4 REAL TALKERS

4 REAL TALKERS hosted by Bobbi and Jen

Hosted by Bobbi Scott and Jen, we give advice along with lots of laughs discussing relationships, situationships, love, lust, intimacy, womanhood and life”s highs and lows straight from our hearts. We believe it’s time to ditch small talk and stop wasting precious time. It is time to get real. The show is unrehearsed. We hit record and let the authenticity flow. Our candid conversations, aim to boost confidence, breakdown fears and foster healthier relationships. Join us and our guests as we take you on a journey of raw emotions and relationship revelations as “real people say real things”

Episodes

  1. 06/12/2023

    Creating a Safe Space for Men to be Vulnerable with Bobbi and Jen

    How vulnerable are you as a man? Ladies, do you create a safe space to be vulnerable with you? In this episode, Jen and I have an eye-opening conversation about the importance of creating a safe space for men to be vulnerable in relationships. We touch on the societal pressures that often hinder men from expressing their emotions and the impact it has on their relationships. Also, we discuss the essence of open communication, the significance of actively listening, and providing a non-judgmental environment for men to share their feelings and fears. We shed light on the stigmas surrounding vulnerability, especially within black communities, and highlight the necessity for a shift in mindset. In the upcoming episode, Jen and I plan to bring on male guests to share their perspectives on why men often struggle to find a safe space to be vulnerable in relationships. It promises to be an enlightening and robust discussion, offering valuable insights and thoughtful reflections. Key Talking Points of the Episode: 04:04 How attitude influences judgment and communication. 09:45 Creating a safe space for your man to be vulnerable 15:35 Benefits of vulnerability in a relationship 18:23 Recap on lopsided relationships and staying in emotional captivity 20:27 Grab yourself a shirt! Magical Quotes from the Episode: "When a person feels like you're going to be judging them, it's going to make it that much more difficult for them to feel safe, to open up." "When your man is being vulnerable with you, the best thing we could probably do is shut up." "One hand washes the other, and we could wash our faces together." "Don't let anybody else make your guide, man, husband, lover, and partner feel safer with them than with you." Links and Resources: 4 Real Talkers relationship card game: https://www.4realtalkers.com Real Talk T-Shirts & Merch: https://4realtalkers.com/collections/tshirts Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/4realtalkers/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/4realtalkers/

    22 min

  2. 21/01/2023

    Dating - Mixed Messages

    Do you give mixed messages when dating? Are you confusing your love interest? Say what you mean and mean what say. Its not a good idea to send mixed message

    20 min
  • 2 Episodes

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Hosted by Bobbi Scott and Jen, we give advice along with lots of laughs discussing relationships, situationships, love, lust, intimacy, womanhood and life”s highs and lows straight from our hearts. We believe it’s time to ditch small talk and stop wasting precious time. It is time to get real. The show is unrehearsed. We hit record and let the authenticity flow. Our candid conversations, aim to boost confidence, breakdown fears and foster healthier relationships. Join us and our guests as we take you on a journey of raw emotions and relationship revelations as “real people say real things”

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    4 REAL TALKERS hosted by Bobbi and Jen
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