things don't go as planned. We dive into why video games are so appealing to autistic children and discuss the challenges they face when playing.

Key topics covered include:


Understanding the Appeal: Why video games are so
engaging for children on the spectrum.
Setting Boundaries: How to gradually reduce gaming time and set clear expectations.
Emotional Regulation: Strategies to help your child manage their emotions during and after gaming.
Managing Game Complexity: Identifying which
games cause more frustration and how to handle it.
Teaching Coping Skills: Using video games as a
tool to teach emotional control and frustration tolerance.
Partnering in Play: Playing alongside your child to
coach them through challenging game stages.
Building Competency: Focusing on positive reinforcement and building your child's coping skills.

Join us as we share practical tips and real-life scenarios to help you navigate the world of video games with your autistic child. With these strategies, you can
turn gaming time into an opportunity for growth and learning.

Tune in to learn more about managing video game frustrations and helping your child enjoy their gaming time while also developing essential life skills.

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These are our most downloaded Special Education Editions. We have these and many others too. It's important you understand what your expectations should and shouldn't be in relation to your child's education.

⁠⁠Episode 124. What to Do When They Say No [SPECIAL EDUCATION EDITION]⁠⁠

⁠⁠Episode 27. Special Education Things You Should Know [SPECIAL EDUCATION EDITION]⁠

⁠Episode 35. Early Intervention and IFSP Explained [SPECIAL EDUCATION EDITION]⁠

⁠Episode 73. Let's Clear Up the Confusion About Category of Eligibility [SPECIAL EDUCATION EDITION]


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Join host Shannon Urquiola on the Not Your Average Autism Mom podcast as she explores the theme of embracing the unexpected on the journey of
autism parenting. Think of this episode as the encouragement and pep talk you need on a tough day.

In this episode, Shannon shares her personal experiences and insights, from the initial fear and uncertainty of receiving her son's diagnosis to the unexpected joys and blessings that have unfolded along the way.

Shannon highlights the strength found in community, and the redefinition of success in the autism journey. She also discusses the challenges faced and the resilience cultivated, emphasizing the celebration of uniqueness and the joy and happiness found in embracing the unexpected.

Tune in to discover how embracing the unexpected can transform your perspective, and gain inspiration and encouragement for your autism parenting journey.

Join us as we navigate the complexities of parenthood, finding joy amidst the highs and lows, and embracing the extraordinary in the not-so-ordinary. 💙

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127. Seeing the Forest through the Trees

137. Explaining Our Children's Differences


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In this episode of the Not Your Average Autism Mom podcast, Shannon talks about autistic meltdowns and shutdowns—two very different ways that kids on the autism spectrum might react when things get too overwhelming.

She helps listeners spot the signs of each and understand what causes them.

Shannon shares helpful ways to handle these tough situations, giving advice for both right when they happen and for the long run. Whether your child has loud, upset reactions or goes very quiet and withdrawn, this episode gives you practical advice to help them through these times.

Tune in to learn how to support your child with kindness and understanding, making sure they feel safe and supported.

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⁠124. What to do When They Say No (Special Education Edition)


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In this episode of the Not Your Average Autism Mom podcast, Shannon gets passionate about building independence and ways you can begin teaching independence through everyday things.

She discussed the importance of teaching life skills from early childhood through the teenage years, highlighting the potential consequences of neglecting this aspect.

Throughout the episode, she shares practical strategies and real-life examples to guide you in supporting your children's journey toward independence.

From establishing routines and incorporating life skills into play to introducing chores and responsibilities, she provides actionable tips for you, regardless of where you are along your journey.

By the end of the episode, you will have gained a deeper understanding of the significance of promoting independence and will leave with concrete strategies to implement at home.

Join us as we navigate the complexities of parenthood, finding joy amidst the highs and lows, and embracing the extraordinary in the not-so-ordinary. 💙

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In this episode of the Not Your Average Autism Mom podcast, host Shannon Urquiola explores the concept of acceptance in the context of parenting children on the autism spectrum.

She discusses how accepting your child's diagnosis changes the trajectory of parenthood and reshapes the plans you once had.

Then she shares the concept of secondary losses - the unforeseen shifts and changes that accompany your journey. From the loss of certain milestones and expectations to the shift in social circles and relationships, she shares the impact of these secondary losses on your life.

Despite the challenges, you will find resilience, strength, and joy in the unexpected twists and turns of this parenting journey you weren't prepared for.

Join us as we navigate the complexities of parenthood, finding joy amidst the highs and lows, and embracing the extraordinary in the not-so-ordinary. 💙

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127. Seeing the Forest through the Trees

137. Explaining Our Children's Differences


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In Episode 182 of Not Your Average Autism Mom Podcast, we explore the complexities of sharing your child's autism diagnosis with others. This episode addresses the tough questions that arise as well as the conversations that may come up.

Host Shannon Urquiola navigates the intricacies of disclosure, discussing when, why, and how parents should share this information with family, friends, and caregivers. Drawing from personal experiences and expert insights, Shannon offers practical advice for handling this sensitive topic.

Listeners will gain valuable insights into the potential benefits and challenges of disclosure, as well as strategies for managing both positive and negative reactions from those they confide in. From dispelling myths to navigating meaningful conversations, this episode highlights the
importance of autism awareness and understanding within our inner circles.

Join us as we unravel the autism disclosure dilemma and empower parents to make informed decisions that best support their child's unique journey. Tune in for heartfelt discussions, expert tips, and compassionate guidance on this vital aspect of the autism parenting experience.

And please, take a minute to leave us a review if you found this episode helpful! Your review matters and your feedback helps us continue providing valuable content to you.

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⁠150. From Struggles to Strength; Relationship Survival Guide

⁠136. The Truth About Being Triggered⁠

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