Relatable with Allie Beth Stuckey Blaze Podcast Network

Today, we sit down with family vloggers Sam and Nia Rader. Back in 2015, this Christian couple's world was turned upside down during a data breach of the infidelity website "Ashley Madison." Because of this breach, names of people who had signed up for the site, seeking to have an affair, became public. Sam's name was included in the leak. The couple then faced an uphill battle as they struggled to heal their marriage, sought true repentance, and dealt with the publicity of their marital struggles. They recently told their story again to Netflix in the streaming company's documentary on the data leak. We ask them to delve into their story and share what they believe Netflix got wrong.

Get Sam and Nia's book here:
https://www.amazon.com/Sam-Nia-Live-Truth-Restored/dp/B0D4657827

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Timecodes:

(01:08) Sam & Nia introduction
(03:00) How Sam & Nia went viral
(09:35) Signing up for ‘Ashley Madison’
(20:20) Getting convicted
(26:10) Finding out about the leak
(37:28) What happened after the leak
(48:00) Nia's feelings & Sam's repentance
(52:07) The Bible & divorce
(56:05) Netflix's portrayal
(01:00:51) Backlash & healing from infidelity
(01:07:29) Where to find their book

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Ep 957 | How the Gospel Heals Anger, Addiction & Adultery | Guest: Jeff Allen
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Ep 989 | Nickelodeon Has a Predator Problem
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Today, we sit down with Dr. Lauren Rubal, a Reproductive Endocrinology & Infertility physician who focuses on fertility, recurrent miscarriage, painful, irregular, or heavy cycles, and menopause through an integrative lens. Instead of taking a bandaid, one-size-fits-all approach, Dr. Rubal views each patient as an entire person - body, mind, and soul - and works to address the root cause of reproductive disorders. But she wasn't always in this field. Dr. Rubal started her career in conventional medicine, and even practiced IVF. What prompted her to leave and start her own practice? How does Integrative Medicine differ from a more typical medical approach? What's so bad about IVF? Is there any such thing as "ethical" IVF? And why is hormonal birth control an ineffective treatment? We address all that and more.

Find Dr. Rubal at:
https://www.laurenrubalmd.com/

Get your tickets for Share the Arrows: https://www.sharethearrows.com/

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Timecodes:

(01:22) About Dr. Rubal & her practice
(05:20) The process of IVF
(13:11) Ethics of “donating” sperm
(15:15) Egg fertilization & the fate of embryos
(20:17) Egg grading & testing
(34:55) Embryo transfer process
(43:55) Risk of miscarriage
(45:10) More ethical IVF?
(46:15) Selective reductions
(51:11) Why Dr. Rubal left the IVF practice
(58:47) Why we need education about fertility
(01:04:57) Her integrative approach to health
(01:07:25) Where to find Dr. Rubal

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Relevant Episodes:

Ep 976 | Birth Control: What the Media Won’t Tell You
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-976-birth-control-what-the-media-wont-tell-you/id1359249098?i=1000650764644

Ep 959 | Birth Control Is Making Women Bisexual | Guest: Emily Detrick
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-959-birth-control-is-making-women-bisexual-guest/id1359249098?i=1000647441400

Ep 254 | Birth Control, IVF & Surrogacy
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-254-birth-control-ivf-surrogacy/id1359249098?i=1000475691301

Ep 695 | Why Children's Rights Trump Adults' Feelings | Guest: Katy Faust
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-695-why-childrens-rights-trump-adults-feelings-guest/id1359249098?i=1000583336623

Ep 554 | IVF, Embryo Adoption, & Surrogacy: Answering the Hard Questions | Guest: Jennifer Lahl
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-554-ivf-embryo-adoption-surrogacy-answering-the/id1359249098?i=1000549207733

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Today, we discuss some news in the Baptist church — Pastor Tony Evans has decided to step down due to a "secret" past sin. Is he obligated to confess his sin? In related news, the Southern Baptist Church is expected to outlaw female pastors and issue a resolution urging the government to limit IVF. We discuss what these votes mean for the future of the church. Plus, more of Cru's LGBTQ curriculum recently leaked, and we go through some concerns we have with it.

Get your tickets for Share the Arrows: https://www.sharethearrows.com/

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Timecodes:

(00:00) Introduction
(01:09) Tony Evans steps down
(13:09) SBC to vote on female pastors & IVF
(29:29) Cru LGBTQ Curriculum Update
(57:31) Announcements

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Relevant Episodes:

Ep 669 | My Thoughts on Matt Chandler & Baptist Theology
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Ep 607 | John MacArthur, Hillsong Documentary, & SBC Drama | Guest: Megan Basham
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/relatable-with-allie-beth-stuckey/id1359249098?i=1000558899144

Ep 765 | Can Women Be Pastors? | BSC vs. Saddleback | Q&A
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/relatable-with-allie-beth-stuckey/id1359249098?i=1000603031549

Ep 960 | Unraveling Cru's Troubling LGBTQ Curriculum
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/relatable-with-allie-beth-stuckey/id1359249098?i=1000647583878

Ep 908 | Calling Out Cru's LGBTQ Compromise
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Ep 796 | Former Lesbian Activist Calls "Soft" Christians to Repentace | Guest: Rosaria Butterfield
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/relatable-with-allie-beth-stuckey/id1359249098?i=1000610921016

Ep 782 | 'Pronoun Hospitality' Is Sin: Rosaria Butterfield's Confession
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/relatable-with-allie-beth-stuckey/id1359249098?i=1000607404995

