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We thought as the New Year 2021 is upon us maybe it would be a good thing to start in on a different note promoting the art of emotional intelligence. I sat down with my friend Andrew Tsuro where we spoke on a couple of things.

Andrew shared with us what it is to be intelligent emotionally as well as highlighting some of the things that help him to stand out as a cooperate trainer and speaker.

When leaders build leaders the world becomes a better place.

I had the privilege of sitting down with Irene Fitzi who is the found of Building A Future and organisation based in Barkley West here in the Northern Cape right outside Kimberley where people are not so privileged but she managed to challenge the status quo at a very early age as a young woman and stood for what she believed.

She is an excellent example of servant leadership and we discuss a lot more on how she gets into the places she enter. There is a lot more that can be achieved if we believe and help those who look up to us.

We should want a partner that makes us feel good more than one that makes us look good. What we feel inside can never be replaced by how we look.

We are not born Narcissists but we become that through how we are brought up. Its a trait that develops as we grow. It is mostly caused by what happened to us.

Here are just a few of the characteristics we can use to identify symptoms :
Desires Constant support
Always feels horribly wounded when criticised
Hates negative feedback
Lacks empathy
Great sense of self importance
Believes that they special and can be understood by special people too
Always thinking of being in power
Takes advantage of others to get their own way

We all have times we question ourselves as to whether we are really living to the fullest of our potential or not.

Many times people jump into things they are not called for all because of peer pressure. The people we live with and the people we work with many at times non physically push us into doing things we do not really wanna do all because it is not in line with who we are or what we stand for.

It is now time that we stop allowing voices of others to dictate who we are meant to be.

Our lives as we know them have changed, courtesy of the new normal which allows people to be who they truly are but just in different ways.
Have you found where you fit in, How effective is your skillset in such a time, and are you staying relevant?

Not every hand that helps you is really helping you because sometimes your growth is restricted due to the help you get.

Do it yourself, fail, and keep trying again.

Making a difference can be derived from doing what we can with what we have with the aim of wanting to change the lives of others but our definitions of success can not be determined for us by society.

We as individuals define what is success to us based on what we want to achieve and where we hope to be tomorrow. Using your passion as a pathway to get to success is the best and cheapest form.
Identify the passion and make use of it until you attain success.