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It’s been a rich experience discovering more about gender fluidity for Eva Oh through her sex worker community and the many requests around it at the dungeon. But it’s a process still in progress, and on this episode of the #teakink Podcast Eva attempts to break her experience down. Including some pointers on the challenging balance of our choices of gender presentation, profit and personal sanity.More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Question on Gender Fluidity within BDSM and Sex Work(01:40) - Opening My Eyes at the Dungeon(03:30) - Thoughts On Presenting in Sex Worker Branding(06:30) - Gender Exploration within Session(10:20) - Presenting, Profit and Personal Sanity

Eva Oh has had a complicated and sometimes rough time in figuring out where her boundaries lie. From the mishap of falling in love with a client, to being asked about personal trauma during a session - it hasn’t been a straightforward path in her work as a Dominatrix. The process of establishing and defining healthy boundaries is an ongoing one for Eva, and maybe it doesn’t need to be so complex - but for her it is, and we hear all about it’s nuance in this episode of the #teakink Podcast.More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com#teakink Episode, “Would A Sex Worker Date You?”: https://podcast.teakink.com/episodes/would-a-sex-worker-date-you(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Question on My Boundaries(01:05) - A Complicated and Ongoing Path(03:30) - I Was Shocked Into Developing Professional Boundaries(08:00) - Falling In Love, with Clients(!)(09:50) - What Stability Has to Do With It(11:15) - My Process(11:39) - How Sex Work Informed My Personal Worth and Boundaries(12:47) - It Can Get Complex/Complicated(14:35) - Communicating Boundaries and Understanding

From installing CCTV, to office lingerie tasks and Airbnb Hosting - Eva Oh shares ideas on the wide range of long distance relationship building activities that she has implemented over her years as a Dominatrix.More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Question on Long Distance BDSM Games(00:40) - How I Discovered Long Distance(02:00) - I Prefer - Service(04:10) - “Traditional” Long Distance Games(05:10) - How I Do Personal Long Distance(06:11) - Sustainability for the Top(07:15) - My OnlyFans Play(08:06) - Personal vs Professional Pointers(09:20) - Task Automation and Online Courses on youwillpleaseme.com(11:11) - Tracking and Lifestyle Apps(12:10) - CCTV and Phone Speakers, Consensually Please

Is there a difference between women, non-binary and other clients? Do they apply for a session differently, have differing kinks or play styles? Eva Oh reveals how her bias is the key defining factor in her work with a wide range of individuals as a Dominatrix in this episode of the #teakink Podcast.More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Question on the differences between Women, NB and Other Clients(00:45) - The Evolution of My Understanding(02:55) - My Bias(04:20) - I Need to Expand My Sample Size(05:50) - Application Quality(06:05) - When You Are In My Hands(08:13) - The Limitations of the Professional Session(09:00) - The Differences in My Personal Interactions(11:40) - My Ever Evolving Answer

Eva Oh dived head first into a BDSM dungeon with no kink or sex work experience - but she wouldn’t be where she is today if she hadn’t paid attention to the many kind (and not so kind) individuals along the way. In this episode of the #teakink Podcast Eva introduces us to a few key people who have helped her develop her place in the industry, her opinion on Dominatrix Schools and Workshops and why she offers her Mentoring Calls and Training Sessions at this stage of her career.

Book a Mentoring Call or Training Session: https://eva-oh.com/training

(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Question on Mentorship(01:18) - My Mentor Calls and Training Sessions(02:30) - My Mentors(07:20) - Elders in the Dominatrix Community(09:05) - My Opinion on Dominatrix Schools and Workshops(11:39) - Finding Mentors(14:20) - Personal vs Professional Mentorship(17:39) - Leatherfolk, Families and their Value(21:40) - Booking a Mentoring Call or Training Session

Eva Oh’s naivety shielded her from the initial realities of competition and sabotage in the sex industry, but she had to learn some hard lessons eventually. In this episode of the #teakink Podcast Eva answers a question on how rivalry in the industry exists, revealing a slightly rough journey from competition within the brothel styled system of the Dungeon, to gossip over social media; and how she continues to navigate how to best align herself with those who share her values in the present day.

More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com

(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Question on Rivalry in the Sex Industry(00:45) - How I See “Stolen” Clients(02:00) - How I See “Competition”(03:00) - The Influence of Sibling Rivalry(04:50) - My Naivety(05:00) - The Competitiveness of the Dungeon(05:20) - Sabotage(11:45) - Competition vs Camaraderie, and Social Media’s Role(17:00) - Rivalry within Deeper Relationships(18:40) - The Potential Intensity of Sex Worker Friendship(20:03) - Aligning Your Values(21:20) - Some People Adore Drama