Ep 896 | From 'Trans Men' to Transformed by Christ | Guest: Laura Perry Smalts (Part One)
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/relatable-with-allie-beth-stuckey/id1359249098?i=1000632613519

Ep 897 | A Detransitioner on the Lie of Trans ‘Joy’ | Guest: Laura Perry Smalts (Part Two)
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-897-a-detransitioner-on-the-lie-of-trans/id1359249098?i=1000632747460

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Today, we discuss some stories of Christian courage, including high school student Micah Price and NBA coach Joe Mazzulla. Micah Price was denied his diploma for praising Jesus in his grad speech in violation of school policy, while Joe Mazzulla gave a fiery answer to a reporter at a press conference. In other news, 'Jars of Clay' lead singer Dan Haseltine posted in support of Pride month, using Scripture to justify his position. We explain why he is wrong, and why Christians cannot support same-sex unions. Plus, Ergobaby recently voiced its support for transgenderism in children. And what was up with Joe Biden on D-Day?

Get your tickets for Share the Arrows: https://www.sharethearrows.com/

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Timecodes:

(01:46) Micah Price
(13:48) Joe Mazzulla
(23:32) Share the Arrows event
(26:21) Father's Day merch
(29:00) Christian singer supports "Pride"
(38:27) Testimony from Relatable listener
(41:23) Ergobaby supports transing children
(57:50) Joe Biden D-Day

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Relevant Episodes:

Ep 717 | From Porn Star to Pastor | Guest: Joshua Broome
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Ep 896 | From 'Trans Men' to Transformed by Christ | Guest: Laura Perry Smalts (Part One)
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/relatable-with-allie-beth-stuckey/id1359249098?i=1000632613519

Ep 413 | The Dead End of Deconstruction | Guest: Alisa Childers
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Ep 920 | Russell Moore, David French & the Fake Threat of Christian Nationalism | Guest: John Cooper
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/relatable-with-allie-beth-stuckey/id1359249098?i=1000638231068

Ep 726 | 'The Chosen:' Questions & Controversies | Guest: Dallas Jenkins
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/relatable-with-allie-beth-stuckey/id1359249098?i=1000590668548

Ep 808 | Lauren Daigle Has "No Idea" About Abortion Law. Is That Ok?
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/relatable-with-allie-beth-stuckey/id1359249098?i=1000613574084

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Today, we sit down with medical doctor and researcher Dr. Calum Miller to discuss his pro-life conversion, faith journey, what motivates women to have abortions, and how pro-lifers can fight back. What role does the Christian concept of "dying to self" play in choosing the life of the baby? How can pro-lifers convince women of the value of human life and the evil of abortion? What is "abortion colonialism"? And how can the pro-life movement be proactive in fighting abortion worldwide?

Find Dr. Miller at:
https://calumsblog.com/
https://calummiller.org/

Get your tickets for Share the Arrows: https://www.sharethearrows.com/

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Timecodes:

(02:50) Becoming pro-life in the UK
(12:18) Theological and political change
(15:40) Abortion extremism
(24:13) Why women choose abortion
(37:06) Dying to self in parenthood
(41:05) Extramarital sex & collapse of marriage
(47:01) "Abortion colonialism"
(51:03) How to end abortion worldwide

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Ep 674 | How the Sexual Revolution Broke Us | Guest: Louise Perry
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/relatable-with-allie-beth-stuckey/id1359249098?i=1000578738363

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Today, we sit down with author and senior fellow at the Claremont Institute Jeremy Carl to discuss his new book, "The Unprotected Class: How Anti-White Racism Is Tearing America Apart." How is anti-white racism invading American workplaces and the evangelical church? How does anti-white discrimination impact high-risk career paths, including pilots and doctors? And what should conservative Christians do to combat white guilt masked as humility?

Get Jeremy's book, "The Unprotected Class: How Anti-White Racism Is Destroying America," at https://www.regnery.com/9781684514588/the-unprotected-class/

Get your tickets for Share the Arrows: https://www.sharethearrows.com/

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Timecodes:

(01:28) Introduction to Jeremy’s work
(05:27) Response to George Floyd & racial rhetoric
(14:09) In groups and out groups
(18:29) Anti-white discrimination in civil rights laws
(22:15) Affirmative action & disparities
(41:35) Representation in media
(49:31) Anti-white racism in Evangelicalism
(55:45) Immigration
(01:03:24) Social Justice
(01:16:14) Workplace Discrimination
(01:19:00) Where do we go from here?

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Relevant Episodes:

Ep 282 | Exposing & Opposing Social Justice Theology | Guest: Dr. Voddie Baucham
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/relatable-with-allie-beth-stuckey/id1359249098?i=1000486696085

Ep 878 | Why Does Social Justice Divide the Church? | Guest: Voddie Baucham
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/relatable-with-allie-beth-stuckey/id1359249098?i=1000629116107

Ep 985 | Why DEI Always Leads to LGBTQ | Guest: Delano Squires
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-985-why-dei-always-leads-to-lgbtq-guest-delano-squires/id1359249098?i=1000652534041

Ep 792 | What's to Blame for the Chicago 'Teen Takeover'? | Guest: Heather MacDonald
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-792-whats-to-blame-for-the-chicago-teen-takeover/id1359249098?i=1000609986059

Ep 460 | How Social Justice Activism is Infecting the Church | Guest: Dr. Voddie Baucham
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/relatable-with-allie-beth-stuckey/id1359249098?i=1000530206985

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Buy Allie's book, You're Not Enough (& That's Okay): Escaping the Toxic Culture of Self-Love: https://alliebethstuckey.com/book
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